Rescues Can Be Difficult But Well Worth It

My life partner and I choose the rescues that have been severely abused, neglected, and have issues that make them least likely to get adopted. It is not an easy endeavor, but is extremely rewarding, and cathartic.

I chose this path because I too was abused severely and discarded. This gives me a connection to the animals I rescue. It also heals me as work to heal them.

The purpose of this piece, is to share with others, what to expect from shelter pets, and hopefully some help in keeping the new found love strong.

1) Everything isn't just new, it's scary. Bonding is really

important. Spend time with them. Let them explore the

home with you. Reward good behavior, every time.

2) Yelling and physical discipline are no-no's. Often you don't

know the history of a rescue, assume all animals were

abused. You would not believe how well a stern NO and

removing the animal from the situation or object works in

teaching them right from wrong.

3) Having other pets that are established in the home makes

things a lot easier. (Just be sure they get along, before you

commit). New pets will often adopt the habits of the

established pets, making training and schedules easier for

the new pet to learn. Also, having "friends" makes

adjustments a bit less stressful for the new pets.

Rescues teach us about patience and compassion. Both for them and ourselves. I have found that healing them has helped me heal myself. It has opened my heart to love. There is also a feeling of accomplishment and reward when your companion animal looks at you with love, instead of fear and finally let it's true personality shine through.