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Someone Asks "What Are You Convinced People Are Pretending To Enjoy?" And 35 People Answer

Someone Asks "What Are You Convinced People Are Pretending To Enjoy?" And 35 People Answer

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Trends come and go, and most people want to feel included in them, which probably results in a lot of them pretending to like something just to fit in. It seems that whenever you don't like something that's very popular you're met with "what?!" or just get labeled as a hipster. So this Redditor decided to ask an important and fun question: "What are you convinced people are pretending to enjoy?"
People were quick to jump in and give their honest answers. Some named some really popular things that a lot of people seem to like, while some named some more peculiar and specific ones. If you have an answer yourself, feel free to share it in the comment section below! And if you liked this post, click here for a similar one.

#1

Nothing. People legitimately have different tastes. Just let people enjoy their IPAs/gin/pickles/spicy food/whatever. If that's not your thing, have something else.
253points

#2

Someone Asks "What Are You Convinced People Are Pretending To Enjoy?" And 35 People Answer
The Kardashians.
193points

We asked Patrice Oppliger, Ph.D., some questions about this topic, and she gave some amazing insights: "I agree there are significant social pressures. One of the theories we teach is the theory of reasoned action - that it appears someone's attitude does not match their behaviors; however, there is a social norm element.

I think people often 'fake it until they make it' or are simply giving something a try. I recall not caring for Schitt's Creek initially. Everyone kept telling me to stick with it. It's one of my all-time favorite shows."

#3

Someone Asks "What Are You Convinced People Are Pretending To Enjoy?" And 35 People Answer
Bars and restaurants with loud music and terrible acoustics. What’s the point in being social in a place where they’re trying to make it hard for you to socialize?
182points

#4

Someone Asks "What Are You Convinced People Are Pretending To Enjoy?" And 35 People Answer
Baby showers/reveal parties
168points

"There is also cognitive dissonance at play. When one invests time and energy into a hobby, for example, they may convince themselves they enjoy it because if not, they are inconsistent and have wasted time."

#5

Reality TV. How is watching garbage people complain about their lives entertainment?
156points

#6

Someone Asks "What Are You Convinced People Are Pretending To Enjoy?" And 35 People Answer
Those big spider-leg eyelashes they pay for and put on.
152points

"It's generally benign to pretend to like something. The individual may not want to offend others who genuinely like it, or it is something that connects them to others. We all have the desire to fit in. It's a survival tactic. Where there may be some harm is if the activity is hurting others - something that includes racism or sexism, for example.

In my study of humor (The Dark Side of Stand-Up Comedy: Oppliger & Shouse, 2020, Palgrave), I find that laughing at a joke may appear to signal enjoyment - but it could also be politeness, discomfort, or peer pressure. For example, Will Smith's facial expression appeared to signal his enjoyment of Chris Rock's joke about Smith's wife."

#7

3 hour long church services. Jesus gave the sermon on the mound in like 5 minutes. Get over your ego pastor!
150points

#8

Someone Asks "What Are You Convinced People Are Pretending To Enjoy?" And 35 People Answer
The Happy Birthday song. Everyone feels awkward singing it, and awkward having it sung at them. Can we please just not?
148points

#9

Someone Asks "What Are You Convinced People Are Pretending To Enjoy?" And 35 People Answer
Long-a*s, boring videos of their friends' kids.
139points

#10

Reaction videos. Why would anyone care how a stranger reacts to something? Most of the time, the reaction isn't even real and just played up for the camera.
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123points

#11

Someone Asks "What Are You Convinced People Are Pretending To Enjoy?" And 35 People Answer
Live action remakes
121points

#12

Open relationships. I'm sure there's some genuine believers but I wonder how many partners are opening up their relationship to keep their partner and just are afraid to be alone and date again. When I see couples talk about it it always looks like one person is way more into it than the other.
119points

#13

Someone Asks "What Are You Convinced People Are Pretending To Enjoy?" And 35 People Answer
Having constant drama at work, in friend groups, and elsewhere really can't be all that exciting... can it? If I have one friend causing me too much drama I usually avoid it like it's the plague.
116points

#14

Someone Asks "What Are You Convinced People Are Pretending To Enjoy?" And 35 People Answer
Podcasts where the hosts just laugh at everything they/other hosts/guests say. Nothing is that funny for that long, dude.
110points

#15

Someone Asks "What Are You Convinced People Are Pretending To Enjoy?" And 35 People Answer
Clubbing. It's loud, there's 50 people all up in your space constantly, the music sucks half the time, the alcohol is watered down, there's so many drunk people that have to be either carried out or they puke all over the sidewalk outside, everything is overpriced. Literally nothing about it is good enough to warrant doing it repeatedly.
110points

#16

Someone Asks "What Are You Convinced People Are Pretending To Enjoy?" And 35 People Answer
LinkedIn.
109points

#17

Twitter.
I can't comprehend why anyone would WANT to "tweet"
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106points

#18

Someone Asks "What Are You Convinced People Are Pretending To Enjoy?" And 35 People Answer
Trying to make everything Instagram ready.
I've fallen in that trap before, deleted everything but Reddit.
I'm much happier now living in the moment, watching my kids play instead of taking photos of them, eating my food instead of standing above it trying to take a picture in a crowded restaurant.
Once you stop feeding your ego, a lot of worry stops with it.
102points

#19

Abstract modern art. You know, the orange square on a blank canvas type thing. “It really speaks to me.” 🤨
102points

#20

Someone Asks "What Are You Convinced People Are Pretending To Enjoy?" And 35 People Answer
American talent shows like quite literally “America’s got talent”, and “American Idol”. Who the f**k are these shows catered to? The dialogue is cheesy, idiotic, and fake as f**k and the structure doesn’t make sense. Back then it had categories and the contestants would compete against their own groups which at least made it somewhat interesting. Now? Anything f*****g goes, and you could have a wanna-be jabawacky dance group of about 20 people Vs little Timmy playing a harmonica with his a*****e. It makes no god damn sense.
100points
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