Smart People Use These 30 Tricks To Make Life Surprisingly Easier

When hosting older people, play music from an era when they were in their 20s. My in laws were born in the 30s and the last time we had a gathering, I put on a play list of hits of the 50s. Over the course of the evening, this brought back all kinds of memories and they regaled us with stories of youth we'd never heard before. It was a delightful window into that era of their lives.

Instead of telling someone to "calm down", use cooperative and alternative language such as "let's take a moment for now" or "i get you, let's look at it this way..." (nobody in the history of time has calmed down from a "calm down")

Make sure someone gets inside safely before driving away. If you're dropping someone off at home, wait until they’ve actually gotten inside before leaving. It’s a small gesture that can make a big difference in their safety and peace of mind.

When you get good service, tell their boss. Just got off the phone with the office manager of the plumbing service we had out due to a severely blocked pipe. They were great, and I wanted their boss to know. Good companies will listen to complaints; great companies will reward their employees for raves. Those two plumbers are getting bonuses, and that’s just cool. It’s an easy way to make someone’s life better for making your life better.

For young parents meeting their kids friends parents: Save their kids name in parentheses next to their name. It helped me a ton when kids were starting school and making friends

If someone gives you homemade pickles or similar, give them back the cleaned jar when it's gone. It will make them feel good that you ate it, and they obviously need the jars to make more.

Stubborn Spot on Dishes? Try Salt. If you have a dish you are trying to clean with burnt food that won’t come up, sprinkling a generous amount of course salt on your sponge before scrubbing will help lift it up immensely. The abrasiveness will help scrub out the tough spot.

If you're bringing a book for a long trip, read the first chapter at home. Otherwise you may be stuck with a dull book and I know from experience, it will be the longest trip ever.

In a pinch, you can shave (your head) with conditioner. Birthed from a recent shower thought when I realized I hadn't packed shaving cream on a work trip. I shave my head daily and turns out the hotel conditioner works like a charm. Maybe even better than my regular shave cream

You can remove scratches from hardwood floors by rubbing a walnut on the scratch. Just tried it myself, works like a charm.

If you have trouble with your grocery orders getting delivered to the wrong address just add a single alcoholic beverage to the order. They are required to check your ID upon receipt of the groceries.

When searching for old work emails, start by looking in your "Sent" folder. It's impossible for this folder to be cluttered by spam and it will always contain things you replied to.

Laundry - Shake out clothes before putting them in the dryer. Shaking clothes before placing them in the dryer helps eliminate excess water, prevents wrinkles, and ensures clothes tumble freely by separating tangled fabric. This ultimately results in faster drying times.

First time delivering a training or a long speech? Be sure you have a glass of water next to you

Keeping fresh apples in the refrigerator can keep them fresh for months. If you have the room in your refrigerator, apples will keep fresh for months just sitting on a shelf or in a drawer. I don't keep them in a bag, just set them in there. Wash them off when you're ready to eat them. Make sure to check them regularly, and remove any bad ones. Buying in bulk is a good way to save money, and they will stay fresh for quite a while.

Keep green onions and herbs like cilantro, parsley in a cup of water like freshly cut flowers

When negotiating salary, always wait for the employer to name a number first. You might get a higher offer than you expected.

It is easier to change someone's mind if you explain they were lied to/betrayed than saying "see, I told you so". It's so tempting to gloat when the facts are on your side. It's satisfying in the short term, but does nothing to advance your position.
Don't let the satisfaction of being right obstruct the opportunity to actually change someone's mind.

Pin a note in your notes app and add things your partner mentions they like to make gift giving easier. Whenever my wife mentions she’s low on a perfume or sends me a link to something I save it in my notes app. Makes gift giving way easier and she always gets what she wants.

Use the FORD method when you don’t know what to say in conversation.
F - Family (Their S/O, kids, siblings, pets, family traditions)
O - Occupation (What do they do? How did they get into it? Where did they go to school?)
R - Recreation (What do they like to do?)
D - Dreams (Ask about their goals, dreams, and aspirations)