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50 Trashy Wedding Guests That Deserved To Be Shamed
Occasions,WeddingOCT 21, 2024

50 Trashy Wedding Guests That Deserved To Be Shamed

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Couples often have to take their time when picking their wedding guestlist. However, generally most people expect their attending friends and family to at least behave. But as experience shows, people often make questionable decisions.
We’ve gathered some examples of the worst, trashiest and most tacky wedding guests out there. We also got in touch with Jhona Yellin, Editor of Bespoke Bride to learn more. So get comfortable as you scroll through, prepare to get angry, upvote the most egregious offenders and be sure to comment your thoughts and experiences below.
More info: Bespoke Bride

#1 More For Attendees: Inappropriate Questions

More For Attendees: Inappropriate Questions
251points

#2 Bride's Sister Made It All About Her

Bride's Sister Made It All About Her
202points

#3 4 Weddings And A Cat Party

4 Weddings And A Cat Party
180points

Bored Panda got in touch with Jhona Yellin, Editor of Bespoke Bride, and she was kind enough to answer some of our questions. Naturally, given their extensive experience organizing all sorts of weddings every year, we were curious to hear if they have had any crazy stories.

“Yes indeed! After 13 years of covering weddings all around the world, our team has a long list of some crazy stories. I once attended a wedding where a guest got into the couple's open bar a bit too early. By the time the cake was being cut, this person was on the dance floor, trying to reenact Dirty Dancing — solo.”

#4 Because Some People Can’t Have A Single Day That Is Not About Them

Because Some People Can’t Have A Single Day That Is Not About Them
176points

#5 Mother-In-Law Hires Someone To Throw Red Paint On Bride's Dress

Mother-In-Law Hires Someone To Throw Red Paint On Bride's Dress
165points

#6 Telling My In-Laws It Was On Them To Explain To Their Guests Why There Weren't Any Places For Them At My Wedding Reception

Telling My In-Laws It Was On Them To Explain To Their Guests Why There Weren't Any Places For Them At My Wedding Reception
160points

“Trust me, no one was ready for a full-body interpretive version of "I’ve Had the Time of My Life." It was... unforgettable, but probably not in the way the couple wanted,” she shared. Even the most conscientious planner would probably not have a strategy in place for something like this and many people are not nearly as good at planning as they think.

#7 If I Had To See This You All Do Too

If I Had To See This You All Do Too
135points

#8 Photographer Shaming A Guest

Photographer Shaming A Guest
135points

#9 Wedding Guest Hires Their Own Photographer To Accompany Her To Friends Wedding

Wedding Guest Hires Their Own Photographer To Accompany Her To Friends Wedding
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“And then there was a wedding when one of the groomsmen — yes, a groomsman — managed to spill red wine on the bride's gown before the ceremony had even started. It was like a rom-com blooper reel, except it wasn’t funny in real life.” she shared with Bored Panda.

#10 A Guy That We (The Bride And Groom) Had Never Met Before Proposed To His Girlfriend At Our Wedding

A Guy That We (The Bride And Groom) Had Never Met Before Proposed To His Girlfriend At Our Wedding
131points

#11 The Audacity Of This Wedding Guest And Their Mom! Plan Your Own Special Moment, Cheapskates

The Audacity Of This Wedding Guest And Their Mom! Plan Your Own Special Moment, Cheapskates
126points

#12 Father Ambushed Me To Walk Me Down The Aisle

Father Ambushed Me To Walk Me Down The Aisle
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So we were curious to hear just how often the happy couple actually plans for the sort of things on display in this list. “Now, when planning a wedding, you'd think maybe couples would consider these disasters, but surprisingly, wedding crashers or misbehaving guests aren't always top of mind.”

#13 "I Just Thought Your Wedding Was The Perfect Place For My Child's Birthday Party"

"I Just Thought Your Wedding Was The Perfect Place For My Child's Birthday Party"
122points

#14 Bridesmaid's Tale Of Her Wedding Date Trying To Bring A Date

Bridesmaid's Tale Of Her Wedding Date Trying To Bring A Date
118points

#15 She Looks Absolutely Gorgeous, Except She’s Not The Bride

She Looks Absolutely Gorgeous, Except She’s Not The Bride
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“It’s more like an afterthought, you know, that moment of "Oh, maybe we should have a backup plan in case Uncle Frank brings that friend again." I’ve seen a few couples add "no crashers" security at some venues — smart move, by the way, especially if you’re having a high-profile event or if your family has a reputation for a little too much fun.”

#16 A Guest Filled 7 Tupperware Containers With Food From The Wedding Reception And Gave The Couple 5 USD As A Gift

A Guest Filled 7 Tupperware Containers With Food From The Wedding Reception And Gave The Couple 5 USD As A Gift
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#17 You’re Probably Wondering Why This Is Shame Worthy. Well How Do You Feel Now That You Know She Was Not The Bride

You’re Probably Wondering Why This Is Shame Worthy. Well How Do You Feel Now That You Know She Was Not The Bride
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#18 My Dad’s Extremely Embarrassing Announcement At My Cousin's Wedding Celebration

My Dad’s Extremely Embarrassing Announcement At My Cousin's Wedding Celebration
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She was willing to provide some resources in case someone needed some extra help planning. “We always recommend couples to plan their wedding well, also for horrible events like the ones above. For example, they can read this bride's tips on how to throw a wedding your guests will love.”

#19 I Went To A Wedding And Found A Decent Seat With A Good View. This Lady Sat Down In Front Of Me And Did Not Care One Bit That Her Fan Blocked The View Of Every Person Sitting Behind Her

I Went To A Wedding And Found A Decent Seat With A Good View. This Lady Sat Down In Front Of Me And Did Not Care One Bit That Her Fan Blocked The View Of Every Person Sitting Behind Her
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#20 Kid Wants To Dress Up As A Lion To Their Wedding. Also Told To Change Their Centerpieces As Kid Doesn’t Like Balloons. Kid Is Mother’s Best Friend’s Child

Kid Wants To Dress Up As A Lion To Their Wedding. Also Told To Change Their Centerpieces As Kid Doesn’t Like Balloons. Kid Is Mother’s Best Friend’s Child
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