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Some Call It Love, We Call It A Walking Red Flag: 25 Scenarios For You To Judge

Some Call It Love, We Call It A Walking Red Flag: 25 Scenarios For You To Judge

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“A big deal or am I overthinking?” Not every red flag is obvious. Sometimes it can be something small that you don’t really notice until later. That’s why it is tricky to figure them out. 
In this poll, you will go through 25 situations that might be red flags. Or maybe they’re totally fine. Depends on you, really.
So what’s a dealbreaker and what’s just a weird oddity? Let’s find out! 🚩

#1 They don’t say sorry - they just act like nothing ever happened

They don’t say sorry - they just act like nothing ever happened
7points

#2 They always cancel last minute, but still expect you to be available

They always cancel last minute, but still expect you to be available
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6points

#3 They never want to meet your friends

They never want to meet your friends
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4points

#4 They go through your phone “just to check”

They go through your phone “just to check”
4points

#5 They say all their exes were “crazy”

They say all their exes were “crazy”
4points

#6 They say you’re “too sensitive” every time you bring up how you feel

They say you’re “too sensitive” every time you bring up how you feel
3points

#7 They constantly joke about your insecurities, but say you're “too serious”

They constantly joke about your insecurities, but say you're “too serious”
3points

#8 You’ve never met a single one of their friends, because they don’t really have any

You’ve never met a single one of their friends, because they don’t really have any
3points

#9 They say, “I’m just not a big texter”, and you barely hear from them between hangouts

They say, “I’m just not a big texter”, and you barely hear from them between hangouts
3points

#10 They low-key make fun of your taste in music, shows, or food

They low-key make fun of your taste in music, shows, or food
3points

#11 They ask you for advice and then do the exact opposite

They ask you for advice and then do the exact opposite
3points

#12 They joke about breaking up anytime there's a disagreement

They joke about breaking up anytime there's a disagreement
3points

#13 They’ve never been in a serious, long-term relationship

They’ve never been in a serious, long-term relationship
3points

#14 They say they’re “not close with their family” and never really explain why

They say they’re “not close with their family” and never really explain why
3points

#15 They avoid talking about the future

They avoid talking about the future
3points

#16 They always play the victim, even when they’re clearly in the wrong

They always play the victim, even when they’re clearly in the wrong
2points

#17 They hide behind sarcasm even in serious conversations

They hide behind sarcasm even in serious conversations
2points

#18 They make big promises fast, but don’t always follow through

They make big promises fast, but don’t always follow through
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2points

#19 They act differently around their friends than they do with you

They act differently around their friends than they do with you
2points

#20 They insist that you need to share passwords “if you really trust them”

They insist that you need to share passwords “if you really trust them”
2points
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