Many of us make assumptions about other people, sometimes no matter how hard we try not to. It’s just how our brains are wired most of the time: we see something and make conclusions based on the limited information we have. Sadly, that’s how gossip and false information spread, and it’s never fun to be on the receiving end of those.
This woman had to endure her sister-in-law telling her boyfriend’s family lies about her work. After seeing her work setup and how much she earns, the SIL incorrectly assumed that she was in a spicier line of work than IT sales. She went so far as to stage an intervention for her brother, and while he just laughed it off, the whole ordeal really offended the girlfriend.
A woman who worked in IT sales had her SIL making scandalous assumptions about her career
When she staged an intervention for her brother, the girlfriend had enough and kicked her out of their house
Commenters sided with the OP, also calling out the boyfriend for his weird reaction
The woman had a serious conversation with her boyfriend, which only led to more uncertainty
Commenters advised OP to seriously reconsider marrying into such a family
