As much as they might hate to admit it, some people can get pretty judgemental. And while a few might tell you exactly as it is, others are likely to keep their comments of disapproval to themselves. Or at least behind your back.
Redditor u/gotwire was curious to find out what’s something people secretly judge others for. They posed the question to the ‘Ask Reddit’ community and received plenty of answers, ranging from disapproving of one’s parenting style to judging people who wouldn’t clean up after their dog. Scroll down to find more of redditors’ replies and see what they simply can’t let slide without a comment—even if only to themselves.
#21
People who litter are as trashy as they come. I’m not secret about it though.
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142points
#24

Parents who are constantly yelling at their kids.
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135points
#25

What they name their kids.
wblack79 replied:
If it’s a normal name with a weird spelling, I’m judging so hard.
MissFuzzyPants replied:
Try Quartney. Really. A teacher’s kid.
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128points
#26
Talking on the phone in public, while being obnoxiously loud then bi**hing at everyone else for “violating their privacy”.
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126points
#27
People who make fun of those who mispronounce something. You never know a person's history. Maybe they learned that word reading. Maybe English isn’t their first language. Maybe …
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120points
#28
If you drive a big, loud a*s truck. It kills me. They sound like they're really going fast and then you look and they're going 12 mph.
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107points
#29
Talking about their Religion like they are better than everyone else just for believing in it.
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106points
#30

Daily selfies. Makes me cringe. Okay, we get it, you think you look cute….again.
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106points
#31

Fat parents stuffing their young children with bad food.
104points
#32
Not being able to be on time. I don’t mean running late every once in a while. I’m talking about people who literally cannot bring themselves to be on time ever for anything. Get up earlier, set a timer, do something to fix it, or stop apologizing for being late because you clearly aren’t sorry. ETA I have ADHD. Being on time is important to me because if I didn’t prioritize it, I’d be late all the time. You’re allowed to be offended by being judged for it, but people are also allowed to be frustrated by you always being late. Trying to manage symptoms is part of having a healthier relationship with yourself and your disorders, especially if you expect people to empathize with them. I don’t openly shame people for being late, which is why this was my answer to “secretly judging,” but neurotypical or not, when a person is consistently late and makes no changes to better the situation, it’s extremely frustrating for and hurts the people around them.
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103points
#34
Walking a dog without a leash outside of the designated areas, also, if you can not control your dog when it's off the leash in the designated areas, don't take it off the leash.
Doesn't matter what the size, breed, or temperament of your dog is. If you don't understand why, or still think it doesn't apply to you, you don't deserve a dog.
Doesn't matter what the size, breed, or temperament of your dog is. If you don't understand why, or still think it doesn't apply to you, you don't deserve a dog.
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99points
#36
I don't like people who don't return their shopping carts, but I never say anything...
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89points
#37
Those who feel superior to others when they don't indulge in junk food or television.
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87points
#38
People obsessed with getting married and planning their life around it. They judge me for not wanting to get married and have kids and I judge them for the opposite.
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87points
#39
Older people when they can’t control their anger. 30+ and unable to control your anger: throw fits, regularly get visibly angry, no coping skills, etc.
Yeah, I’m judging you. Grow up.
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85points
#40
Having their buttcrack out.
A little slip is fine if you realize immediately and then pull your pants up, but if you’re sitting at a table with several inches out for an extended period of time…how do you not feel the breeze going through that canyon??
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