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If there's anything we've learned over all these years, it's that it's important to listen to your gut. Your instincts are often right about something being wrong. When there's a sudden, dangerous situation, many of us can barely think straight, so we rely on our subconscious. When it comes to making long-term strategic decisions, however, there's more room for thought.
The Harvard Business Review explains that the average adult makes anywhere between 33,000 to 35,000 total decisions each day. Now, this might be stating the obvious, but that’s a lot of them! These decisions range to everything from what clothes you’ll wear and what you’ll eat that day to what you’ll say and what tone you’ll use.
According to Harvard Business School professor Gerald Zaltman, the vast majority (95%) of our cognition occurs in the subconscious mind. In other words, we’re making most of these decisions automatically based on our past experience of what is good for us and what isn’t. One issue is that when you let your subconscious make so many decisions, you’re running on ‘autopilot mode’, and you may miss out on opportunities to do better in life.
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The reason?
The red car that had almost ran me over a few weeks before was barrelling down the street at high speed.
Car zooms past at the moment the kid and myself would have been in the middle of the road.
Same driver. I recognized the shade of blonde hair.
As per the Harvard Business Review, journaling—physically writing down your thoughts—can help you make more balanced decisions because you’re engaging both sides of your brain. “This benefits you in two ways: your logical, rational side is employed so that your feelings can’t exclusively run the show, and your creative and imaginative side is employed so that you can see beyond black-and-white, limiting thinking,” Amanda Reill writes.
The important thing when making big decisions like whether to change jobs or move cities is to be very honest with yourself. You need to go beyond just the pros and cons and really look into what your core wants and needs in life are, what (ir)rational fears you might have, and what real or imagined challenges might be stopping you from taking the leap.
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I had planned for this. Half the reason I don't ride now is other people being morons.
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My friend and I were chilling at a skate park. There was a Basketball hoop made out of stone. I was sitting right underneath that hoop. Suddenly I got the urge to stand up, Seconds later this massive thing came crashing down where I sat seconds before.
I didn't comprehend it in that moment but I often think about it from time to time and a shiver goes down my spine.. my friend was scared as f**k..
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In the meantime, Verywell Mind points out that the key to making good decisions, solving big problems, and living your best life comes down to developing lots of small, interconnected habits. For example, you should try to gauge whether you’re too overconfident in life so that you don’t overestimate your abilities.
You should also take the time to evaluate the risks you do (or don’t!) take in life and how things can go wrong. Meanwhile, you should also get into the habit of reframing problems in a way that helps you find solutions, take breaks to let your mind rest, consider your biases, and reflect on your past mistakes. It’s also helpful if you’re aware of and clearly label the emotions that you feel and how they can affect your choices.
And, at the end of the day, it’s never a mistake to treat yourself with kindness. You could, for instance, consider how you’d advise a close friend to tackle the same issues that you’re up against. This should help you be more objective and take a lot of your emotions out of the equation.
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Suddenly, a voice inside my head shouted "FREEZE!!! DON'T MOVE!!!" I instinctually froze and pressed myself up against my car even though I had no idea why. Out of nowhere a large city bus came barreling around the curve going at least 60mph and missed hitting me by just a couple inches. I can still feel the wind from the bus on the back of my neck at it blew past me. If I had taken just half a step back to lock my car door, I would have been flattened and that would have been it.
Even worse, my future husband was with me and would have witnessed it all. It still shakes him up to think about how close he came to losing me that day.
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Fell snowboarding, and had a splitting 'migraine' the next day. Went to the GP, deciding after a night without sleep it was worth the early phonecall and appointment. He took one look at me and proceeded to give me a course of oral steroids and schedule an MRI. I was completely dissociated, just kinda thought maybe he was looking to see if I'd twinged my neck.
Damage **at C1**. For context, C1 is your first vertebrae at the base of your skull and by damage I'm referring to spinal cord damage. A very small lesion and some swelling which was now being treated by the oral steroids course. After the course, another MRI showed the area of damage more clearly - I also now had a severe movement disorder, and minor issues with my breathing alongside chronic neuroinflammation which would eventually result in another lesion (C5/6) that hit 4 years later, paralysing me.
BUT if my GP hadn't seen fit to prescribe outside of his remit and give me those initial steroids there is no telling if that C1 lesion could have enlarged and just straight up k**led me at 21. My neurologist tells me that he did possibly save my life that day.
What are some deeply intuitive or split-second decisions that you’ve ever had to make that completely changed the course of your life, dear Pandas? Have there been moments where you (accidentally or otherwise) avoided major catastrophes?
What were the best decisions that you made without fully understanding why you made them? We’d love to hear all about your experiences, so feel free to write your thoughts in the comments below.
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Appendix was about to blow by the time the surgeon got to it that same night.
I remembered something specifically about looking out for pain when you lift your left leg, and since healthcare is free here, decided not to chance it despite the symptoms being relatively mild.
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Back in 2020, I was in an a*****e relationship. Not so much direct physical violent (although that was there); instead, it was constant mental and emotional abuse with some sexual a*****t thrown in. This was particularly damaging as I struggle with mental health. To be honest, I was contemplating ending my life for most of the last 6 or so months her and I were together. One day, her and I had a MASSIVE fight that ultimately ended the relationship.
Her and I ended up splitting up during quarantine, roughly around mid April. Most of the people I was close to were immunocompromised, some lived states away, and the rest just weren’t good for me to be around in my fragile mental state. Aside from a few nights at a hotel I was gifted from my parents (one who lived 15 hours away, the other one is badly immunocompromised), I slept in the bathroom at work. She (and whatever flavor of the week she was dating) continued to harass me, call my work, call my parents, and (later, during summer) somehow found the contact information of a girl I had just begun dating and began harassing her as well.
While I am eternally thankful for my boss giving me shelter *and* giving me an air mattress, it was so incredibly lonely in that bathroom. I remember hugging a pillow and convincing myself, through tears, that the pillow was my friend and that I wasn’t alone. I spent my birthday, which falls towards the end of April, alone in a grocery store parking lot bawling my eyes out. Never in my life was I so desperate for a hug.
After a couple months of this, my mother found me a new apartment. Quarantine restrictions had JUST lifted in my state (I live in SE Wisconsin). While I still had to keep a massive amount of distance from my mother, it was still nice to see someone who actually liked me.
As a bit of background, I am very interested in meteorology. I love stormchasing and dream of making a career of it, or anything related to meteorology for that matter. I had not chased a single storm for over a year, for obvious reasons. The week I moved in, I saw on my weather app that there was a storm scheduled to hit about two hours or so away during the weekend. I went and chased it, and, for the first time in years, I started to recognize the reflection in the mirror.
A week later on Friday, I realized that I badly wanted to chase another storm. So, I began checking my weather apps. Nowhere in Wisconsin, Michigan, Iowa, Illinois, etc was forecasted to even have rain. So, in desperation, I dug deeper and found that there, in fact, was going to be a storm. Issue was, it was all the way near Rapid City, SD. Eleven to twelve hours away from me.
I decided at noon on Friday that, once I got off at 6:30, I would pack a bag, eat dinner, talk to a couple friends, and then take off to South Dakota, driving through the night. I had never been to South Dakota nor traveled by myself, and I had never driven through the night before. But, screw it, what do I have to lose?
I was in southern Minnesota on I-90 around 4AM, about to break the South Dakota border. I was exhausted, losing strength, and about ready to give up. I tried to check into a hotel, only to find that I had forgotten my cards at home and that the hotel did not take Apple Pay. Regardless, something told me to keep going. Something told me everything would be okay. So, I plodded on into South Dakota.
Then I saw the sunrise. That sunrise was the light at the end of the tunnel. It was a beacon of hope that my past tried to convince me no longer existed. That sunrise told me that the excruciating pain, loneliness, and s******l ideations were temporary. It was then that I learned everything was going to be okay.
I still remember audibly screaming “I can’t believe I’m actually doing this! I’m actually doing this!”. It was always my dream to travel the country to chase storms. I turned the nightmare I was living into the dream I always wished for. I took so many pictures, videos, live streamed both chases (two for one weekend!), took in the alien landscape I found myself in, and finally felt human again.
Not only was I free, I actually believed it too. Ever since then, although I still struggle with mental health, I have a new purpose. The driver’s seat became my home, the open road became my best friend, and the sun became my wife. I didn’t care if she wasn’t human. The warmth, guidance, and support was all I ever wanted in marriage. The unlovable, burdensome, and ugly man turned into mother nature’s devoted husband. I finally found love.
Ever since then, I have continued to regularly travel the country on a whim. I have chased storms in Kansas, tasted wine in California, got lost in the desert in Arizona, saw the rocky mountains for the first time, walked along both coasts, went to the beach in Florida, and so much more. I ended up driving to every state in the lower 48 that summer (took three months) AND doing something in each one.
The decision to chase my dreams saved me from ending my own life. All I had to do was see the sun.
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Drowsy driving is just as dangerous as drunk driving. Never again !
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One day I was in between the two tracks scrapping away mud. Suddenly, my colleagues are shouting (almost screaming) my name. Although I didn't see it, it instantly occurred to me that they would only be that terrified if the excavator was still in motion and I was about to be pinned between the rear counterweight and the track.
I dropped to my knees and rolled away with less than a second to spare. The rear of the excavator swung across where I had just been standing. Had I been any later, I'd have been cut in half.
The operator had thought we were done. We didn't mention it to anyone... you know how you are at that age.
Once in a while I still think about it. Scary stuff.
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