I had a “best friend” of many years. Her high school sweetheart and husband of 12 years who she had kids with cheated on her and left her. I was the friend who immediately came to her rescue. I encouraged her, held her when she cried, stayed on the phone with her for hours, let her vent, gave her advice, went out and partied with her until she got it out of her system, taught her how to date again and how to use dating apps, treated her two young boys like they were my own, stayed when other friends ditched her, and more. She found a new guy and got engaged to him within a year. I was her maid of honor in her wedding and poured my heart out in my speech. They got married and she got pregnant immediately and they bought their dream home. I supported her through it all.
A few months later, my boyfriend of 3 years suddenly left me and admitted that’s he’s been seeing someone else. I was completely devastated and heartbroken. Suddenly, my friend started avoiding me and when I asked her what was up, she said that I was too much for her right now and that she’s too busy and that she has to protect her peace. I never heard from her again and it’s been almost 2 years.
A few months later, my boyfriend of 3 years suddenly left me and admitted that’s he’s been seeing someone else. I was completely devastated and heartbroken. Suddenly, my friend started avoiding me and when I asked her what was up, she said that I was too much for her right now and that she’s too busy and that she has to protect her peace. I never heard from her again and it’s been almost 2 years.