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31 Creepy Moments That Prove Gut Feelings Are There For A Reason

31 Creepy Moments That Prove Gut Feelings Are There For A Reason

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Ever had a feeling that something’s just not right? Your body or your mind is trying to tell you something but you can’t quite figure out what. Or why. That’s your instinct talking: your sixth sense, your gut, your inner voice. Call it what you want, but ignore it at your own peril.
Our instincts are there to protect us. It’s a survival mechanism that’s been around since the dawn of time; something that our ancestors relied on to survive. Maybe they couldn’t see a wild bear lurking in the woods, but the sense of fear they suddenly felt told them to hightail it out of there immediately.
We’ve brought you a few stories of people who listened to their gut and lived to tell the tale. Today, we flip the script and tell you what can happen when you blatantly ignore that sinking feeling that something is just off.
Bored Panda has rounded up a list of tales told by netizens who deeply regret not listening to their instincts. From relationship red flags to deaths that might have been avoided, these stories are all reminders that sometimes we already know what we don’t even realize know we know.

#1

31 Creepy Moments That Prove Gut Feelings Are There For A Reason
Friend ghosted me for a year. Had a gut feeling I should not reach out to talk to him, I did. Things were good until I got pregnant with my partner.. gut feeling told me I should just cut off contact with the friend… I didn’t.

He gave me a key to his house in a Mother’s Day card and I stopped talking to him. It got weird really quickly, telling his entire family it was HIS baby, he told my partner it was HIS baby and tried to sabotage my relationship because he felt like we were meant to be together.

I should have trusted those gut feelings. Instead I gave him the benefit of the doubt and ended up with a hell of a lot of stress JUST after I had a baby and I spent the next 6 months paranoid they were going to turn up at my door.
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It's easy to ignore our intuition in some situations. We brush off the nagging feeling as us just being overly cautious or paranoid. Maybe we tell ourselves we are overthinking things, or we are imagining what's not there. But experts say, when it comes to our personal safety, it pays to listen to our inner voice. If something feels "off," there's a good chance it is...

"If you have a gut feeling that is specific to your safety in a location, situation, or even a disagreement, always listen to it," warns psychotherapist Keanne Owens. "It may be that subtle voice that prevents you from danger."

And while trusting your gut isn't necessarily a skill you learn, it is one that you can strengthen.

Owens explains that learning to trust your intuition begins with self-awareness. "Being self-aware allows an individual to know and understand their mannerisms, thoughts, and emotions," says the expert. "Once you are self-aware, you can identify those 'gut feelings' clearly." 

#2

31 Creepy Moments That Prove Gut Feelings Are There For A Reason
I had a bad feeling out of nowhere about a Hinge date. As soon as my Uber pulled up and I saw him my heart just sank. Something felt wrong.

We walked together and talked about not much and I honestly felt sick, like it was hard to breathe. I just needed to get away from him. I sat down and said I wasn't feeling well and had to go home.

He was immediately concerned and offered to flag a cab for me which made me feel like I was being dumb and I should give it a chance. After all he hadn't done anything.

He ended up confessing to me that he had killed three classmates in high school. He grew up in a developing country and his family had money, so they just covered it up and moved him away.

Not my best online dating experience.
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30points

#3

31 Creepy Moments That Prove Gut Feelings Are There For A Reason
I knew something was different about my son from the first time I held him, not bad, just different. By the time he was a year I knew it was autism. I let other people convince me I was being crazy until he was 2 before I put my foot down and got him help. I was right, and thankfully he has been in therapy and getting help since then and come so, so far. But I should have followed my gut and got him help as soon as possible.
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Our past experiences might also lead us astray when it comes to trusting our gut.

"Trusting your intuition takes practice for most people as we are often taught to disregard it once we start primary school," says professional coach and founder of Becoming Aware, Teresa Lodato.

"Unfortunately, trauma experienced in life can also skew your intuitive delivery system, which can make people believe they can’t trust themselves or their intuitive guidance," she adds.

#4

When I opened up the door for my best friend. I had been friends with a guy for around four years. I lived at home alone . I had a deaf pitbull I had for about a year. My guy best friend came to stay the night with me a week prior to the incident. He had known my dog since I got him as a puppy and my dog was trying to attack him. My dog chewed through three doors just to get to him he wound up not staying the night. My dog has literally never acted like that towards anybody the sweetest dog ever met and yet my dog continuously try to attack him. About a week later I get off work in about an hour goes by I’m watching TV and my dog starts going ballistic. Once again he is deaf he cannot hear anything suddenly a knock on my door happens. Ask who it is and it is my guy friend. I suddenly get this gut feeling that I shouldn’t open this door that something terrible about to happen. I felt safe because my dog was behind me I went to go open the door for him and I’m pulled out and thrown to the ground with three grown men continuously beating the c**p out of me. They continued to beat me for around five minutes. It took the cops two days to get “my friend” after this had happend. Needless to say I always trust your pets and always trust your gut.
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#5

31 Creepy Moments That Prove Gut Feelings Are There For A Reason
I had a gut feeling that my (now ex) boyfriend had been cheating on me. I chose to ignore it and thought it was all in my head and I was being jealous. Two years later I the gut feeling grew and grew and I eventually discovered that he had a girlfriend the entire time we were together, from before we had even met.

So, I guess he wasn't cheating on me, he was cheating on her, with me. Still counts.
26points

#6

31 Creepy Moments That Prove Gut Feelings Are There For A Reason
Didn’t wanna get in an elevator with a guy late at night. Succumbed to social pressure (didn’t wanna seem rude) and he attacked me.
25points

So what does our inner voice sound like? Firstly, it's not a sound but more of a feeling... Our bodies give us certain signs or signals when something isn't right.

These could include tension or a nagging thought that won't go away. Perhaps there's a pit in your stomach. The hairs on your arms, or the back of your neck, might stand up just before a scary experience. You could feel like you should avoid a certain place, without quite knowing why.

#7

31 Creepy Moments That Prove Gut Feelings Are There For A Reason
Erratic bus driver, I thought of getting off at the next stop, but didn't.

He crashed the bus right after (into a ditch).
24points

#8

31 Creepy Moments That Prove Gut Feelings Are There For A Reason
To check on my father that 1 night, he passed away the next day. He suffered with cancer for 8 months and I truly thought he had more time. I never got to say goodbye. I touched his head at his funeral.
23points

#9

31 Creepy Moments That Prove Gut Feelings Are There For A Reason
Ignored a feeling, literally, in my gut. My appendix ruptured and I waited two days to go to the hospital. Lucky to be alive.
23points

According to psychic medium Sheryl Wagner, your body will also give you signs that you're ignoring your intuition. One of these is headaches. "Headaches are often caused by stress, lack of sleep, and holding tension in your body. Your mind, body, and spirit are connected," explains Wagner. Persistently ignoring your truth can take a toll on your well-being, she says.

"When you ignore your intuition, you’ll experience stress and or trouble sleeping. It also takes a lot of energy to 'power through' and do things you really don't want to do, which might leave you feeling exhausted."

Which leads us to another sign: insomnia. "Bedtime can be extremely stressful If you’re avoiding listening to your intuition," the medium warns. "When you're finally alone with your thoughts at the end of the day and feel stressed instead of relaxed, it could be that your intuition has something to tell you."

#10

31 Creepy Moments That Prove Gut Feelings Are There For A Reason
My guy friend came to pick me up one night and when I saw his face I could immediately tell he was high on something. My gut was screaming at me to get out of his car but I trusted him and didn't think anything would happen to me. Well, I was wrong. That night turned into hours of trying to placate him so he wouldn't bash my head in. I was terrified he was going to k**l me because of how unpredictable and violent he was acting. If everything he told me that night is true then that means he is a violent war criminal who tortured some people in Afghanistan while he was deployed. I listen to my gut more now, and I've also learned not to automatically trust someone just because they wear a uniform.
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#11

31 Creepy Moments That Prove Gut Feelings Are There For A Reason
I lost my friend in the crowd at a beer festival. I found her back when it was time to leave. I didn't *see* her drink all that much but I told her my brother could come pick us up and she didn't have to drive. She assured me she was fine. She didn't look drunk but I felt something was wrong. However I didn't want to start a fight so I got in and decided to trust her.

The car flipped twice before crashing in a gas station parking lot. I was miraculously unarmed, except for the PTSD that makes me unable to drive to this day. My friend also survived.

I should've just called my brother and let her crash alone.
21points

#12

Well not me but my mom always had a bad feeling about my uncle's wife. While they were married she tried and failed to place a hit on him. They aren't together anymore.
21points

Wagner describes intuition as a subtle energetic nudge. "It is the answer you feel sure about even when it doesn't make rational sense," she explains. The psychic says intuition feels calm, grounded, and confident. But it is easy to confuse it with fear, another powerful instinct.

"Fear or anxiety shows up when we are making important life choices," Wagner writes. "The feeling of fear, worry, or anxiety is persistent, questioning, and urgent. Anxiety often engages your nervous system, your fight, flight or freeze response."

#13

Walking back home from a friends place after a get together a few days before Christmas last year. I’m only 5 blocks away and I always walk on a busy boulevard before turning the corner down my block to my apartment building which I’d say is about 400, maybe 500 feet away. Anyway I’m now 2 blocks from mine, when I hear a guy say that guy there and I glance to my left and see a guy talking to a driver of a car stopped at a traffic light, look at me. He immediately turned and walked towards me crossing the street toward me. My gut kicked in right away and my mind started racing do I continue on to my building not knowing if I can make it before that guy is near me, can I even run ( I had hernia surgery about 5 weeks prior and still had physical restrictions and limitations) or should I walk another half block and into an always busy bar? I opted to continue home thinking I’ve made this walk for years, I’m just being paranoid. I got to my corner glance back, guy still following, I’d say he’s a good 300 or more feet back. As I turn my corner my gut kicks back in and i start running as best and as fast as I can which is no where near my normal speed but the guy can’t see me as I m now I’m obstructed by a building. I get close to my building and I see the guy is in fact running but he obviously didn’t expect me to do so as I now have put a good amount of distance between us. I get in my building, slam the lock door shut and get to the elevator quickly which thankfully was there. Never again will I doubt my gut. I was very lucky, could’ve been much worse.
21points

#14

My best friend and I were in a bit of a tiff. This morning I felt the urge to text him and say I love him. He died on the operating table hours ago after a motorcycle crash.

I love you Jonathan.
20points

#15

31 Creepy Moments That Prove Gut Feelings Are There For A Reason
He was supposedly sober for four months, but sometimes he seemed off, or I thought I caught a whiff of alcohol. Denial, indignation, an occasionally decent explanation--he'd been using alcohol to cook at work, he had just taken the wine at church.

He was sober a grand total of three weeks out of those four months.
19points

Lodato stresses that the main purpose of your intuition is to keep your body safe. "In ancient times, this would extend to ‘knowing’ what food or water source was safe to eat [or] drink," she explains. "In modern times, this might also look like getting migraines, headaches, or digestive disturbances when you are around toxic personality types."

The expert warns that you should always pay attention to the messages your body is sending you because it is "highly calibrated to keep you safe!"

#16

A few weeks before my wedding I began to get cold feet. It gnawed at me day and night; whenever I'd talk to friends about it they all said, "that's typical. Don't worry." I filed for divorce about 1 year later.

I now pay close attention to my inner voice.
18points

#17

31 Creepy Moments That Prove Gut Feelings Are There For A Reason
I was due with my second child in 3-4 weeks. Went to the doctor on a Fri, she checked and said I wasn't even close to labor. My husband was supposed to leave for a business trip on Monday. On Mon morning, I randomly said "I don't think you should go on your trip." But not me... I went to work (worked in a secured area on military base at least 40 min away from the hospital). On my way in, I thought "maybe I should just stay home." But I didn't and just ignored my gut.

My water broke at work in front of coworkers. They wanted to alert the base and have them carry me out on a stretcher WHICH I REFUSED because I have to work with all these people.

We made it to the hospital and my husband did not end up missing the birth of our baby (thankfully!).
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#18

When I was younger I was always very uncomfortable around my stepfather’s sister’s husband. He was always very flirtatious with my mom, so she thought he was just great. Like he could do no wrong because he flirted with her, which was inherently wrong anyway. The sister and him ended up having a messy divorce because he cheated. In the midst of it he killed the family’s German Shepard. There was a big fallout about what a creep he was, but I knew since I was 6.
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#19

Yes! I was always concerned that my ex-wife would end up getting bored with me and divorcing. She had a tendency to jump between different things (e.g., college degrees, interests, etc.). In fact, I waited 7 years to get married partly because of this concern, but finally convinced myself that my concern was made up (and I was in love).

Well, after 7 years of marriage she said she wants a divorce. I will always listen to my intuition in the future.
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#20

Oh boy....

Well when I started dating my first and so far only boyfriend I had a really weird feeling at first but brushed it off as my social awkwardness, and general nervousness around people, the first year and a half were for most part fine, he was my best friend before and during our relationship, however for whatever reason he began to be pretty pushy, he would get upset with me over the smallest of things, i.e, not answering the phone, being busy, or even just saying no to dates that I physically could not go to because of other plans or family things. I again got a feeling that I should just ghost him, but I didn't and it progressed into him not liking any of my friends which in turn lead to me eventually cutting ties with all of them, he then began gaslighting me, and when I did want to leave the relationship he threatened his life if I did, he made me feel awful about myself and I ended up starving myself for multiple reasons, I did finally get away from him but he stalking me and my family for a little over a year before we moved, safe to say I really wish I listened to that feeling.
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