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36 Life-Changing Sentences People Heard Once That Now Live Rent-Free In Their Hearts

36 Life-Changing Sentences People Heard Once That Now Live Rent-Free In Their Hearts

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For Terminator 2: Judgment Day, Arnold Schwarzenegger, already an established movie superstar, earned $17 million, which, given his character's laconicism, translated into roughly $21,000 per word. That is, for just one of his iconic phrases, "Hasta la vista, baby," the actor earned way more than for the entire first Terminator movie.
However, the significance of wise, beautiful, or simply catchy phrases can sometimes be far more important to people than any amount of money. Simply because such a phrase can often truly change a person's life. As it happened, for example, with the heroes of this collection of stories.
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36 Life-Changing Sentences People Heard Once That Now Live Rent-Free In Their Hearts
When someone closed passed away, instead of the usual b******t like ‘they are i a better place now’, someone said: ‘they are worth every single tear’.
84points

#2

36 Life-Changing Sentences People Heard Once That Now Live Rent-Free In Their Hearts
When people would ask my science teacher a question, he loved to respond to them with more questions. He would lead you through a series of answers, leading up to the answer to the question that you initially asked. Then he would say, “See how smart you are, you knew the answer the whole time.” I always loved Mr. Leonard for that.
81points

#3

36 Life-Changing Sentences People Heard Once That Now Live Rent-Free In Their Hearts
A lack of preparation on your part does not make for an emergency on mine.
68points

There's a thread on AskReddit that was created a couple of months ago by the user u/Imaginary_Ride_6185, who asked netizens, "What's a single sentence someone said that stuck with you forever?" As it turns out, such situations happen quite often in people's lives, so the thread has become really popular.

As of today, the thread has over 6K upvotes and nearly 4K various comments. The stories range from touching to funny, from sad to moralizing, and discussions of these stories unfold. Sometimes it even reaches the point of revelation, as people from different parts of the world were touched by roughly the same phrase.

#4

36 Life-Changing Sentences People Heard Once That Now Live Rent-Free In Their Hearts
When I was learning how to drive some 35 years ago, an adult friend told me the most important thing was, "Always expect everyone else to do something stupid."

True to this day. Never forgot it.
63points

#5

36 Life-Changing Sentences People Heard Once That Now Live Rent-Free In Their Hearts
When my dad was diagnosed with a terminal illness, everyone just kept saying everything would be okay. I had a customer at the time say with an online sale when we were chatting:

“Tough days ahead”

It was so simple but he was the only person who was honest with me. Everyone else was lying/trying to protect my feelings.
61points

#6

36 Life-Changing Sentences People Heard Once That Now Live Rent-Free In Their Hearts
I had a therapist tell me once “when you start to get healthy, people will start to get angry.” Mind blowing 🤯 truth right there! The minute I started setting healthy boundaries in my life the worst offenders, my family, got madddddd! But my life is better for it so thank you Rhonda!
54points

It so happens that many of the phrases you'll read or hear here are somehow related to death or some serious illness. This is not surprising, as anyone faced with the inevitable begins to think differently, reconsiders their own life, and perceives everything around them from a completely new angle.

And along with them, we rethink the meaning of words, too. For example, as in one of the stories told here, a pre-med student automatically said to a terminally ill patient the "standard" words that they understood their suffering - only to receive a gentle but firm answer: "No, you don't understand..."

So it's at this very moment that you involuntarily begin to reflect on the frailty of existence, and how far all our words, so beautiful and so empty, are from the truth in the face of the inevitable end. It's frightening, but it also makes us - even if only briefly - become more human.

#7

36 Life-Changing Sentences People Heard Once That Now Live Rent-Free In Their Hearts
“He’s not there.” My husband said this to me gently when I couldn’t leave my father’s casket. I will always remember that he’s not there, he’s in my heart and will be forever.
48points

#8

36 Life-Changing Sentences People Heard Once That Now Live Rent-Free In Their Hearts
“ no one thinks about you as much as you do”
Sounds in text very rude but in context it was very loving. Genuinely changed my perspective on myself.

No one analyzes your actions and words and looks like we do to ourselves. No one thinks about the small things you don’t like, the embarrassing moments that keep you awake or the outfit malfunctions. You’re not that important. Thank god.
That means you aren’t that bad.
I’ve gained so much self love from thinking this way.
47points

#9

36 Life-Changing Sentences People Heard Once That Now Live Rent-Free In Their Hearts
"The opposite of love is not hate but to be ignored." This will sit with me forever.
44points

A separate category of stories from our collection contains motivational phrases that, in one way or another, encourage people to overcome life's various difficulties. But almost every motivational phrase is actually based either on completely empty "generalities" or on the speaker's personal experience - and this experience can be completely irrelevant.

My favorite example is Thomas Edison and his classic phrase: "Genius is 1% inspiration and 99% perspiration." A formula that, by and large, worked perfectly for only one person - Edison himself.

The fact is that the great inventor lacked theoretical education, which he always compensated for with numerous experiments and an absolutely superhuman work ethic and stamina. Competitors joked that just a year at university would’ve replaced Edison's decade of failed experiments - but then he wouldn't be Edison, right?

#10

36 Life-Changing Sentences People Heard Once That Now Live Rent-Free In Their Hearts
"You're smarter than everyone here. You shouldn't be working in a factory. Go to school, keep your head down and learn something."

Told to me by a factory collegue when I broke down from packing sausages the entire day when I was 16.
44points

#11

36 Life-Changing Sentences People Heard Once That Now Live Rent-Free In Their Hearts
‘No you don’t understand’. I was a pre-med college student and volunteering at a hospital. A chronically ill patient was telling me about their pain and reflexively I said ‘I understand’. He said ‘no you really don’t’. That struck me and I’ve never said it again in all 10 years I’ve been in medicine. Now I say ‘I really can’t understand, but I want to help as best I can’.
43points

#12

36 Life-Changing Sentences People Heard Once That Now Live Rent-Free In Their Hearts
My mom has Alzheimer’s and right before she lost the ability to speak she said with complete lucidity one day “you know, I’m not sure what’s going to happen but I’m not afraid.” I think about this every day.
43points

Humanity has wielded words for many thousands of years, and they’re truly one of the most powerful tools we've ever had. Words can be a weapon, and they can be a shield. They can lift you to the skies, or they can bring you crashing down to earth. Many people underestimate the power of words - and completely in vain.

"Our words carry enormous weight. More than we sometimes think," says Michael S. Hyatt, a famous speaker, podcaster, and the author of books about leadership. "They often impact people for decades, providing either the courage to press on or one more reason to give up." By the way, here's another wise quote for you, in addition to those you've already read here.

#13

36 Life-Changing Sentences People Heard Once That Now Live Rent-Free In Their Hearts
"Just cos the person you're with is the right person for you doesn't mean you're the right person for them" 🤯.
41points

#14

36 Life-Changing Sentences People Heard Once That Now Live Rent-Free In Their Hearts
Not a sentence but a sound. The day I graduated from college. My dad cheered the loudest in the room. Still makes me beam years later.
40points

#15

36 Life-Changing Sentences People Heard Once That Now Live Rent-Free In Their Hearts
I’m a mom of three young children. Going out by myself, I hear “you’ve got your hands full!” So so often. One time a guy told me, “you’re doing a really great job, being a mom is hard.” And dang, I needed that 😭.
39points

In any case, we do believe you'll find these three dozen or so stories very interesting and useful to read, so please feel free to scroll the list to the very end; it's truly worth reading, just believe me. And, well, if you have your own tale about the wisest or simply catchiest words you've ever heard, why not share it in the comments below?

#16

“A tree that has borne fruit cannot look like a sapling.”

Said, supportively, about unrealistic expectations for mothers’ bodies.
39points

#17

36 Life-Changing Sentences People Heard Once That Now Live Rent-Free In Their Hearts
I can’t remember the exact words, but it was something my Home Ec teacher in high school said about her teaching style: “Some teachers think that you have to be harsh on students to teach properly, but I’ve always found kindness to be just as effective”.

For some reason it always stuck with me and reminded me that kindness isn’t a weakness, and shouldn’t be treated as such.
37points

#18

36 Life-Changing Sentences People Heard Once That Now Live Rent-Free In Their Hearts
The day are long but the years are short.

So true, especially now that my children are grown.
35points

#19

“Assume ignorance, not malice.”.
35points

#20

36 Life-Changing Sentences People Heard Once That Now Live Rent-Free In Their Hearts
You wouldn’t worry so much about what others thought of you, if you knew how seldom they did.
35points
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