I’ve worked with many kids. I’ve been a teacher, a babysitter, a camp counselor, an au pair and a performer in countless children’s theater shows. And while I recognize that kids are the future, and their brains are amazing, creative sponges soaking up so much knowledge and sharing much more wisdom than they often get credit for, no child is perfect. In fact, some are even annoying. (Sorry!) Children who demand things without saying ‘please’ or ‘thank you’, who pick on their peers, and who throw a fit any time they lose a game are my least favorite kids to come across. And while they will likely grow out of this behavior, it’s always extremely clear which children have been taught at home how to be respectful, kind and compassionate.
In honor of those kids and their parents, we’ve gathered a list down below of qualities Reddit users have been sharing that indicate that someone was “raised right”. From being able to own up to their mistakes to always holding doors open for others, this article is full of some of the most refreshing behaviors to observe in others. Keep reading to also find conversations we were lucky enough to have with Scarlet Paolicchi, the woman behind Family Focus Blog, and Amy Morrison, founder of Pregnant Chicken, to hear their thoughts on the topic.
Be sure to upvote all of the responses you agree with, and feel free to pat yourself on the back for all of these ideas you’ve also instilled in your little ones. Then, if you’re interested in reading about the telltale signs that someone was not raised right, you can find a Bored Panda article exploring that topic right here!
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#43
Taking their shoes off before entering someone's house without being asked. Its such a small act but shows great respect.
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77points
#44
They're able to contribute back to society and do things because they want to, not because they have to.
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75points
#45
Kids that stay close to their parents in public places without causing a ruckus or looking like they've just been beaten (or about to).
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72points
#46
When they question everything. If you grow up, say, Christian, and you believe every word until the day you die, someone went wrong. But if you question it, and come to the conclusion that either
A. It's not real and I should stop believing
B. It makes perfect sense after research and it strengthens my belief
You're a better person for it
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72points
#48
They are not chronically late or absent from work. Also, they prioritize correctly.
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64points
#49
They instinctively know how to conduct themselves in social and business situations.
Those "raised right" find a good word to say, when appropriate, and know how to be respectful of others, even when they disagree.
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57points


