So when I was 28 I went an got a VASECTOMY, an literally every woman who were either potential dates and or female friends would say I'm selfish an just seem ane pissed TF at me LMAO after they found out I had a VASECTOMY. So really am I selfish.When I asked them so yall have a right to get abortions but I can't get a VASECTOMY they went dead silent on me. Anyway what do yall Pandas think am I selfish I say NOPE 😎
#1
Vasectomy is the only reliable birth control for males (well, there's condoms too, but their efficacy is questionable and they're a little inconvenient). Unfortunately, they are, for the most part, irreversible. But if you like sex, and really don't want children (even if you're in a monogamous relationship) I think it's selfish NOT to have one!
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#2
Nope. Your body your choice.
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#3
I don't think that's selfish at all. You are taking precautions which is usually seen as the appropriate course of action. If you don't want to have children it is a good thing to do.
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#4
If that is what he wants, then there is no problem. Use it as a screening process with dates.
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#5
Not selfish in any way. Unfortunately society is obsessed with fertility and children, they teach us that you must have them to have a worthy life. Because of that childfree people like us get bullied very often by friends, family or even doctors. Its the same for women; its almost impossible to even get a doctor to sterilise you if you don't have several children already. I have been told that I am selfish many times, or that I was too young to know what I wanted (I was 32 when i got sterilised and yet I was "too young").
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