Some men jump into relationships for different reasons. For some being in a relationship gives them the convenience of having someone by their side because they hate being alone. It gives them access to having someone they don't have to worry about impressing. If he does any of the following you are more than likely just a placeholder in his life.
1. He TEXTS, BUT NEVER CALLS.
Texting has seem to have replaced a genuine phone call. While texting is all well and good it will never replace the importance of having them hear your voice on the other end. It is more personal and shows effort in communication.
2. HE IS ALWAYS BUSY.
Let's be honest nobody is that busy that they can't make time for the person they claim to love. If he is always too busy for you, then he is not that into you.
3. HE NEVER SPEAKS OF FUTURE PLANS.
When a man confesses his love for his woman everything he does or wants to do will always include his lady. If he's always talking about "I" and not "We" he doesn't see anything past what he has with you at the moment.
4. HE STILL TALKS TO HIS EX-GIRLFRIEND.
There is nothing more disrespectful in a relationship than a man who chooses to still keep communication with an ex. Unless there is a child involved there is no reason why a man should still be talking to an ex. Not only is it disrespectful but it makes your woman feel like she is in competition with someone who should no longer be in the picture.
5. HE DOESN'T TAKE THE TIME TO GET TO KNOW YOU.
When it comes down to it, he never seems interested in getting to know more about you. It is always about him, and what he likes and doesn't like. He doesn't take the time to ask you anything.
6. HE NEVER PLANS DATES.
You always find yourself making plans to go out on a date, whether it's the movies, or dinner, etc...When a man really loves his woman he makes it a priority to date her and surprise her from time to time with a night out.
7. HE ALWAYS SEEMS TO CANCEL PLANS WITH YOU.
He is inconsiderate of your feelings and doesn't put much thought into what you had to reschedule just to make time to be with him.
8. HE MAKES BEING AROUND HIM FEEL UNEASY.
Your man should never make you feel uncomfortable being around him. Being around him should feel comforting and safe.
9. YOU DON'T KNOW ANY OF HIS FRIENDS OR FAMILY.
You may have seen them on his social media, but he has never introduced you to any of them. Men love to show off their lady specially to those closest to him.
10. HE NEVER OPENS UP.
You are always left assuming because he won't open up and talk about anything. Every time you ask a question he leaves you wondering
