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“What Is The Most Shocking Thing A ‘Best Friend’ Did That Instantly Ended A Friendship” (83 Answers)

“What Is The Most Shocking Thing A ‘Best Friend’ Did That Instantly Ended A Friendship” (83 Answers)

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We all intend for our friendships to last a lifetime. But of course, there are circumstances beyond our control that may cut these relationships short, much to our deep disappointment. 
And as these people shared, it sometimes takes only one action for it all to come crashing down. They all had the courage to relive the painful moment, one that will likely stay with them for the rest of their lives. 
If you have any similar experiences, feel free to share them in the comments.

#1

“What Is The Most Shocking Thing A ‘Best Friend’ Did That Instantly Ended A Friendship” (83 Answers)
My firstborn passed away and instead of coming to the funeral… she chose a concert. Let’s just say we never spoke again.
30points

#2

“What Is The Most Shocking Thing A ‘Best Friend’ Did That Instantly Ended A Friendship” (83 Answers)
Let my dog outside while I was gone, said he bolted out the back door and then she decided to leave and go home to eat dinner and never search for him. Didn’t tell me until 2 hrs later and he was found [deceased] 5 days later.
27points

#3

“What Is The Most Shocking Thing A ‘Best Friend’ Did That Instantly Ended A Friendship” (83 Answers)
Didn’t come to my wedding because “That’s my baby’s bedtime”. I was MOH at her wedding 2 years prior.
25points

#4

“What Is The Most Shocking Thing A ‘Best Friend’ Did That Instantly Ended A Friendship” (83 Answers)
I was about to go into surgery, I was scared, and I was texting her trying to distract myself. And she hits me with “the world doesn’t stop just cause you're sick.”
24points

#5

“What Is The Most Shocking Thing A ‘Best Friend’ Did That Instantly Ended A Friendship” (83 Answers)
I got cancer and it was “too much for her to support me.”
24points

#6

“What Is The Most Shocking Thing A ‘Best Friend’ Did That Instantly Ended A Friendship” (83 Answers)
She accidentally called me on her Apple Watch while telling one of her friends one of my biggest secrets and laughing about it.
23points

#7

“What Is The Most Shocking Thing A ‘Best Friend’ Did That Instantly Ended A Friendship” (83 Answers)
Got angry at me for getting a hysterectomy because I didn’t take her advice and try Chinese herbal medicine instead.
23points

#8

“What Is The Most Shocking Thing A ‘Best Friend’ Did That Instantly Ended A Friendship” (83 Answers)
Believed my ex husband instead of me when I accused him of domestic [attack]. (I had visible marks, a police report, and he threatened to unalive me).
22points

#9

“What Is The Most Shocking Thing A ‘Best Friend’ Did That Instantly Ended A Friendship” (83 Answers)
I got diagnosed with lymphoma and she said I was “asking for attention.”
22points

#10

“What Is The Most Shocking Thing A ‘Best Friend’ Did That Instantly Ended A Friendship” (83 Answers)
My first beautiful daughter was stillborn then we had trouble getting pregnant, my best friend got pregnant accidentally and said to me “hurry up and have a baby.”
21points

#11

“What Is The Most Shocking Thing A ‘Best Friend’ Did That Instantly Ended A Friendship” (83 Answers)
Mine complained to others that I was “selfish” for getting married before her. My mum [had] cancer and we didn’t know how long she had left and I wanted her at my special day.
21points

#12

Said I was grieving too much, I lost both of my parents back to back? TO CANCER??!! Hello?????
21points

#13

“What Is The Most Shocking Thing A ‘Best Friend’ Did That Instantly Ended A Friendship” (83 Answers)
Texting me from an unknown number harassing me and then pretending to « help me figure out who it was »…. Like the mom in the Netflix doc « unknown number »
21points

#14

I got pregnant in college, she told me she thought I would be a bad mother, couldn’t raise a child, etc. etc. haven’t talked since. Anywaysss, my little girl made her dance team this year, and won back to back reading awards. Shes also an angel that spreads love wherever she goes. Glad the ball of negativity wasn’t around to tarnish my little love.
21points

#15

“What Is The Most Shocking Thing A ‘Best Friend’ Did That Instantly Ended A Friendship” (83 Answers)
I came out as a lesbian at 51, 29 years of friendship gone, just like that.
21points

#16

Covid happened while we were in mexico. We were told to change our flights and head home immediately or risk getting stuck as flights were all either cancelling or booking up quickly. I went to change OUR flights and she had already changed hers a couple hours prior. She was going to leave me in mexico. I didnt even say anything, i just quietly left the resort and caught my flight. Her flight got cancelled and she had to stand in a line for hours on a first come, first serve basis and wait for an emergency flight home a day or two later. I didnt talk to her after that.
20points

#17

I almost [passed away] (got stabbed 30 times) and my best friend at the time worked with people that were friends or associates of the guy that did that to me and instead of being normal and just avoiding them she friended all of them and then invited them to our new apartment that was supposed to help keep me safer but just instead doxxed me to his entire friend group.
19points

#18

She told her parents we were going on a trip. They had a very bad car accident, her mom thinking she was with me called my mom at 4 am. I will never forget the face of my mom when she entered in to my room yelling my name, for a second my mom thought I was actually with her cause we were best friends at the time. That was the last straw, she was hanging with [users] and stuff and I didn’t like that environment. But she almost causing my mom a heart attack was unforgettable, my mom slept with me that night.
19points

#19

“What Is The Most Shocking Thing A ‘Best Friend’ Did That Instantly Ended A Friendship” (83 Answers)
She measured all of the girls waists in the friend group and kicked me out because I was “too fat.”
19points

#20

Maybe this was too harsh… but we were on a night out and she clicked her fingers at the barman and I instantly knew I was never seeing her again.
18points
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