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“She Still Didn't Get It”: 58 Times HR Had To Deal With The Most Absurd Situations At Work
Relationships,WorkJUL 6, 2026

“She Still Didn't Get It”: 58 Times HR Had To Deal With The Most Absurd Situations At Work

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Working in Human Resources is wild. For one, there’s the responsibility of having to bridge the gap between management and employees. Then, there’s the constant emotional stress of dealing with angry, burnt-out, or upset workers. But the cherry on top is that, every once in a while, you get a complaint that is completely bonkers.
HR employees and other workers spilled the tea about the most ridiculous, hilarious, and bizarre workplace complaints that they have ever witnessed. And it hurts to read how self-centered and delusional some people are. We’ve rounded up the best (or is that ‘worst’?) stories to remind you that your coworkers are people and they all deserve a bit more grace.

#1

“She Still Didn't Get It”: 58 Times HR Had To Deal With The Most Absurd Situations At Work
Not an HR employee, but I recently reported a bus driver for bringing his girl friend to work and rubbing her feet while driving. She sat on the spot right behind the driver and put her feet where he could reach for them with one hand.

I took a picture of the whole thing and debated on what to do with it for a while. On the one side, I didn't want this guy to lose his job nor have to explain why he was rubbing his girlfriend's feet at work (imagine the awkwardness). On the other side, he missed a turn and then took a U-turn on a downhill blind curve where we could've easily gotten nailed.
In the end I came to the conclusion: when other people's lives are in your hands, that's what your hands should focus on.
43points

#2

“She Still Didn't Get It”: 58 Times HR Had To Deal With The Most Absurd Situations At Work
She came in with a complaint that she tried to give one of the younger guys a hug and he refused. His story was that he basically had to run away.

I had to explain to a middle age woman that it was not her right to hug people who didn't want to be hugged. She still didn't get it and left thinking she was still in the right.
38points

#3

“She Still Didn't Get It”: 58 Times HR Had To Deal With The Most Absurd Situations At Work
Was handed a handwritten letter from my boss, as he said “I think you might need this”.

The letter had been written by an employee, who let herself into the boss’s office and left it on his desk while he was out, complaining she was unhappy about how the staff were “mistreated and disrespected” because he often left during the day to “go shopping and get haircuts” (this rarely happened, probably not even once a month), and that she thought it was appalling that he left for a week over Christmas to see his family, while they weren’t allowed more than 3 days off over Christmas.

Had a meeting with her and literally had to explain that he is the owner of the company and can come and go as he pleases, that he works evenings and weekends when others don’t, and that the week off was the first time he had taken holiday in 8 months, unlike the rest of the staff who get 28 days throughout the year.

She looked at me, expressionless, and said “and? I want a week off at Christmas. If he gets it, I should have it.” I told her her complaint had been logged and we’ll look into it. She walked out, relayed a different version of our conversation to a dozen employees and gossiped about the boss. She was gone within a month of the letter.
37points

You might be a ‘regular’ employee and have pretty strong opinions about HR at your company. You might work in HR yourself. Or you might work in HR and still have strong opinions about HR. Whatever the case, the reality is that Human Resources is an incredibly challenging area to work in. It is often very draining, responsible work that is both emotionally and mentally taxing.

According to Forbes, HR executives are on the front lines of responding to trends, events, and developments that impact the employees at their companies. “Unless handled the right way, those issues can lead to a crisis that impacts the morale and retention of workers and corporate profitability.”

Some of the main challenges include the rise of AI, issues with keeping employees engaged, the changing nature of work, economic pressures, hiring, burnout, bad managers, a maturing workforce, and low morale. On top of that, you also have to contend with the fact that the nature of HR continues to change.

#4

“She Still Didn't Get It”: 58 Times HR Had To Deal With The Most Absurd Situations At Work
Not HR but a complaint raised against me

"Hostile and unfriendly behaviour"

I had to explain to the head of HR that the complainant had walk up behind me whilst I was relieving myself at a urinal, launching into a detailed explanation of their computer problem. Rather than say "shut up, reboot your pc and leave me alone" I replied "please log a ticket for me"

So yeah, prompting them to follow the proper procedure, never mind accosting me whilst urinating was me being hostile...

The complaint was promptly filed in the under desk circular receptacle.
37points

#5

“She Still Didn't Get It”: 58 Times HR Had To Deal With The Most Absurd Situations At Work
Previous job I worked with some huge jerk across the hall. I won't go into why he was a jerk, but one of the things he did was turn me into HR because I had a mini catapult on my desk (a desk toy) that shot mini marshmallows. He claimed it was a "weapon" and HR called me to clarify. When I told her what it was, she sighed, and said if I took it home, she wouldn't make a case out of it. So I took it home.
36points

#6

“She Still Didn't Get It”: 58 Times HR Had To Deal With The Most Absurd Situations At Work
Hr Consultant for 10+ years. You won’t believe the amount of times I’ve had to shut people down for trying to sell their pyramid scheme “side hustle” in the office.
33points

Roksolana Stupen, HR Manager at IT Monks, told Forbes that employee engagement is one of the biggest challenges facing HR executives right now.

“People don’t want company slogans or team-building exercises that feel forced. They want an environment where they can grow without feeling suffocated by endless meetings or micromanagement. One of the best developers I’ve worked with nearly quit, not because of pay, but because his schedule was overloaded with unnecessary [tasks].”

Meanwhile, morale is at a low. A recent Gallup poll has shown that just 37% of US workers feel treated with respect.

“When an employee feels disrespected, the consequences for the company are significant: lower productivity, diminished teamwork, and weakened collaboration. Negativity can spread like a cancer, dragging down overall morale,” says Amy McCord, CEO of Flower Moxie.

#7

“She Still Didn't Get It”: 58 Times HR Had To Deal With The Most Absurd Situations At Work
One gal had an obsession with mini muffins. She brought a 12 pack with her to work 3-4 times a week. Never labeled them as hers. And frequently left them on the ‘shared foods counter’, where it’s up for grabs to the whole staff.

One day, someone who was newer accidentally ate one of the mini muffins. Pandemonium followed. There was screaming. Tears. Thrown pastries. Threats of physical violence.

I had to complete a report explaining that the scuffle ensued because another woman had ‘violated her mini muffins’, and the whole time this woman is FUMING AND CRYING, like someone ate her firstborn child instead of a muffin.
32points

#8

“She Still Didn't Get It”: 58 Times HR Had To Deal With The Most Absurd Situations At Work
Not HR, but Worker’s Comp. We just had an associate file a claim this week because they burnt their mouth on their lunch. A lunch they brought from home and heated up in the microwave.
31points

#9

“She Still Didn't Get It”: 58 Times HR Had To Deal With The Most Absurd Situations At Work
Not HR but my company is too small to have one, so it just falls on me. Used to have an A/R clerk who would snack at her desk all day long. We are a pretty casual, laid back company so it's not a big deal as long as she was getting her work done. But, then it escalated to having food constantly being delivered; tacos in the morning, pizza at lunch, Chinese in the afternoon. It was bizarre, and made it difficult for her to work when she's eating full meals all day. I was on the fence about saying something until she brought in an Instant Pot. She plugged it in and cooked a freaking pork roast at her desk, poured in BBQ sauce she brought and ate on it all day. I was dumbfounded, it was so strange. I pulled her aside the next day and told her how unprofessional it was. She was shocked and told me I was being unfair because I never specifically said no one was allowed to bring in an Instant Pot. She truly seemed genuinely surprised that she wasn't allowed to do that. She scaled it down after that, but I sometimes wonder how much further she would have gone if I never said anything.
28points

“Good employees will start looking for other opportunities because everyone wants to feel like they’re part of a winning team and valued. Our culture, as a whole, now understands that life is short and we spend so much of our life at work, so there needs to be intrinsic value, and the minimum standard is respect,” McCord explained to Forbes.

Furthermore, burnout is harming both employee retention and talent attraction, as stress, bad managers, and overwork lead to higher turnover rates.

“HR isn’t about rules or perks. It’s about creating a workplace where people want to be. If companies forget that, they lose their best talent before they even realize what happened,” Stupen says.

#10

“She Still Didn't Get It”: 58 Times HR Had To Deal With The Most Absurd Situations At Work
Not an HR employee, but I heard about this one guy that complained to HR about how the company would fly the pride flag during pride month, but wouldn't fly his confederate flag... SMH.
28points

#11

We didn’t have HR at the shop I worked at (small companies generally don’t here, plus it’s retail so nobody cares about workers rights) but I was the Union Rep for my store which is similar. I had a complaint from one of my colleagues who had requested a transfer to another store and our manager laughed at her and refused her request when she told him why. Her reason behind wanting a transfer?

“I want to get a transfer to the countryside to get away from all the Syrians who are coming over on the boat.”

When I asked her “what boat?” She replied “the Syrian boat with all the immigrants on. It was in the Sun (horrible tabloid paper) didn’t you see it?”

She was in her 20s and not the brightest crayon in the box. I said I’d follow up her complaint but knew it wouldn’t go anywhere. She’s still in the same store 4 years later and that boat still hasn’t arrived. Funny that!
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27points

#12

I was the one who was complained about and subsequently fired from a temp job. I was on my way to work and the temp service called me and said I was being let go for "being sneaky and writing things down". I had been there for 4 days and was in training. I just so happen to tend to lean over my notebooks when I write and I was trying to write down everything they were telling me, but apparently, that was a big no-no and it bothered them that they couldn't see what I was writing. For the record, they never asked me to either show it to them, or stop writing like that. I was pretty mad. It was dumb.
27points

Once you’ve read all of these stories and upvoted the ones you loved to hate the most, join the discussion in the comments at the bottom of this post.

What is the weirdest complaint that you have ever gotten or made, no matter if you work in HR, management, or are a ‘regular’ employee? Who is the most bizarre coworker you’ve ever had the ‘pleasure’ of working with, and what’s the worst thing they’ve ever done?

Share your work stories, tips, and rants with us!

Oh, and don’t forget to forward these work complaint stories to everyone at the office, and show them to HR the next time you get in trouble.

#13

“She Still Didn't Get It”: 58 Times HR Had To Deal With The Most Absurd Situations At Work
After 20 years in HR, I have too many to remember. The most recent was on Monday when an employee emailed me with a request to remind everyone to be careful with scented lotions. Her area reeked from something that smelled like Moroccan oil. Everyone gets paranoid, and I end up replying to 50 people that they smell fine and, yes, please keep wearing your deodorant. I told her that I would rather address it with the individual, so let me know who it was. After literally sniffing our way through the cube farm, we discovered the smell was coming from her own desk drawer. We couldn't find the stinky culprit, so she ended up throwing everything out. Case closed.
26points

#14

We have 4 nurses that rotate a Saturday shift at our practice.

New girl came in last month to complain she was getting shafted because she had to work two weekends in the same month, despite myself and multiple people trying to explain that sometimes there is more than 4 weekends in a month but the rotation is the same.
26points

#15

“She Still Didn't Get It”: 58 Times HR Had To Deal With The Most Absurd Situations At Work
You wouldn't believe the headaches that I received when management signed a new copier/printer lease which reduced the overall number of printers in exchange for centrally located multiplex copiers. Evidently, people feel their social standing is signified by if they have a printer (or two) in their office.

My favorite was an Executive Assistant who stated that, because she wears heels to work she couldn't walk to the new copier and requested that a reasonable accommodation would be to replace the printer she had in her office.
25points

#16

“She Still Didn't Get It”: 58 Times HR Had To Deal With The Most Absurd Situations At Work
We had a complaint that the toilet roll holders were too low in the stalls because a guy's knees were hitting the holders. We then lifted all the stalls toilet roll holders 8 inches on whole company site so no knees would hit the toilet roll holders. No complaints since. HR working for the people!
25points

#17

“She Still Didn't Get It”: 58 Times HR Had To Deal With The Most Absurd Situations At Work
At a former job, all of our team members got in pulled in 1 by 1 about who was farting. Someone had complained to HR and my boss was like "I can't believe I have to ask you this but... are you the one passing gas constantly?". It wasn't me and tbh, I never smelled anything.
25points

#18

“She Still Didn't Get It”: 58 Times HR Had To Deal With The Most Absurd Situations At Work
There was one guy complaining that his coworker was mimicking his get up and personality. Said that it's identity theft.
23points

#19

“She Still Didn't Get It”: 58 Times HR Had To Deal With The Most Absurd Situations At Work
I had a guy listen through the door while another dude was using the bathroom and then complained that he didn't wash his hands.
23points

#20

An employee used very derogatory terms to make fun of a customer who was in the back of the store... while talking to the customer who was at the counter. Who happened to be the other customer’s mother. Yikes.
22points
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