In my opinion before you go to the wedding you have to ask the bride how much cost the plate to see if you can effort to go or not. Every person needs to pay their own plate . I give an example. If the plate cost $150 you have to give $200 per plate. the bride have to tell to the quest how much cost the plate. It's not normal like the quest are coming to the wedding and they don't have to pay anything?? Oh no
