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Viral TikTok Trend Has Women Sharing The Nastiest Texts From Men, Here Are 30 Of The Worst
CuriositiesOCT 8, 2021

Viral TikTok Trend Has Women Sharing The Nastiest Texts From Men, Here Are 30 Of The Worst

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From trashy one-liners to unsolicited nude pics, it’s no secret that women receive a lot of questionable content from men they never asked for.
In fact, a study showed that 1 in 4 millennial men (27%) have sent a "d-pic" to a woman. Moreover, of millennial men who have sent a lewd photo, 24% have done so without being asked.
And while not every man pushes the chat with a woman that far, the rude texts they dare to press “send” come in all shapes. Like, being a jerk and telling a woman she’s ugly, manipulating her, or using misogyny. It's obvious that way too many women are forced to face such disrespect on a daily basis.
And thanks to women on TikTok, who decided to expose such cases by sharing the rudest texts they ever received from men, this awful problem is finally put into the spotlight and makes us rethink what’s normal and what’s not in men texting women.

#1 At Least He Had A Plan

At Least He Had A Plan
331points

#2 When Why Is He Asking For Them

When Why Is He Asking For Them
296points

#3 But It's All Love So It's Fine

But It's All Love So It's Fine
233points

If you’re a woman, you most likely know very well how it feels to protect yourself from online abuse and harassment. In many cases, it feels like women have this “unjust burden” thrown at them which is only getting worse with each new way of communication. Imagine men who would have never considered standing on a street corner in a trench coat are now bullying and harassing women they meet online. How did it happen?

#4 All I Did Was Go Out With A Dude I Met On Tinder

All I Did Was Go Out With A Dude I Met On Tinder
212points

#5 After A Phone Conversation/ Argument. I Wish I Was Joking

After A Phone Conversation/ Argument. I Wish I Was Joking
202points

#6 I Honestly Didn’t Even Know How To Respond To This

I Honestly Didn’t Even Know How To Respond To This
199points

The experts now say that sexual harassment made online is no less dangerous to a victim than physical harassment done in real life. “It is inevitable that some of these people will then go on to commit contact sexual offenses, but it is not possible to say at this time what sort of proportion that is,” Clare McGlynn, Professor of Law and expert in image-based sexual abuse, from Durham Law School, told HuffPost UK.

#7 I Just Found This At The Bottom Of My Tinder Messages Im Going To Peeeeeeee

I Just Found This At The Bottom Of My Tinder Messages Im Going To Peeeeeeee
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199points

#8 And They Say Romance Is Dead?

And They Say Romance Is Dead?
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190points

#9 Reality Of Dating In 2020

Reality Of Dating In 2020
189points

Meanwhile, Laura Thompson, a lead researcher at City University, believes that with the digital age and more and more platforms coming out, people always find a way to weaponize them. Moreover, according to her, “while women seem to have largely accepted this as part of the unwritten laws of internet interaction, finding the solution to this type of abuse should not fall into the laps of victims because it 'curtails women’s opportunities.'”

Laura believes that it’s “unfair to expect women to be continually self-policing and every time they want to use some function online, they need to think about how it might be misused by someone else and we can’t scare women off using the internet, or smartphone technology, because it is simply not fair.”

#10 This Man Rlly Called Me Out Like That

This Man Rlly Called Me Out Like That
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176points

#11 No Coming Back From This One Brother

No Coming Back From This One Brother
168points

#12 I Know Rodby Ain't Talking

I Know Rodby Ain't Talking
161points

#13 #chivalryisntdead

#chivalryisntdead
157points

#14 Oh No

Oh No
151points

#15 Please It’s 90° And I Posted In My Bathing Suit Bye

Please It’s 90° And I Posted In My Bathing Suit Bye
149points

#16 Sorry Ladies He’s All Mine

Sorry Ladies He’s All Mine
148points

#17 Kinda Clever Tho

Kinda Clever Tho
136points

#18 True Love

True Love
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136points

#19 Let’s Pray Nobody From My School Sees This Especially Him

Let’s Pray Nobody From My School Sees This Especially Him
129points

#20 That’s On Having Gorg Friends I Guess

That’s On Having Gorg Friends I Guess
128points
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