I work as security at a couple bars in my city. The one I was at for the longest was often referred to as having "the best looking staff in the city" (I was not included in that grouping) so we had this issue come up a lot with our staff actually.
Being the security manager there I decided we needed a "safeword" to make sure no customer took it too far (previous incidents). One of the servers decided on "Domino's" (ex. Hey wanna get Domino's after work?) since we could play it off. If they said it to me I would come in & play the 5-minute boyfriend or remove the offending party if it got too egregious. Only happened a couple times but always fun! After the bar shut down we all scattered around the city but still keep in touch.
One night I was working at a bar on one end of the city & the same server was now a bartender at a bar on the other. I get a text from her that just says "Domino's." Obviously I can't get there & I let her know this & ask what's going on. She explains there's a creepy guy at her bar & its only him & her in the building & he's getting more aggressive & everything short of begging me to get there. Thankfully there's a bar I used to work at about a block away from her so I was able to text one of the guys there to see if he can go check on her. He was the first person that came to mind once I realized I couldn't personally help so it was nice he was so close. Tiny by bouncer standards, absolutely terrifying human being, one of my favorite people!
He gets there, creep apparently swings on him for "talking to his girl" & he removes the creep from the property. I asked for details but neither of them will tell me the full story. I wanna press the issue but I also don't wanna be an accessory after the fact. As far as I know he & the bartender are together now which is awesome! Modern day Romeo & Juliet
Edited for clarity.
Being the security manager there I decided we needed a "safeword" to make sure no customer took it too far (previous incidents). One of the servers decided on "Domino's" (ex. Hey wanna get Domino's after work?) since we could play it off. If they said it to me I would come in & play the 5-minute boyfriend or remove the offending party if it got too egregious. Only happened a couple times but always fun! After the bar shut down we all scattered around the city but still keep in touch.
One night I was working at a bar on one end of the city & the same server was now a bartender at a bar on the other. I get a text from her that just says "Domino's." Obviously I can't get there & I let her know this & ask what's going on. She explains there's a creepy guy at her bar & its only him & her in the building & he's getting more aggressive & everything short of begging me to get there. Thankfully there's a bar I used to work at about a block away from her so I was able to text one of the guys there to see if he can go check on her. He was the first person that came to mind once I realized I couldn't personally help so it was nice he was so close. Tiny by bouncer standards, absolutely terrifying human being, one of my favorite people!
He gets there, creep apparently swings on him for "talking to his girl" & he removes the creep from the property. I asked for details but neither of them will tell me the full story. I wanna press the issue but I also don't wanna be an accessory after the fact. As far as I know he & the bartender are together now which is awesome! Modern day Romeo & Juliet
Edited for clarity.