#1
They went to this really great jewelry maker so said, "I have something that is really close, give me a bit and I can make it perfect."
He worked his a*s off and got it done with about an hour to spare, plus the managed to get my window fixed.
The three of us are the only ones who know. I ended up using that jewelry maker for any jewelry I needed and well I haven't stopped yet.
He ended up telling my best men to not worry about the price and for me to come down after the honeymoon to work it out. I did and he gave it to me at the cost of the materials. He is a great guy. He retired during COVID.
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#3
The secret is that I have many stuffed animals and each week I pick a new one to sleep with because I don't want any of them to feel sad or left out.
Sometimes, we keep things from loved ones and not always for the wrong reasons.
a. Maybe protect them
If we believe the truth might destroy their peace of mind
We think we’re shielding them from pain they don’t need to feel
It comes from a place of care, even if it’s misguided
b. Because we are ashamed of the truth
When something happens that we regret or feel guilty about
We fear judgment or disappointment
Sometimes it’s easier to pretend it never happened
c. To avoid an awkward situation
When the truth might just make things weird or uncomfortable
We worry it might ruin the mood or create tension
So we quietly tuck it away and carry on like nothing’s wrong
#4
To this day, he doesn’t know I’d been going to the flea market every Saturday and buying small bits of old looking junk and planting them in the hole for him to find.
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#6
So I went in the classifieds at the back of the newspaper, found someone giving away free kittens, and I went and got one.
When my mum came home that day, I told her that I met a man down by the docks with a cardboard box full of kittens, and he was going to throw it in the water if he couldn't get rid of them. So I took one.
She did try to give her away a few times to various friends, but nobody wanted a kitten, and she got attached to her. To the point that she wouldn't let me take her with me when I moved out for university.
She loves telling that story of how we ended up with a cat that I wasn't supposed to get, and that sweet baby lived to be almost 20 in the end. She brought home many mice and birds, and once, a weasel.
I named her Turnip, after Baldrick's turnip in Blackadder.
RIP Turnip. You lived a lie, but you were loved, and your fake origin story continues to delight at the dinner table!
But here’s the thing, not all secrets are created equal. Some harmless or wholesome secrets might not hurt anyone and can even bring a smile. But then, there are those heavy, damaging secrets that can shatter even the strongest relationship. It’s like carrying a secret weight—you might think it’s light, but over time, it drags you down and affects everyone around you. So, while a little mystery can be fun, some things are best shared openly.
#7
It had sentimental value as it was a 16th bday gift, so I knew she’d never want another set.
So I took the one she had around our big city to jewelers and shops until I found a matching one. Eventually found one, bought the pair. Dirtied it up at home and let her “find it” in her sock drawer.
Still have the other hidden in my desk in case she loses the other.
#8
She’s gotten a big enough following she doesn’t need it anymore but to this day she doesn’t know it was me who left all of those encouraging comments and likes and reposts and thing of that nature.
#9
I then rubbed it in dirt, washed it a few times, and ripped off its leather on its nose and filled it in with black permanent marker, all so it matched the one she had. We then told her that her puppy had been found and the joy on her face made the expense and time it took crafting it well worth it.
She is thirteen now and still keeps her puppy on her bed. I plan to take this to my grave.
Take financial secrecy, for example. Maybe you’re hiding a secret credit card debt or a surprise purchase from your partner, thinking it’s “no big deal.” But money is one of the biggest stress points in relationships. When your partner finds out you’ve been keeping secrets about finances, it can lead to serious trust issues and arguments. Being transparent about money isn’t always easy, but it builds a foundation of honesty and teamwork.
#10
So I took it out of the box and put a few small scratches on the back of it and told him I bought a new TV and that he could have my old one that I didn't use anymore.
Well, he's doing way better now financially, but he has no idea I did that and I will never tell him.
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#12
When we got back from our out of town trip I noticed something was amiss on my car. When I got in it, I noticed the sunshade was installed backwards, I would never do that on accident.
I then pulled the dashcam footage. He took it around the neighborhood. He didn't do any donuts, or burn any tires. Just a nice slow stroll through the neighborhood with the music playing and I assume waved and some people.
I ended up just handling it man to man. he was like 17-18 at the time. I never told his mom about it.
Now, what about secret relationships? This one’s a no-brainer when it comes to relationship deal-breakers. Whether it’s a secret fling or emotional affair, hiding a relationship from your spouse or partner is a betrayal that cuts deep. It damages trust, creates emotional distance, and often ends in heartbreak. Some secrets are worse than others, and this is definitely one of them. Honesty is painful sometimes, but it’s better than deception.
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I was totally fine, I was just super bored and wanted to spend time with you.
Then there’s addiction concealment, which can be incredibly tough to admit. Whether it’s alcohol, gambling, or even something like social media or shopping, hiding an addiction means hiding a struggle. Your loved ones can’t help or support you if they don’t know what’s going on. Keeping this secret can make you feel isolated, and over time, the relationship suffers from lack of trust and communication.
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#17
My mother told me if I ever fell from there I wouldn't be allowed to feed my turtle by myself.
So one day I fell ...bad ...top of my head hit the corner of the bed frame and squirted blood...I ran to my mother not in pain but in shock from the amount of blood...she screamed in horror...ambulance came and went to the hospital. My mother and the Doctor asked me how it happened. I really didn't want to lose the privilege of feeding my turtle so I made up a lie on the spot
"I was jumping and flipping on my bed and landed head first on the radiator"
I'm 39 now and til this day that's the story my whole family believes "remember when you flipped on your bed and landed on the radiator and had to get stitches.".
#18
Another tricky secret is hiding your true intentions. Maybe you’re pretending to want a long-term future when you’re actually unsure. Or perhaps you’re making decisions behind your partner’s back because you don’t want to upset them. These little white lies and hidden motives can build walls between you. Relationships thrive on clear intentions and openness, but without that, confusion and resentment creep in.
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#20
Two things I really dislike are the smell of jasmine and taste of lime. Don't know why, just do.
Daughter made jasmine lime rice. It was like eating an air freshener, I concentrated and got it down. Cleaned my plate, because thats what you do.
Much later in life, my ex wife her mom told her how much I hated those two things , and daughter remembered that meal and called me to tell me I should have told her. I said, no, that's not the right thing.