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50 “Normal” Things People Still Find Bizarre Or Wrong
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50 “Normal” Things People Still Find Bizarre Or Wrong

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Things can change quite a bit as the years fly by. Shocker, we know! But the reality is that it’s quite difficult for some people to adapt to changes in behavior and new social norms. Especially if they were used to the world functioning entirely differently for a large portion of their lives.
Not all changes are for the better, however. In an online discussion sparked by u/PrestonRoad90, the members of the r/AskOldPeople group shared their brutally honest thoughts about modern society. They openly criticized the things that are normalized that they believe are actually harmful. Scroll down to check out their opinions.

#1

50 “Normal” Things People Still Find Bizarre Or Wrong
A President who cruelly insults others as easily and frequently as drinking a soda.

A President who twitters his followers the craziest things so regularly that it’s become accepted as normal for his followers. One example of numerous tweets: “I HATE TAYLOR SWIFT.”

The more ridiculous and crazy things he says and does, the more his supporters cheer him on.

Referring to immigrants he warns Americans during a televised debate:“They’re eating the pets.” His weird statements and unstable behavior is regularly “sane-washed” by supporters.

Never in my lifetime could I have imagined a convicted felon would be elected as the president of our country.

A President who pardons the criminals who injured our Capitol police officers after they protected the members of Congress.

Never in my lifetime could I have dreamed of a President who would threaten and attack our European allies while cozying up to Russia.
121points

#2

50 “Normal” Things People Still Find Bizarre Or Wrong
People thinking their uneducated opinion is just as good as that of people who took the time to study and learn a particular discipline. I’m not saying we should blindly accept the word of every professional out there, by all means, get a second or third or even more opinion from other professionals. But no, watching a bunch of online videos isn’t the same as med school.
100points

#3

50 “Normal” Things People Still Find Bizarre Or Wrong
Abortion bans. Women having fewer rights now than then.
94points

One of the things criticized in the intriguing online thread was everyone’s obsession with staring at screens “all day.” In many developed nations—where phones, tablets, laptops, PCs, and TVs are relatively accessible—there are lots of questions about the time people spend looking at screens and the impact this has on their health and early development.

For example, France has plans to further restrict mobile phone use in middle schools for the entire school day from September for 11-to-15-year-olds. Their devices will be placed in a locker or pouch at the start of the school day and will be given back when it ends, The Guardian reports.

“At a time when the use of screens is being widely questioned because of its many harmful effects, this measure is essential for our children’s wellbeing and success at school,” said Élisabeth Borne, the Minister of National Education, Higher Education and Research.

#4

50 “Normal” Things People Still Find Bizarre Or Wrong
Parents letting their kids behave like unruly monsters in public and not disciplining them.
83points

#5

50 “Normal” Things People Still Find Bizarre Or Wrong
Open government corruption. Politicians publicly calling one another names on a whim.

Openly eliminating much needed social programs without fearing the consequences.

Overfeeding billionaires while starving those in need.

OPENLY EMBRACING FASCISM AND NAZISM.

Being proud to be a racist.

Stealing.
78points

#6

50 “Normal” Things People Still Find Bizarre Or Wrong
Tipping for every mundane transaction.

Tipping used to be for people doing actual service. Waiting your table at a restaurant or delivering food to your house. Doing your yard care. Something that involved significant action or effort.

Now there's tip jars sitting in front of every cashier.

fwiw, I would prefer to just raise all service employees wages and get rid of tipping altogether.
75points

France had already banned kids from using phones in all middle schools back in 2018. The result was an increase in social interaction, exercise, concentration, and less bullying. That being said, some kids would still sneakily watch videos on their phones during their breaks. Meanwhile, digital devices are banned in primary schools

Now, the line of thinking is that the approach needs to be taken even further, separating school kids from their devices for the entire school day. Many parents and teachers support these changes.

“A young person now spends on average five hours a day in front of a screen, but they only spend three hours a week with a book […] Not only is reading going down, but for those who do read, half of them are doing something else on their phone at the same time. All that is damaging to students’ success,” said education minister Borne.

#7

50 “Normal” Things People Still Find Bizarre Or Wrong
I was watching a young father on YouTube reacting to Mr. Dressup, an old Canadian kid’s tv show.

Mr. Dressup was playing with a worm and making crafts out of a paper bag. The host said really complimentary things about the show, but said it lacked an educational element. He missed the point- teaching about respecting nature and being creative is just as important as learning your ABC’s. 

I think people nowadays are so focused on productivity that they don’t see the value in life’s most simple activities, like digging in dirt and scribbling on a piece of paper. .
68points

#8

50 “Normal” Things People Still Find Bizarre Or Wrong
Recording crime or misfortune with your phone and not actually doing something to help.
65points

#9

50 “Normal” Things People Still Find Bizarre Or Wrong
N*zis. Open racism. Oligarchy. Misogyny. Being anti-education, anti-science, anti-American. It's really quite striking as much of this stuff we hear/see in the media today would have gotten people beaten or at least their careers ended when I was a kid in the 70s. Watergate, we thought, was as bad as it would ever get.

Just overall being *mean* to people...that was something bullies did, and they got their asses kicked for it. But now it's a culture all its own, and we elevate people who take glee in making others suffer. It's gross.
62points

According to Cropink, the global average screen time is a jaw-dropping 6 hours 58 minutes per day. A whopping 41% of adults spend over 9 hours in front of screens every day. Moreover, young adults aged 18 to 24 average over 9 hours of screen time per day.

Some of the biggest worries of spending so much time in front of screens include a higher risk of anxiety and depression, developing sleep disorders, and eye strain.

Meanwhile, Verywell Mind warns that too much screen time carries other risks such as weight issues due to unhealthy eating and less physical activity, behavior and mood issues, lower academic performance, less sociability, poor self-image, and even internet addiction.

#10

50 “Normal” Things People Still Find Bizarre Or Wrong
Children mis-behaving and not having consequences. Now, every child has a disorder as an excuse for being a brat.

Children run the family now.
56points

#11

50 “Normal” Things People Still Find Bizarre Or Wrong
I am an introvert, but I think things were better when people were forced to interact socially more. People have forgotten how to be polite and respectfully disagree. It’s sad.
55points

#12

50 “Normal” Things People Still Find Bizarre Or Wrong
Politicians in democracies just flat-out demonstrably lying and there being no accountability for it.

Utility and insurance etc companies ripping you off if you don't shop around when your contract ends. Loyalty had a value but now it is exploited as a weakness.

Concert tickets costing 100s, or even 1000s of pounds. I get that physical album sales are a fraction of what they were, but I don't remember them costing 100s or 1000s of pounds each lol.
52points

What are your thoughts about all of this, dear Pandas? What are some things that society seems to have normalized in this day and age that you fundamentally think are problematic?

On the flip side, what are some changes in modern times that you think are genuinely for the better? Let us know in the comments below.

#13

50 “Normal” Things People Still Find Bizarre Or Wrong
The lack of critical thinking skills.
51points

#14

50 “Normal” Things People Still Find Bizarre Or Wrong
No failing grades in school. Just passed along to the next grade.
48points

#15

50 “Normal” Things People Still Find Bizarre Or Wrong
Ignoring civics and the constitution. Claiming religion and freedom are what they are not.
48points

#16

50 “Normal” Things People Still Find Bizarre Or Wrong
Foul- mouthed kids, well under 15, even 10, in public, in your face, with no repercussions.

Even with parents nearby.
48points

#17

50 “Normal” Things People Still Find Bizarre Or Wrong
Playing music out loud in public, especially when hiking or on the bus.
45points

#18

50 “Normal” Things People Still Find Bizarre Or Wrong
Kids nolonger having freedom to roam and explore

Every now and then in one of the ask subreddits, you get questions like *"Could kids really bike places on their own like in those 1980s movies? Wasn't that just a Hollywood trope?"*

It's heartbreaking.
43points

#19

50 “Normal” Things People Still Find Bizarre Or Wrong
Mobile technology has led to employees being on call permanently. When I started working, once you left work, your time was your own...
42points

#20

50 “Normal” Things People Still Find Bizarre Or Wrong
Not going to the emergency room because you’re afraid it will bankrupt you.
42points
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