Too many times a good woman will find herself in a relationship that should have been over long ago. Don't allow the wasted yrs invested into a man that is no good for you keep you in a relationship that is unhealthy.
You know when a man really wants you by the way he treats you. If he is treating you like he doesn't give a sh*t then 10 times out of 10 he doesn't.
Often times a woman holds on to a man's potential rather than face her truth. A man not wanting you isn't hard to see, but it is hard to admit. Allowing a man to keep walking in and out of your life is damaging to your self worth. You start to believe that that man has realized the good woman in you and so you forgive him and allow him back into your space. Truth is, he only likes fcking you not talking to you, his only reason for crawling back is not because he truly cares but because he wants to make sure you are there whenever he calls.
It's all game, and you haven't yet caught up. Some men will game you until you realize that the game you are in you have no chance at winning. He will manipulate his ass back in to your life not because he really loves you or misses you but because he loves the power he has over you.
Without fail a man will pop up back into your life when he sees how happy you are without him in your life or the minute he sees you are moving on to someone new.
Don't allow him to ruin the possibility of finding true love in someone else just because his selfish ass wants to pretend he loves you and come knocking on your door.
Repeated behavior will only keep repeating itself when you allow it. Nothing has the power to break you unless you keep allowing it. A man that really wants you in his life will never put himself in a position to lose you. He won't risk it by playing games and give another man the opportunity to do what he should be doing. A man who wants you will ALWAYS claim you not leave you wondering.
Stop allowing him to pull you in and then pushing you away with his indecision of wanting you in his life. He will crawl back every time he realizes the grass ain't greener on the other side and needs his ego repaired. That's where you come in, you are his placeholder, until the woman he really wants comes along. His reasons for crawling back has nothing to do with you but everything to do with him. He wants his freedom to fck other b*tches and still keep you around for when he is done fckin around. He only holds that power if you give it to him.
His minimal efforts into making real changes for the sake of the relationship should let you know where you stand. He doesn't really love you....you are just convenient for when he needs sex, money, comfort, or an ego stroke, etc...
Usually when a man says he misses you but won't find the time of day to spend 30 minutes of his day with you he is full of sh*t and is just planting that bug in your ear for when he wants some sex... you won't turn him away.
This man doesn't really claim you, or spends any time with you but he does enough to make you think he cares and builds your hopes up into believing and hoping for the relationship that doesn't exist. You my dear have always been something to do for him and not someone he wants. When a man really wants a woman he will make sure he puts forth effort to make sure his woman knows and feels she is loved. When a woman is not who he wants he will create excuses. Quit asking where the relationship is going and accept that it is going to the same place its always gone to, NOWHERE.
You have to come to the point of loving yourself too much to allow a man to mind fck you into believing he really cares. A man who really cares wouldn't mistreat you and sure as hell wouldn't disappear and reappear whenever the fck time calls for it. Weak men are drawn to insecure women. That's why strong women intimidate weak men. You are not confused as to what to do, you just haven't accepted the truth. Don't settle for drive by's of affection, but rather demand it. You as a good woman deserve a good man, don't settle for table crumbs when there's a man out there willing to serve you full course meals.
