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40 Hilarious Moments Of Straight People Failing To Acknowledge LGBTQ+ Couples
Funny,Social IssuesJUN 14, 2023

40 Hilarious Moments Of Straight People Failing To Acknowledge LGBTQ+ Couples

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Barely eight years ago, most Americans believed that being gay is "just the way some choose to live." You know, like choosing your diet or hairdo. And while the tide has shifted, with society being more accepting, more folks are coming out as LGBTQ+ than ever before - some chose to and still do forget that it's as real as global warming or Christmas.
The subreddit Sappho And Her Friend, then, is a godsend which sheds light on cringeworthy instances of LGBTQ+ erasure from academia, pop culture and real life. Who knew that straight people completely ignoring the fact that LGBTQ+ is a thing can be so absurdly amusing.

#1 What To Call Your Straight Aunt's Husband

What To Call Your Straight Aunt's Husband
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In a world that claims progress and inclusivity, it is disheartening to witness the persistent shadows of prejudice cast upon the LGBTQ+ community. From the humblest corners of society to the grand stage of global politics, there exists a myriad of reasons, however wrong, why some individuals remain staunchly ignorant when it comes to accepting and embracing diverse sexual orientations and gender fluidity.

While significant progress has been made over the years, including a growing number of individuals, particularly Gen Z, feeling more comfortable and open about their LGBTQIA+ identities, there remains much work to be done. Unfortunately, even during Pride Month, which spans the entire month of June, incidents like the recent vandalism of the LGBTQIA+ community's flags at Stonewall National Monument in New York City, the birthplace of the modern LGBTQ rights movement, serve as a reminder that challenges persist.

#2 Straight-People-Forgetting-Gay-Couples-Exist

Straight-People-Forgetting-Gay-Couples-Exist
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"Pride Month — and the pride parades — continue to be deeply important in the continued solidarity, fight for human rights, and visibility of the LGBTQI+ community. Additionally, and equally important, is the label 'pride'," Samantha Stein, a licensed psychologist based in San Francisco, told Bored Panda in an email. In 2019, Pride celebrations in San Francisco included 289 parade contingents and held "the largest gathering of LGBTQ+ people and allies in the nation."

"Over the years, it has continued to increase in size and scope, and I haven't seen or heard of any displays of prejudice there since the 1990s," Stein said. "In some ways, it has lost some of its original power: many of the young people from the Bay Area who attend are not aware of the history and courage of the original PRIDE celebrations. That said, we can view that as a positive change since they haven't had to be!" 

#3 The Apostrophe Is Not In The Wrong Place

The Apostrophe Is Not In The Wrong Place
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#4 “I Think Emily Dickinson Was A Lesbian”

“I Think Emily Dickinson Was A Lesbian”
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June, for those of you who don't know, is a month of celebration that aligns with a significant event in the history of the Gay Liberation Movement known as the Stonewall Uprising. In the early hours of June 28th, 1969, a gay bar called 'The Stonewall Inn' in New York City's West Village was targeted by a police raid. Such raids were common at the time, but on this particular occasion, the patrons of the bar resisted and fought back, leading to what became known as the Stonewall Riots. These protests continued for several days.

#5 Who's Gonna Tell Them

Who's Gonna Tell Them
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#6 Her “Friend “

Her “Friend “
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Recognizing its historical significance, the city of New York designated the Stonewall Inn as a historic landmark in 2015, and it was further honored as a national monument by President Barack Obama in 2016. This June marks the 53rd anniversary of the first Pride parade, which took place in 1970, a year after the uprising at Stonewall.

#7 Straight-People-Forgetting-Gay-Couples-Exist

Straight-People-Forgetting-Gay-Couples-Exist
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#8 Sit On My Face But Just In A Friend's Way

Sit On My Face But Just In A Friend's Way
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"Regrettably, prejudice, oppression, violence, and even loss of life persist as harsh realities for individuals within the LGBTQI+ community, both in the United States and worldwide. Alarmingly, numerous states in the US are enacting legislation that actively undermines the rights of these individuals," said Stein.

#9 Hitting With That Self Sappho

Hitting With That Self Sappho
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#10 And They Were “Color Enthusiasts”

And They Were “Color Enthusiasts”
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According to The American Civil Liberties Union, there were 19 bills introduced this year so far undermining freedom of speech and expression for LGBTQ people, including ones that target drag show performances.

#11 Happy Thanksgiving To All Aunties With Lifelong Roommates

Happy Thanksgiving To All Aunties With Lifelong Roommates
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#12 Oh My God, They Were Manicurists

Oh My God, They Were Manicurists
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"For a group of people who are told continuously — through laws, religions, media, bullying, and directly — that LBTQI+ people are less-than or should not exist," Stein explained, "it is deeply psychologically important that there be counter-messaging."

She argues that this continuous messaging of inferiority often takes a toll on their mental well-being and can result in profound consequences such as mental illness, addiction, isolation, and even loss of life. "People fear and hate what they are taught to fear and hate, and they often fear what's unfamiliar." 

#13 Ultimate Gal Pals

Ultimate Gal Pals
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#14 Stop Saying You're Lesbian

Stop Saying You're Lesbian
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#15 Straight-People-Forgetting-Gay-Couples-Exist

Straight-People-Forgetting-Gay-Couples-Exist
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#16 💅

💅
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#17 Vivianne Miedema - All Round Legend

Vivianne Miedema - All Round Legend
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#18 It's Perfect

It's Perfect
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#19 The Opposite Of Erasure, For Once!

The Opposite Of Erasure, For Once!
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#20 Oh, Yeah, Definitely Cis, Just Pretending To Be A Man...for 50 Years

Oh, Yeah, Definitely Cis, Just Pretending To Be A Man...for 50 Years
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