Dating companies are aware of this problem, and some have rolled out features to protect users. Bumble added tools allowing users to share date details with friends, along with ID Verification to confirm real identities. Tinder uses automated detection to catch offensive messages before they reach an inbox, asking authors to think twice before hitting send.
A few years ago, Bumble also introduced artificial intelligence features that automatically blur explicit photos so users can choose whether to view them.
Still, automated filters only go so far. For now, women navigate these spaces largely at their own risk — especially in places without strict digital safety laws.
#22 I Like How He Went From No Hard Feelings To I’m Pushing The Age Limit
These messages and profile bios may make us cringe and rage, but real change requires a massive cultural shift. Men often underestimate how damaging toxic messages can be, and they need to take it down a notch. Even a quick online search can teach you proper online dating etiquette and what not to say.
It also means women shouldn’t have to accept harassment as just “part of the process” when looking for dates. Until that culture changes, people will continue to experience modern dating fatigue.
Have you ever received a ridiculous message or come across an unhinged dating profile? Tell us in the comments.
#30 Not Really Any Context To Add To This, This Was Unprompted From Someone I’ve Never Really Talked To But One Time
