57 Relationship Disasters That Make Us Question If True Love Even Exists

I'd definitely say that he's trying. And looks like he's failing miserably.

He said he was going through a hard time and didn’t have a working phone for a week… But then I’m like, how did you guys meet up to go to this girl's house then?
I want to add that I spoke to the girl, and she said it was 100% him, and his friend didn’t come over with him, as he said. He said "She’s mad because he was a jerk. He said he was freaking out about the STD because they all shared the same vape".

At first, I didn't think much of this because I thought that it was good that she was socialising with her colleagues. That is till I noticed a message notification that she received in her group chat with her friends earlier this week.

Friend 1 - "Hey Em (my wife). Just checking that you're still on for tonight with Steve (Affair partner)?"
Wife - "Yep! Matt (my name) is okay with me meeting up with you all tonight."
Friend 1, Friend 2, and Steve all leave a laughing reaction to my wife's comment.

I also looked through the messages between my wife and Steve, and they started communicating around 4 months ago.

Started with a bit of flirting between the pair of them, and this led to exchanges of revealing photos and conversations about hooking up at his apartment.

I've taken photos of the group conversation and the private conversation between my wife and Steve, and I plan on using them when the time is right.

We've been together for almost 14 years, married for 8 years.

It’s my father and my ex-girlfriend’s mom in the back of his car.

I’ve been staying at my boyfriend's house for the past few days. We have been having a lot of problems in the beginning of the relationship with a girl he’s been friends with for 5 years. My gut kept telling me something weird was going on between them, but he kept telling me there was nothing between them, and it was just in the back of my mind. I decided to go through his phone yesterday & I saw these messages between them in his recently deleted. I know I shouldn’t have gone through his phone, but I needed to know why I couldn’t let go of the feeling I had from her. I'm lost and confused and so hurt. I want to tell the girl off so badly because she knew about me the whole time and kept playing along with everything. I am so hurt, and I don’t know what to do. I don’t feel enough at all, and especially because another woman can do this to her own gender. It’s sick and so cruel. What do I even do in this situation? I can’t leave for another day, and I feel horrible and distraught.

She was acting differently and very cold towards me and lying about small stuff, so I couldn't take it and read her notebook/diary.

Funny thing is that I know who it is, and I got his phone number from our common acquaintance. The day I found out, I called him and asked him if he knew we were in a relationship, and he told me that I couldn't even call what we have a relationship, and to move out immediately. Now it just hurts.

It might not actually look that bad, but it's in her parents' old apartment, where I have to live for the next 4 months until I can move to a small apartment I can actually afford because prices in this city are crazy. Also, while looking for a job. I know happiness is relative, but I went from living with a loving girlfriend in a spacious apartment, planning children, and going on trips to almost nothing in a matter of days. And the worst thing is, I lie here in the dark and keep blaming myself.

I've been footing the bills for her and her child. I never questioned or judged her for being a single mum, but I later found out she's been cheating on me with the father of this child, and when I confronted her about it, she said: "He's the father of the child, no matter the situation, he still has some access to her". I haven't felt this stupid ever in my life!

This was years ago, but I was just feeling nostalgic reading the messages I got from the girl he was cheating on me with. At the time, I wasn’t angry with her at all, but now I’m kinda thinking she sucks. Why did she continue to twist the knife and remind me how badly he spoke of me! There are so many messages I couldn’t include, and it’s the same broken record. Also, the friend she refers to is her co-worker who messaged me to ask if he and I were dating once she saw he was dating her co-worker.

Together for 3 years. He promised he'd always be faithful, and he hates cheating. Caught him cheating last week. Catching this on his status after everything felt in poor taste considering the kind of person he claimed to be. I feel so dumb.

This is from like 4.5 years ago. I was going through old photos and found this. My ex was acting extremely distant and had a whole attitude change after visiting her oldest sister. She would take her phone with her everywhere and hide it, so I knew something was up. She left to work one day and forgot her Apple Watch, and that’s where I found all her texts to this girl who worked for her older sister. She was cheating on me with an identical twin who was also cheating with a married woman. Her oldest sister is gay, too, go figure. I let the husband know that his wife was also cheating on him, but he was in denial and didn’t care. My ex denied ever cheating on me until I moved back home to California, and it appears they’re still living happily ever after.

I don’t have a man, so I didn’t know what to expect, but it turns out my ex-boyfriend is continuing his behavior. I cut out a lot of the story because it had too much personal info to censor, but essentially, he was a crazy manipulator and would never let me break up with him. When I finally did, he shattered my phone and stomped on my glasses. Hope she’s okay.

So I travel for work, and lately I’ve had a feeling that my girlfriend of nine years has been acting strange, and I think she may be cheating on me and in my own home. After reviewing my security system, I found two sensors in the picture above that I’ve never been alerted to, unlike with other centers, where windows or doors are open. I get messages and texts. This has happened several times over the past few months, and none of these come through in the alerts. The only way to do that is to go to the panel and force-bypass a specific sensor. Could this be a mistake, or am I right about my assumptions and thoughts?