As a husband who watched his wife go through pregnancy twice, women don't talk nearly enough about how hard that whole process is. I was already a big feminist but I never been a bigger one after watching my wife give birth for the first time.
I think a lot of women just take it on the chin "because it's what you supposed to do" but f**k me as a bystander I lost years of my life watching my wife go through everything.
Also it differs so much per pregnancy that you will almost never get the same experience.
I also think that dudes that cheat on women after birth or tell them to get in shape should be f*****g imprisoned.
df_45:
Yeah my husband always tells everyone how scary birth was. For me, I was scared during the entire pregnancy that something was going to go wrong. Birth was easy in comparison.
My pet peeve right now is people who say their mother never did anything for them. Unless they tell me why their mother is so terrible I'm like your mother did more for you by the time you were born than anyone else will do for you in your whole life.
And yes, men who don't respect the mother of their child are total lowlifes.
I think a lot of women just take it on the chin "because it's what you supposed to do" but f**k me as a bystander I lost years of my life watching my wife go through everything.
Also it differs so much per pregnancy that you will almost never get the same experience.
I also think that dudes that cheat on women after birth or tell them to get in shape should be f*****g imprisoned.
df_45:
Yeah my husband always tells everyone how scary birth was. For me, I was scared during the entire pregnancy that something was going to go wrong. Birth was easy in comparison.
My pet peeve right now is people who say their mother never did anything for them. Unless they tell me why their mother is so terrible I'm like your mother did more for you by the time you were born than anyone else will do for you in your whole life.
And yes, men who don't respect the mother of their child are total lowlifes.