Nobody’s perfect—nor should we be. Perfection is boring. We’re all about people embracing the heck out of their ‘flaws’ and being at peace with them. But that’s easier said than done. We all have small aspects of ourselves that we’d change if we could. Our partners, on the other hand, might not want us to!
The men of the r/AskReddit online community revealed what their partners dislike about themselves, but that they genuinely find attractive. From greying and wavy hair to slightly crooked teeth and silly laughs, there are lots of things that are endearing about people, making them unique. Read on for some uplifting answers.
Bored Panda reached out to the author of the viral thread, and she was happy to answer our questions about the "overwhelming positivity" of the discussion, as well as how to accept one's imperfections. The OP preferred to remain anonymous. You'll find our full interview with her as you read on.
#21
My partner feels that her breasts are uneven or misaligned. Next Tuesday will be my sixth year of staring at them whenever I have the chance. Her visual issues are what worry me the most.
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59points
#22
She thinks her boobs are too small but I disagree. When I tell her she has fantastic boobs it's like the light of heaven enters her eyes. God bless
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51points
#23
Her ears stick out. She covers them with her hair. But I think they are adorable
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49points
#24
My ex had literally perfect 10/10 lips, then got lip filler surgery. They got worse. Don’t mess with perfection.
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49points
#25
Her sneeze. She's not like super self conscious about it but she acknowledges its a bit weird.
I think its cute. She does a normal splutter and about half a second later this little feminine "choo" that's totally not part of the sneezy chaos.
Its kinda like "haaa...spssst....choo"
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48points
#26
Her nose. She's asian and likes my high bridged "white" nose. But I think her little round nose is adorable
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48points
#27
She’s always complaining about her butt, I think it’s amazing though.
47points
#28
Her weight. In college she was 110lbs, now she's.... more. We've had 2 kids and getting older. I think she looks better now but she doesn't believe me
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47points
#29
Her smile, when she smiles (her real genuine smile) she sticks her teeth out. She calls it her “horse face”, but I can’t help but love how adorable she looks. Especially when she tries to hide it.
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47points
#31
My girlfriend has terrible eyesight and always has to wear glasses. I find them super sexy
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41points
#32
My ex was 4'11" and she was super self conscious about it. I loved her height though, I really enjoyed the awkward kisses and hugs.
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40points
#33
My ex had a big bum, which I love anyway, and she had little stretch marks around her hips and on her actual bum. She hated them, but it was the first time I’d actually ever saw them on a woman, and they drove me nuts.
I actively look for them now. Big booty for the win.
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40points
#34
Her hair. She grew up in a super white environment and anything that doesn't match traditional white woman beauty standards is hard for her to see as beautiful on herself. Hair is a big one. Meanwhile I think her hair is absolutely gorgeous, like pretty much everything else about her.
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39points
#37
My ex hated her “small breasts.” They were a pretty nice size… they just weren’t porn star HUGE.
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35points
#38
Her legs.
According to her, they "get in the way" and are unpleasant on aircraft, cars, and public transit. Additionally, she finds it a little difficult to get trousers to fit. Still, I adore them.
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31points
