#1

He gave me a key to his house in a Mother’s Day card and I stopped talking to him. It got weird really quickly, telling his entire family it was HIS baby, he told my partner it was HIS baby and tried to sabotage my relationship because he felt like we were meant to be together.
I should have trusted those gut feelings. Instead I gave him the benefit of the doubt and ended up with a hell of a lot of stress JUST after I had a baby and I spent the next 6 months paranoid they were going to turn up at my door.
It's easy to ignore our intuition in some situations. We brush off the nagging feeling as us just being overly cautious or paranoid. Maybe we tell ourselves we are overthinking things, or we are imagining what's not there. But experts say, when it comes to our personal safety, it pays to listen to our inner voice. If something feels "off," there's a good chance it is...
"If you have a gut feeling that is specific to your safety in a location, situation, or even a disagreement, always listen to it," warns psychotherapist Keanne Owens. "It may be that subtle voice that prevents you from danger."
And while trusting your gut isn't necessarily a skill you learn, it is one that you can strengthen.
Owens explains that learning to trust your intuition begins with self-awareness. "Being self-aware allows an individual to know and understand their mannerisms, thoughts, and emotions," says the expert. "Once you are self-aware, you can identify those 'gut feelings' clearly."
#2

We walked together and talked about not much and I honestly felt sick, like it was hard to breathe. I just needed to get away from him. I sat down and said I wasn't feeling well and had to go home.
He was immediately concerned and offered to flag a cab for me which made me feel like I was being dumb and I should give it a chance. After all he hadn't done anything.
He ended up confessing to me that he had killed three classmates in high school. He grew up in a developing country and his family had money, so they just covered it up and moved him away.
Not my best online dating experience.
#3

Our past experiences might also lead us astray when it comes to trusting our gut.
"Trusting your intuition takes practice for most people as we are often taught to disregard it once we start primary school," says professional coach and founder of Becoming Aware, Teresa Lodato.
"Unfortunately, trauma experienced in life can also skew your intuitive delivery system, which can make people believe they can’t trust themselves or their intuitive guidance," she adds.
#4
#5

So, I guess he wasn't cheating on me, he was cheating on her, with me. Still counts.
#6

So what does our inner voice sound like? Firstly, it's not a sound but more of a feeling... Our bodies give us certain signs or signals when something isn't right.
These could include tension or a nagging thought that won't go away. Perhaps there's a pit in your stomach. The hairs on your arms, or the back of your neck, might stand up just before a scary experience. You could feel like you should avoid a certain place, without quite knowing why.
#7

He crashed the bus right after (into a ditch).
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#9

According to psychic medium Sheryl Wagner, your body will also give you signs that you're ignoring your intuition. One of these is headaches. "Headaches are often caused by stress, lack of sleep, and holding tension in your body. Your mind, body, and spirit are connected," explains Wagner. Persistently ignoring your truth can take a toll on your well-being, she says.
"When you ignore your intuition, you’ll experience stress and or trouble sleeping. It also takes a lot of energy to 'power through' and do things you really don't want to do, which might leave you feeling exhausted."
Which leads us to another sign: insomnia. "Bedtime can be extremely stressful If you’re avoiding listening to your intuition," the medium warns. "When you're finally alone with your thoughts at the end of the day and feel stressed instead of relaxed, it could be that your intuition has something to tell you."
#10

#11

The car flipped twice before crashing in a gas station parking lot. I was miraculously unarmed, except for the PTSD that makes me unable to drive to this day. My friend also survived.
I should've just called my brother and let her crash alone.
#12
Wagner describes intuition as a subtle energetic nudge. "It is the answer you feel sure about even when it doesn't make rational sense," she explains. The psychic says intuition feels calm, grounded, and confident. But it is easy to confuse it with fear, another powerful instinct.
"Fear or anxiety shows up when we are making important life choices," Wagner writes. "The feeling of fear, worry, or anxiety is persistent, questioning, and urgent. Anxiety often engages your nervous system, your fight, flight or freeze response."
#13
#14
I love you Jonathan.
#15

He was sober a grand total of three weeks out of those four months.
Lodato stresses that the main purpose of your intuition is to keep your body safe. "In ancient times, this would extend to ‘knowing’ what food or water source was safe to eat [or] drink," she explains. "In modern times, this might also look like getting migraines, headaches, or digestive disturbances when you are around toxic personality types."
The expert warns that you should always pay attention to the messages your body is sending you because it is "highly calibrated to keep you safe!"
#16
I now pay close attention to my inner voice.
#17

My water broke at work in front of coworkers. They wanted to alert the base and have them carry me out on a stretcher WHICH I REFUSED because I have to work with all these people.
We made it to the hospital and my husband did not end up missing the birth of our baby (thankfully!).
#18
#19
Well, after 7 years of marriage she said she wants a divorce. I will always listen to my intuition in the future.
#20
Well when I started dating my first and so far only boyfriend I had a really weird feeling at first but brushed it off as my social awkwardness, and general nervousness around people, the first year and a half were for most part fine, he was my best friend before and during our relationship, however for whatever reason he began to be pretty pushy, he would get upset with me over the smallest of things, i.e, not answering the phone, being busy, or even just saying no to dates that I physically could not go to because of other plans or family things. I again got a feeling that I should just ghost him, but I didn't and it progressed into him not liking any of my friends which in turn lead to me eventually cutting ties with all of them, he then began gaslighting me, and when I did want to leave the relationship he threatened his life if I did, he made me feel awful about myself and I ended up starving myself for multiple reasons, I did finally get away from him but he stalking me and my family for a little over a year before we moved, safe to say I really wish I listened to that feeling.


