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40 Indicators That The Person You’re Talking To Is Super Smart And Hides It Well
CuriositiesNOV 3, 2024

40 Indicators That The Person You’re Talking To Is Super Smart And Hides It Well

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How can you tell that someone is intelligent? At first glance, it sounds like a trick question with an easy answer, but the more you think about it, the more unclear things seem. Is it the person who can recite all the works of Shakespeare from memory? Perhaps it’s someone you know who runs a successful business or is an actual inventor? Or is it someone in your life who prioritizes their mental health and social relationships above everything else?
Not everyone lets on that they’re as smart as they are. The r/AskReddit community shared their personal thoughts about the signs that someone is far more intelligent than others might think. Scroll down to read their thoughts.

#1

40 Indicators That The Person You’re Talking To Is Super Smart And Hides It Well
They are able to change their opinion given new information.
92points

Bored Panda reached out to Melissa Church of Bad Science Jokes to hear her thoughts on intelligence and why it's valued so much in our society. She was kind enough to share her perspective with us.

Church told us in an email that, for her, what lies at the core of being truly smart is waiting to respond. "The most intelligent people I've met seem to really take their time with a reply during a conversation," she said.

"They are not quick to anger, or excite, they look at all the facts and then come to a decision."

#2

40 Indicators That The Person You’re Talking To Is Super Smart And Hides It Well
They are comfortable and confident enough to admit when they don't know something but will look it up.
86points

#3

40 Indicators That The Person You’re Talking To Is Super Smart And Hides It Well
They don't argue when it is obvious that someone they are talking to cannot be convinced of alternative thinking or different viewpoint to their own.
72points

Meanwhile, Church shed some light on the role that intelligence plays in society as a whole in this day and age. "I feel the tech industry, in general, has helped to change the definition of 'nerd' from the stereotypical caricature we see on television to some of today's wealthiest, most successful, people," she told Bored Panda.

"When we look at who is behind all of our favorite products, we see these extremely intelligent people who had a crazy idea and made it work. Things we cannot live without! The device you're reading this on was developed by some extremely smart people and made easy to understand for those folks like me. Ha!"

Church continued: "Society sees that it takes some exceptionally intelligent people to make our day-to-day lives what they are. Just a couple generations ago technology wasn't anywhere near what it is today, and having parents, grandparents, and ourselves, see just how far we've come in that regard, reminds us just how important the 'nerds' are!"

#4

40 Indicators That The Person You’re Talking To Is Super Smart And Hides It Well
They gather information before making a judgement.
66points

#5

40 Indicators That The Person You’re Talking To Is Super Smart And Hides It Well
They can explain very complex things in very simple terms and analogies.
62points

#6

40 Indicators That The Person You’re Talking To Is Super Smart And Hides It Well
They argue against your points, not you personally. I can’t stand when people can’t argue without taking offence or just giving up because their views are being challenged. An argument should be about the idea being discussed not a personal attack.
61points

If you talk to a whole bunch of people, they’ll likely have different interpretations of what intelligence really is. For some, it’s all about high IQ scores, book smarts, reasoning skills, fancy words, and a great memory. For others, it’s akin to wisdom, empathy, and living a good life. Still others associate smartness with results, e.g., financial success, a stellar career in academia, a global network of corporate contacts, etc.

Fundamentally, intelligence is the ability to acquire and apply your knowledge and skills. So, somebody who is incredibly curious and quickly devours new information is likely smart. However, the other half of that equation is to actually use all of that knowledge and your newfound skills for some goal.

Or getting lucky, as MIT Technology Review notes in its wittily titled article 'If you’re so smart, why aren’t you rich?'

#7

40 Indicators That The Person You’re Talking To Is Super Smart And Hides It Well
They hold their cards and quietly observe, analyze and study everything and everybody.

They question everything including themselves. They are Usually full of self-doubt because they’re smart enough to know there’s so much more to know.
54points

#8

40 Indicators That The Person You’re Talking To Is Super Smart And Hides It Well
They let you do most of the talking but they are actually listening and learning from what you say.
48points

#9

40 Indicators That The Person You’re Talking To Is Super Smart And Hides It Well
They read. Reading constantly expands the minds. It grows intelligence that wasn't asked for in the beginning, just entertainment. It expands one's thinking, in many directions. Empathy, compassion, a sense of the world as community, a sense of belonging. All these things, and more, come from reading!
47points

Learning thousands of trivia facts might be proof that you’ve got a good memory and are fairly disciplined, but if you don’t end up using any of it, it’s fairly useless fluff. On the flip side, someone who learns a few new bits of information, instantly applies them, and iterates past failure to improve their workflow, studying habits, or health is clearly getting actionable results.

Knowing information is good and all, but the true test is in how you use it… and whether you use it at all. The world is full of incredibly creative people with amazing ideas, but far from everyone will have the courage, patience, and willpower to test them out in the real world.

#10

40 Indicators That The Person You’re Talking To Is Super Smart And Hides It Well
They'll always add counterpoints ie 'arguments against' whatever they're saying. eg "...but I need to add that there are people who say this blah blah..."

Most ignorant people I know always speak like their opinions are established facts that are infallible.
43points

#11

40 Indicators That The Person You’re Talking To Is Super Smart And Hides It Well
They pick up quickly on things and are observant of their surroundings.
42points

#12

40 Indicators That The Person You’re Talking To Is Super Smart And Hides It Well
They're funny. Fast thinkers come up with great jokes on the spot.
41points

It’s very likely that you know some people who probably have an above-average IQ who seem to struggle with a lot of things, whether it’s their physical and mental health, their work, or their relationships. It’s also likely that back in school they were lauded as gifted and got good grades.

However, success as a grown-up requires far more than an agile mind. You need to know how to work in a team and navigate complex relationships. You have to know how to communicate with people clearly, not just boast about how you’re the best. You have to be willing to set your ego aside and be willing to learn something new from someone who has more experience than you. You need empathy. And you need to realize that working hard and burning out isn’t always the same as being efficient.

#13

40 Indicators That The Person You’re Talking To Is Super Smart And Hides It Well
They choose their battles.
37points

#14

40 Indicators That The Person You’re Talking To Is Super Smart And Hides It Well
It's not so much that they ask questions but the type of question. They use alot' of comparisons and analogies when expressing ideas or explaining things.

As for the quiet thing....i know plenty of stupid quiet people.
35points

#15

40 Indicators That The Person You’re Talking To Is Super Smart And Hides It Well
They don't claim to have firm answers to soft questions - they shrug and say "I dunno" a lot because they have never really finished thinking the matter through.

When they argue with you, they don't care who wins the argument. They are searching for the correct answer even if it is yours.

Also when their conclusions are challenged, they happily expose their thought process for you, laying their decision making process out in plain terms and inviting you to pick it apart.
33points

Who’s the smartest person that you personally know, dear readers? What are some (not so) subtle signs that someone is way, way more intelligent than they initially seem? What qualities, skills, and attitudes do you associate intelligence with the most? Do you know anyone who has book smarts in spades but isn’t all that great at applying them?

For all the Dungeons & Dragons nerds out there, would you rather have a high Wisdom or Intelligence score? Tell us all about what you think in the comments, at the bottom of this post.

#16

40 Indicators That The Person You’re Talking To Is Super Smart And Hides It Well
They listen more than talk. And don't get angry or defensive when someone says something they don't agree with.
33points

#17

The precision in their word choice. I’m not talking about advanced vocabulary or jargon I’m highlighting the ability to communicate ideas effectively. I’ve never met a dumb person that was very precise in their speech
31points

#18

40 Indicators That The Person You’re Talking To Is Super Smart And Hides It Well
They catch on quickly without you having to explain every little detail.
They’re quiet and analytic and they argue differently.
29points

#19

They can deal with the absence of data, incomplete data, conflicting data and generally can zero in to the important thing in a confusing situation.
28points

#20

40 Indicators That The Person You’re Talking To Is Super Smart And Hides It Well
They remember small details about things and people and are able to use that information in a productive way to further their goal. Memory is important but knowing how and when to use facts that people have only said maybe once shows flexibility and adaptive intelligence.
27points
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