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29 Red Flags That Someone Really Wasn’t Raised To Be A Good Person
ParentingMAR 11, 2025

29 Red Flags That Someone Really Wasn’t Raised To Be A Good Person

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Ever met someone who makes you wonder if they grew up in a cave? Whether they display a lack of manners, an extreme sense of entitlement, or an acute refusal to be held accountable for their actions, it’s obvious they have zero home training.
Somebody asked the internet, “What’s a sign someone definitely wasn’t raised right?” and netizens were only too happy to share their opinions. Here’s our collection of some of the biggest red flags that scream poor parenting. 
More info: Reddit

#21

Three people in a casual discussion, highlighting telltale signs and behaviors.
They never tell the truth, gaslight you, use everyone one as an object, no respect of boundaries, think of women as objects for there personal pleasure, maid, chef etc. blame you for everything.
29points

#22

Man in checkered shirt looking frustrated at a laptop, illustrating signs someone was raised in a cave.
Entitlement.
28points

#23

Young woman in sporty attire standing with a bicycle on a forest path, symbolizing signs someone wasn’t raised in a cave.
Stealing. I was friend with a girl at 19-20. She was an only child, her parents had both good wages and provided all she needed. She would steal just because she had the opportunity to do so: a bike left with its keys on it (when we left a party), or an iPhone that a drunk person lost. I was so mad at her. Why do you need to steal that instead of just be good to these strangers?? Ffs.
26points

#24

Woman covering ears while another woman gestures, illustrating signs of being raised in a cave scenario.
They are super passive-aggressive.
24points

#25

Person sitting comfortably inside a shopping cart, smiling on a sunny day. Raised in a cave theme.
Won’t put their shopping cart in the return.
Report
20points

#26

A group of professionals in formal attire walking in a modern office corridor.
They neither have any boundaries nor will they respect anyone else's.
19points

#27

Person eating a donut in front of an open fridge, representing a telltale sign someone was raised in a cave.
They think you can just eat all the food in the cupboard without replacing it themselves. god d**n rich pieces of s**t thinking the food comes from the sky.
17points

#28

Man with a beard holding a door open, wearing a beige shirt.
Not holding open a door for the person right behind you.
15points

#29

Two girls whispering, portraying telltale signs of being socially inexperienced and sheltered.
They're anxious that you'll abandon them, or will suddenly hate them one day without explanation.
8points
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