Years ago when I was dating a guy I found out that not only was he cheating on me, but I was the other woman. There were a lot of red flags I ignored (gaslighting, constantly pulling me back when I would walk away, intimate behind closed doors but no touching around his friends).
When I found out I asked him to give me time to pack up my stuff, I was staying there for the weekend. While I was in his bedroom, I broke his laptop. Bent the monitor backward til it came off and placed it back on top then put it back.
It was very out of character for me and I’ll never let myself be like that again. But I still don’t regret it. He made six figures and the laptop was about 10 years old, breaking it oddly made me feel better.