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29 Addictions People Usually Don't Realize The Severity Of, As Shared Online

29 Addictions People Usually Don't Realize The Severity Of, As Shared Online

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Some folks crave coffee, while others are obsessed with social media, exercising, or even food. These minor cravings and weaknesses aren’t really a problem until they start taking over your whole life. The moment an innocent love for something turns into a dependency, it’s probably an addiction.
You’re probably imagining something sinister, like a person addicted to illegal substances. There are actually so many obsessions that are equally as bad but not discussed as much, which is why we put together this list.
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#1

29 Addictions People Usually Don't Realize The Severity Of, As Shared Online
Overworking. You’re not a hero, you’re a victim.
56points

#2

29 Addictions People Usually Don't Realize The Severity Of, As Shared Online
One terrible addiction that nobody really talks about is constantly checking your phone for notifications, even when you know there aren’t any. You keep unlocking your screen, scrolling through the same apps, refreshing feeds, hoping for something new. It’s like your brain is searching for a little hit of excitement or distraction, even though deep down, you know there’s nothing there. It can eat up hours of your day without you even noticing, and it leaves you feeling restless and anxious when you can't reach for your phone.
54points

#3

29 Addictions People Usually Don't Realize The Severity Of, As Shared Online
Overthinking. It creeps up on you, and suddenly you're stuck in loops, replaying the same scenarios in your head. People rarely talk about how exhausting it really is.
49points

You might have heard the word "addiction" used many times to describe instances where people can’t do without alcohol or harmful substances. That’s what happens when a person has a strong dependency on substances. Besides this, people can also become fixated on certain behaviors and objects, which is called non-substance addiction.

This second type of dependency isn’t really taken seriously, and sometimes, people even joke about gambling or Internet addictions. The problem is, even if they’re not as visible as substance-based compulsions, they bring about similar urges, which is why they’re so scary. 


#4

29 Addictions People Usually Don't Realize The Severity Of, As Shared Online
Always being in a relationship and not being capable of being alone?
41points

#5

29 Addictions People Usually Don't Realize The Severity Of, As Shared Online
Here's one I haven't seen someone mention yet: exercise.

People don't think of it as an addiction because it's generally good for you, but once you get past the point of diminishing returns, being a gym rat just eats up your time.

An old friend of mine would get cranky if she didn't get in *four to five hours* of working out every single day, and she didn't listen when I told her that doing that much wasn't necessary for being healthy.
40points

#6

29 Addictions People Usually Don't Realize The Severity Of, As Shared Online
Religion. If your giving away substantial amounts of money a month to a religious organisation in hopes of a better afterlife, it’s close to being a cult.
40points

It’s difficult to know when exactly an innocent love for something has turned into a dependency. To make it easier, here are a couple of signs that you can look out for:

  1. Lying about the extent to which you engage in that behavior
  2. Keeping on doing the same things even if they negatively affect your life
  3. Stealing or selling things to get money to fund your compulsion
  4. Finding that everything else pales in comparison to the feeling you get from the thing or behavior
  5. Noticing that your sleeping and eating patterns have changed as a result of your obsession

Addictions like overeating, gambling, excessive exercising, shoplifting, and gaming are just a few of the many non-substance addictions that can creep up on a person. They stimulate the brain’s reward system to such an extent that it can keep you hooked on the intense and joyful feelings that come after.


#7

29 Addictions People Usually Don't Realize The Severity Of, As Shared Online
Processed foods and junk food.
35points

#8

29 Addictions People Usually Don't Realize The Severity Of, As Shared Online
Validation from strangers.
34points

#9

29 Addictions People Usually Don't Realize The Severity Of, As Shared Online
I'll get hate for this, but the people who are genuinely addicted to gaming.
33points

All of us seem to be chronically on the Internet, scrolling through endless media almost mindlessly. Apart from wasting a couple of hours in our day, you probably wouldn’t imagine that social media could have such a terrifying hold on someone’s life. Internet addictions are more common than you’d imagine.

Among the youth who’ve grown up accessing the net, studies have found that nearly 5.8% of adolescents and 2.8% of young adults have an Internet-related addiction. It isn’t just that they’re constantly consuming content—the problem is that such an obsession has also been associated with depression, anxiety, and disturbed sleep patterns.


#10

29 Addictions People Usually Don't Realize The Severity Of, As Shared Online
Compulsive buying.
30points

#11

29 Addictions People Usually Don't Realize The Severity Of, As Shared Online
TikTok/endless scrolling social media feeds. S**t has irreparably f****d my brain. I have to watch everything on max speed now… sometimes even a 1-2 minute TikTok video is too long for me, let alone a 10+ minute YT video.
30points

It might seem like a spiral once you’ve become obsessed with a particular behavior or substance, but there are ways to break the cycle. Experts say that the best thing you can do is find a healthy coping mechanism instead of the addiction. You can do this by observing what triggers your desire to engage in that behavior, and then take steps to substitute it.

Since these non-substance additions are often part of our daily routine, you can change the compulsion by changing up your day-to-day activities. It won’t be easy to completely turn everything around at first, but small steps can also make a big difference.


#13

29 Addictions People Usually Don't Realize The Severity Of, As Shared Online
Controlling other people.
I've had certain people do that so much to me, as though everything they do or think they know is the one correct way to do anything, dismissing my experience as invalid, talking over the top of me, being rude tf about it and treating with utter disrespect. I think it's an addiction to power.
27points

#14

29 Addictions People Usually Don't Realize The Severity Of, As Shared Online
Alcoholism. People don't realize that it can with "social drinking". Going out with your friends. Getting drunk with your friends 3 times a week. Blacking out once a week. But you're not an alcoholic . Then casually drinking on the weekends by yourself. Then 6-8 on a Saturday. But you're not an alcoholic. Just one after work. Okay just two after work. 3. 4. But you're still going to work. Your bills are paid. Your relationships are mantained. You're not an alcoholic you just like beer. Working gets rougher, you feel exhausted/fatigued. Relationships start straining. You're drinking every day. Money is getting tighter because a 24 pack doesn't last more than 3 days. A bottle here and there. Going out with friends. You're drinking every. Day. Okay maybe you're an alcoholic. But how do you stop now?

Even if it doesn't get to the extent of drinking every day. Consistently binge drinking or drinking alone are slippery slopes. Denial runs rampant because most alcoholics I know are "functional alcoholics". Your liver doesn't care that you can hold a job. Your relationships will start to fail when you put alcohol first. You could feel so much better with sobriety.

Edit:spelling errors. Apologies, I'm on mobile so it's not the greatest setup.
27points

#15

29 Addictions People Usually Don't Realize The Severity Of, As Shared Online
Gambling. People do crazy things if they've convinced themselves there is a slim but not too slim chance of being rich.
25points

Nobody wants an obsession to completely take over their life. Sometimes the dependency may start from something as simple as starting a new video game and then spiral into something bigger if you give it power. The best thing you can do for yourself or the people you know is to keep track of these compulsions and try to nip them in the bud.

Do you have any examples of addictions like this that people seem to overlook or treat too casually?


#17

29 Addictions People Usually Don't Realize The Severity Of, As Shared Online
Screens. People can't live without screens any more. Phones, tablets, TVs, computers, smart watches...
22points

#18

29 Addictions People Usually Don't Realize The Severity Of, As Shared Online
Nose spray - it you use it for too long you will become incapable of breathing through your nose without it.
21points

#20

29 Addictions People Usually Don't Realize The Severity Of, As Shared Online
Smoking c******s. I've been told it's not addictive but I saw firsthand how it dominates and controls someone's life and how much it isolates them and causes problems in all of the relationships in their lives.
20points
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