The market is full of counterfeit goods, with some 'super' fakes designed so well that one wouldn't be able to tell with the naked eye. So is the world jam-packed with fake friends and people. While there are some clear telltale signs to tell the counterfeit products apart, it's not so easy to recognize signs your friends are fake.
Arguments or disagreeing about something in a friendship or any relationship are absolutely normal. No relationship is perfect, but a committed and supportive relationship almost is. While your friend having a different opinion than yours doesn't mean they are a fake friend, it's about how they react to it. These are clear signs of a fake friend if they bring you down for it, don't respect your opinion, or disregard it as unimportant.
The issue with recognizing red flags in friendships and relationships, in general, is that feelings and other factors are usually involved. Perhaps you were friends for a long while, have mutual friends, or have endearing memories you created together. But the good doesn't always outweigh the bad. In a healthy relationship, one shouldn't feel compromised, rejected, unwanted or unappreciated.
While we may not be able to tell you which zodiac signs are fake friends (astrology is not one of our greatest strengths), we will surely introduce you to multiple signs of fake friends to look out for. Below, we've compiled a list of fake friends signs and friendship red flags that will hopefully help you reflect on yourself and your surroundings. After all, we are who we surround ourselves with. And if you are interested in more related content, check out quotes about fake people next!
#21 You Can’t Say ‘No.’
Being able to compromise is, without a doubt, one of the most crucial parts of any relationship. Having a word in a relationship makes you feel respected and cherished. Therefore, if your so-called friend does not want to find a compromise with you no matter what, that's a fake friend sign to consider.
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#22 They Don't Seem Happy To See You
Fake friends seem somewhat disappointed that you actually showed up to meet them. Sometimes you can tell that they wish you had canceled. Those kinds of friends are often irritable and like to vent a lot. Real friends also need to vent, but it should be balanced with positive, fun conversations and never only one-sided.
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#23 They Bring You Down
As we mentioned before, true friends will always have a good word for you, even some constructive criticism. On the contrary, fake friends tend to bring all their negativity toward you and throw out some insults.
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#24 They Dismiss Your Needs
For those who are not your real friends, all your needs are always secondary and unimportant since all that matters to them are their needs and nobody else's. If you're voicing to them a personal or serious concern that's been bothering you lately, and they turn the conversation to themselves - that's a no-go.
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#25 Unproductive Disagreements
It is natural to have different points of view and sometimes reach a disagreement while debating a particular topic. However, a real friend will always at least try to understand your side of perception or agree to disagree. In contrast, a fake friend will likely stop talking and turn his or her back on you, even after a minor disagreement. And that’s a sign of manipulative behavior.
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#26 You Initiate Most Contacts
When you genuinely care about someone, you reach out to them. Good communication is always a two-way street, so if you feel like you always write the first message or make the first call, there's a great chance that your "friend" doesn't care so much about you.
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#27 They Don't Apologize For Their Mistakes And Don't Make Up For Them
Suppose a friend forgets about a planned meetup. In that case, they should remember it shortly after and call their friend to apologize. Fake friends wouldn't even bother to say sorry or plan other upcoming meetups to make up for the missed one.
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#28 They Drop Off Your Radar When They Start Dating Someone New
Fake friends will slowly but surely begin to ignore you when they meet a new boyfriend or girlfriend. They may suddenly reappear when they want advice or break off the relationship and need someone to give them emotional support. True friends make time for all relationships and don't cut their friends out because of a new girlfriend or boyfriend.
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