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At the hospital, CT scan showed a large ovarian tumor that was starting to undergo torsion. She had emergency surgery. There were times I thought it was our last Christmas together.
Sweated until the pathology came back benign. We had our 31st anniversary a couple weeks ago.
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My first ever job was a retail assistant at a big clothing brand. I was only 19. It was just before 9pm and everyone was doing cleaning up/tidying duties. Me and another young guy (Kel) had to take all the recycled packaging out. Basically you left the building, crossed a small square, and there were these huge dumpsters.
I left the building and was walking to the dumpsters. I dumped the cardboard and walked back and then realised I had left the door fob inside. It was dark by then and I knocked on the door a couple of times and just kept pressing the buzzer as I knew Kel was working and would come out with more packaging any second.
Out of nowhere. I swear I did not see him before, this massive guy is standing next to me. He was smoking. He said something super creepy like "what's a pretty girl like you doing standing next to a strong man like me?"
I froze and all I managed to say was that I work here, and that I am taking the rubbish out.
He looked me in the eyes. He said: "I'm going to do you so hard. You are going to wish you weren't alive." I can't even remember what I thought I was just in complete fear.
Literally at that moment, I heard the door buzz, and Kel comes out and he's like laughing "why were you buzzing so much?".
I'm crying and screaming and run straight into him. I turn around and the guy is gone.
Kel grabs the manager. He calls the police and they come. We made a report but there was no CCTV back then and that was it. To be honest, I think some of my colleagues thought I was just making it up.
I often think about what would have happened if Kel had come a few minutes later.
Scary and shocking situations—like acts of violence, accidents, and natural disasters—are dangerous, and on top of that, they can leave a lasting negative effect on your physical, mental, and emotional health. If you have trouble processing what has happened to you, it is important that you reach out to a therapist and also talk to your loved ones for support. It is not a sign of weakness to ask for help.
The National Institute of Mental Health explains that after a traumatic experience, you might feel anxious, sad, or angry, run into problems sleeping or concentrating, and constantly think about what happened. Most people will recover from this, as these reactions will get weaker over time. Others, however, might develop post-traumatic stress disorder.
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He made it. Turns 11 next month and is doing great. Thank you modern medicine!
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I ended up with a staph infection that caused me to have an open wound on my c-section scar that lasted over a year too. Hard to navigate all that with a brand new baby. 0/10 will not do again my husband got snipped we were both so scared.
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You must be willing to ask for professional help when you notice that the scary experiences you have had are affecting your daily life. Some of the main signs that you likely need help include the following behaviors:
- Feeling very anxious, sad, or fearful
- Worrying a lot
- Crying often
- Having frightening flashbacks or thoughts
- Experiencing nightmares
- Feeling angry, resentful, or irritable
- Having trouble thinking clearly
- Avoiding the people or places that bring disturbing memories
- Isolating yourself from your family and friends
Furthermore, you might experience physical trauma responses, such as being jumpy and easily startled, having stomach pain, and a racing heart.
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I put two and two together and figured i had stage 4 kidney/bladder/prostate cancer that spread to my lungs. After another scan they gave me 3 options for what the mass could be: TB, sarcoidosis or cancer. I googled and there's no way i had the others so i spent weeks knowing was probably gonna pass away while i waited for a biopsy.
Turns out I did have cancer but a much more treatable cancer (hodgkin lymphoma). I never though I'd cry tears of joy hearing news that I had cancer. After a summer of chemo i got to remission and fingers crossed it stays that way.
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It was only because I was such a bad little diver that my chin hit the floor and not the top of my head which would have crumpled my head into my neck. No one saw it happen, but my head was ringing all day. Got home and my mom asked me why my chin was all scraped up and I told her I fell while I was running. It was better that she never knew how close I came to being a quadraplegic.
Editing...since a decent amount of people are seeing my comment, please I beg of you to really reinforce pool safety warnings with your kids with the pool season about to get underway, I was very lucky that day!
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I truly thought I was going to pass away that night. It took me another 8 months to figure out how to leave him.
If left untreated, traumatic events can result in depression, panic disorder, misuse of illegal substances, and thoughts of harming yourself. It is vital that you reach out for help immediately.
Meanwhile, try to focus on healthy ways to manage stress that improve your well-being rather than harm it. This means spending time with your supportive and trusted loved ones, developing healthy diet, exercise, and sleep routines, and setting realistic goals for what you can manage. Moreover, it is essential that you avoid relying on illegal substances or alcohol to help you cope, as they will only harm your health further.
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I saw this and immediately wanted to leave. I told my dad that I didn’t want to get naked in front of a stranger over a little bit of dry skin. He talked me into staying for the appointment anyway by giving me the whole, “he’s a doctor, you won’t be showing him anything he hasn’t seen a thousand times” speech.
To my complete surprise, because of that full body exam (and a couple of biopsies later), I found out I had two cancerous spots (Melanoma) on my back that I didn’t even know were there.
Made sense as I worked as a lifeguard that previous summer and never wore sunscreen. Lucky for me, it was early on enough that it hadn’t spread yet. Got scheduled for surgery the following week, right in his office. Had me lay on my stomach on a table and he cut these big, thick chunks of meat out of my back. Said he took a bit more than he needed to just so he could make sure he got it all.
I was out of work for six weeks for recovery, but everything turned out okay and I was cancer free. Had to continue going in for a full body exam every three months after that for a while, which sucked, but it was better than dying. He told me if I hadn’t come in for the minor psoriasis, I’d have been gone within a couple of years. Scared the stuff out of me. Always wear your sunscreen.
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If you feel like opening up about your own traumatic past and how you coped with the fear and fallout, you can do so in the comments.
What are the scariest, most terrifying things that you have ever experienced that have left an indelible mark on your life? What advice would you give anyone who ever finds themselves in situations like the ones you went through?
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I’m still here, so it worked as it should.
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Weird thing is, I wasn't afraid until after when I woke up in the ditch. During, my thought was "this is it".
Kid didn't even stop, just kept driving.
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1 month in a coma, 3 months in the burn ICU, 23 surgeries, and one organ transplant later, he is still here. Life is different but i will never forget what it was like facing that level of uncertainty.


