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30 People Share The Exact Moment At Their Jobs That Made Them Go ‘Radical’ And Join The ‘Antiwork’ Movement
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30 People Share The Exact Moment At Their Jobs That Made Them Go ‘Radical’ And Join The ‘Antiwork’ Movement

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You might have the patience of saints when it comes to your work, dear Pandas, but even saints reach their limits at some point in time. Let’s face it, the past couple of years have been hell for many of us. The radical changes in the way we work, the job industry disruptions, the layoffs, the fights with management… we could go on and on.
But the fact of the matter is simple: a lot of people got so sick and tired of their jobs, they either put in their 2 weeks’ notice and quit or started to fight back against the status quo. Internet users started sharing the exact moments they became ‘radicalized’ and adopted the antiwork mindset in a viral thread on Reddit. We’ve collected some of their stories to share with you today.
Scroll down, upvote the ones that you could relate to the most, and let us know in the comments if you’ve ever experienced anything similar. The story about the sad retirement party is something that really hit us hard.
Bored Panda wanted to learn more about why people quit or become disillusioned with their jobs, so we reached out to Sam Dogen, the author of 'Buy This, Not That: How To Spend Your Way To Wealth And Freedom.' Sam is also the founder of the Financial Samurai blog and has left the job industry a decade ago. Scroll down to read what he has to say.

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30 People Share The Exact Moment At Their Jobs That Made Them Go ‘Radical’ And Join The ‘Antiwork’ Movement
Friend died after not being able to afford insulin. They had a full time job
129points

“The pandemic has given all of us more time to think about what we really want to do in life. Furthermore, given so many fun things we used to do have been curtailed, there's been this huge increase in people being dissatisfied with life overall. With the help of government benefits, millions more people quitting suboptimal jobs is an inevitability,” he explained to us.

“Personally, I left my investment banking job in 2012 at age 34 because work was no longer interesting or fun. I was doing the same old thing for 13 years,” the expert opened up.

#2

30 People Share The Exact Moment At Their Jobs That Made Them Go ‘Radical’ And Join The ‘Antiwork’ Movement
For me it was when/how my mom died. I had spent a few years in a new office job after escaping retail, thought I had finally like, “made it” or whatever. Real adult stuff, they offered health insurance, paid vacation, etc. All the stuff you’re supposed to look for in a job right. (I should clarify this was almost ten yrs ago now)
One day mom calls my while I’m at my desk, tells me she has cancer and not long left. I immediately started spending every weekend at her house (just about a 5 hour drive) until she got just too sick, and I had to make a decision.
She didn’t have health insurance. Small business owner, “self employed”. So her not being able to work meant no money on her part, no insurance meant end-of-life care was wildly expensive, and now I had had to leave my job and move in to wait it out with her to make sure she was as comfortable as possible until the end. So also no paychecks for me, because as soon as I started not being able to focus 100% on my stupid a** corporate bulls**t job, they said “welp… sorry bout that. Hope everything works out for you.”
So I never went back. To an office job, to that state, or even to retail honestly. Not a single entity had any sort of support to offer us, any kind of help, nothing… (I sincerely don’t mean the local community when I say this, her vast network of friends in the area were mostly amazing and kind but not exactly flush with cash). I lost my job, my savings, my entire plan for the future, my home, and my mother in the span of six months because there was less than zero support for a dying poor woman in this country. I’d leave here behind if I could, too.
Wow thank you guys, sorry I came here, overshared, and then left for the rest of the day, it was stressing me out that I even talked about it. Y’all are incredibly kind and supportive, thank you all.
122points

#3

30 People Share The Exact Moment At Their Jobs That Made Them Go ‘Radical’ And Join The ‘Antiwork’ Movement
Why is wanting fair treatment and fair pay for a fair days work "radical"?
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“I wanted to take a leap of faith, while I was still relatively young. Feeling regret for not trying something new is one of the worst feelings,” Sam explained to Bored Panda that young employees tend to have much more flexibility when it comes to career changes or doing passion projects.

According to the financial expert, there are some concrete ways to bring workers back to the job industry. “Not only could higher compensation entice more people to come back to work, but more flexibility as well. It's clear that very few people work or need to work 40 or more hours a week. There's a lot more productivity happening if you're able to work from home,” he pointed out.

#4

30 People Share The Exact Moment At Their Jobs That Made Them Go ‘Radical’ And Join The ‘Antiwork’ Movement
Got into the same Industry my father raised me in, he was able to afford multiple houses, cars, and raised three kids.
I make the same as he did 40 years ago. Can’t afford rent.
111points

#5

30 People Share The Exact Moment At Their Jobs That Made Them Go ‘Radical’ And Join The ‘Antiwork’ Movement
After I turned 26 and had to get off my parents health insurance i applied for it at the office I had worked at for five years. The owner of the company told me that providing health insurance for employees was "a huge burden on the company".
My team had performed so well that year that the owning family rewarded themselves with new cars paid for with company money. The employees received, and I s**t you not, a bag of chips and a candle. I realized then that employers are NEVER your friend. They will climb over your dead body to make a nickel of profit.
96points

#6

30 People Share The Exact Moment At Their Jobs That Made Them Go ‘Radical’ And Join The ‘Antiwork’ Movement
Seeing my coworker almost cry at his retirement "party" which was nothing more than crappy catered Italian food.
Dude was here for 42 years and the owner of the company didn't even bother to show up. The HR manager came and said, "Thanks Scott. Now go eat."
And that was it.
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A large part of an employee’s job satisfaction relates to what their coworkers and bosses are like. When you’re part of a friendly, talented, and passionate team, you can’t help but adopt their enthusiasm.

On the flip side, if you’re constantly being micromanaged, overworked, and underpaid, you start looking for greener pastures. They say that people leave managers, not companies. Whether you agree with this or not doesn’t change the fact that for some people this is the reason why they go elsewhere.

#7

30 People Share The Exact Moment At Their Jobs That Made Them Go ‘Radical’ And Join The ‘Antiwork’ Movement
I got really sick as a teenager. My mom’s insurance wouldn’t cover the treatment that the docs thought could save my life. We were well off and she was able to pay for it out of pocket. But the other kids I met/befriended at the hospital and in the local groups did not have the same privilege and died. For a long time I carried that weight as a guilt, but now it burns like a red hot anger. “Let this radicalize you, rather than lead you to despair.”
88points

#8

30 People Share The Exact Moment At Their Jobs That Made Them Go ‘Radical’ And Join The ‘Antiwork’ Movement
Seeing people that work their entire life and get completely railroaded when bad health comes knocking. If it's like that, then what the f**k's the point?
87points

#9

30 People Share The Exact Moment At Their Jobs That Made Them Go ‘Radical’ And Join The ‘Antiwork’ Movement
I was 20 and a bank teller. One day a week my shift started at 11 instead of 9. I walked to work like I did every day and when I got there, police tape is everywhere. The branch was robbed just before I arrived and a coworker held at gunpoint. He handed over the cash and thank goodness, no one was hurt.
In the series of meetings that followed, HR proceeded to berate him for giving the robber too much money (i.e., bank profits). He went on stress leave and never came back.
81points

Eddy Ng, the Smith Professor of Equity & Inclusion in Business at Queen’s University, explained to Bored Panda during a previous interview the difference between strong and weak leaders.

For him, a strong leader in the workplace is someone who is principled, moral, and who always does the right thing. Meanwhile, weak leaders are those who dither or only ever do the things that make them popular.

#10

30 People Share The Exact Moment At Their Jobs That Made Them Go ‘Radical’ And Join The ‘Antiwork’ Movement
In 2020 I worked at Wal-Mart. There was a Deli worker who was recovering from major liver surgery due to a car wreck. She was 72 years old and still healing. The doctor gave her an order stating that she couldn't stand for more than 20 minutes at a time and she wasn't supposed to lift more than 5 pounds. They had her at the door counting people to make sure we didn't go over capacity. Then the store manager came up to her and told her that she couldn't sit at work and accused her of being lazy and took her chair away. She was in so much pain in her abdomen about an hour later that she had to run to the restroom to puke. I was furious. I went to Susan's (store manager) office on my lunch break and informed her that what she was doing was not only unethical, but Illegal. And violates labor laws. I let her know I had informed corporate and the TIPS hotline about what she was doing. She told me that I was just a greeter and needed to mind my damn business. I reported what she had done to the district manager and two assistant managers. The lady that I will call Sara. Got her chair back 3 days later, after justifiably refusing to work under those conditions while recovering from surgery. Nothing happened to the store manager so I quit a week after reporting the incident to as many people as I could. When I realized they could abuse a disabled elderly woman for no reason and get away with it, I was too disgusted to work there. And I will NEVER work for a Wal-Mart again.
81points

#11

Being disabled.
I was forced to work full time (as practice to come back from full time disability) at a place that refused to hire me (even though that was the goal according to my plan with the disability-services).
Why? Because the state paid THEM $34/day (not taxed) to have me there. While I had to survive off $5/day, paid by the state (and which I paid taxes on, so it was less than $5/day in the end).
Disabled people are abused by the entire system, yet seen as some kind of freeloading tax-stealers? Companies are tax-stealers. Not the sick.
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78points

#12

30 People Share The Exact Moment At Their Jobs That Made Them Go ‘Radical’ And Join The ‘Antiwork’ Movement
I don't think believing that people have a right to a comfortable life and be compensated fairly for the exchange of labour is radical...
If a business needs slave labour the business should fail. If billionaires paid fair taxes and we use that money to better society, I'd hardly consider it radical...
78points

“The notion of servant leadership is gaining attention in the workplace. Although it is associated with many of the strong leadership traits such as empathy, selflessness, and humility, the focus is on the leader’s propensity to serve (or support) their followers. Servant leaders empower and lift up followers (employees) to motivate and fuel their passion,” the professor told us.

According to the expert, at the core of leader-follower relationships lies the principle of exchange. “Employees can manage that relationship to have work satisfaction. In this instance, employees need to communicate what they need (tools) or work conditions (autonomy) in order for them to perform optimally when working with a controlling boss. Employees need to convey what they can and are able to perform,” he stressed the importance of clear communication.

#13

30 People Share The Exact Moment At Their Jobs That Made Them Go ‘Radical’ And Join The ‘Antiwork’ Movement
My rent went up +$200. My raise was $0.40. CEO raise was 7 digits.
66points

#14

30 People Share The Exact Moment At Their Jobs That Made Them Go ‘Radical’ And Join The ‘Antiwork’ Movement
Getting a write up for pumping breast milk on my breaks in which they had me using a public restroom to do so. Both were illegal. I have not worked a traditional job since. I worked in Healthcare.
Edit to add that the same employer also got upset with me for having my baby. They made sure to tell me how much of an inconvenience it was for them. They also got upset for my time off when my dad died and kept texting and calling during his funeral. I should have quite right then and there but I just needed a job so bad and felt stuck.
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62points

#15

30 People Share The Exact Moment At Their Jobs That Made Them Go ‘Radical’ And Join The ‘Antiwork’ Movement
Former employer pushed many of us to the point of hospitalization, under the threat that "if you don't do this, the business will close its doors." Many of us worked 80+ hour weeks for months and months on end, sometimes peaking at close to 120 hour weeks. That means, you literally only get 3-4 hours of sleep a night and you're working for ~16-17 hours a day. I was actually in management, but I was working alongside my team, putting in even more hours than they were. I actually cared about my team and defended them. I put in a rotating schedule so they could have time off, and I took their work home with me. When my boss found out, I got chewed out and screamed at since I was "being insubordinate" on the hours mandate. I got HR involved, but HR was corrupt as all hell and actually buried everything- all I did was bring to light what they needed to bury.
After years of this bulls**t, the company decided to clean house. Many people I respected were fired with zero notice. Some were in the middle of business trips, and the company actually told them "yeah, you're fired, find your own way back home, chump." I was retained, but demoted, pay cut, and kicked out of the department I built and was managing. It was insulting beyond all belief. New management was terrible and was treating the legacy guys like garbage just to make them all quit so there would be no opposition. I had enough and quit. As I mentioned in another post, they went far out of their way to screw me over once I put my notice in. I actually had to take several days off during notice because of how cruel the ridicule had become.
NEVER TRUST HR. NEVER TRUST HR. NEVER TRUST HR.
I run into one of the HR backstabbers in public quite often. She refuses to make eye contact with me and will even walk out of a restaurant if she sees me. Spineless cowards.
61points

Another part of doing well at work is very individual. It requires that employees focus on their physical needs by getting enough rest, movement, and having good diets. Fitness expert Jack Bly told Bored Panda that “to increase our work output, the #1 place I look at is health.”

“Better health leads to more energy, more focus, and more productivity. To improve our health and ultimately our output, we need to make sure we’re doing things like sleeping 7-8 hours consistently, [having] good nutrition, [and maintaining] consistent exercise,” he said.

“Prioritizing things like workouts actually give us more energy rather than take energy,” the expert said. He highlighted the fact that sleeping and eating well, and exercising make a “night and day difference in our output.”

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30 People Share The Exact Moment At Their Jobs That Made Them Go ‘Radical’ And Join The ‘Antiwork’ Movement
I've been sympathetic for a long time because so much of what I see here is really just a call for basic human dignity and respect. The thing that radicalized me is becoming friends with Thomas through my church's homeless outreach; he has three jobs but can't afford an apartment. I cannot support such a cruel system.
60points

#17

30 People Share The Exact Moment At Their Jobs That Made Them Go ‘Radical’ And Join The ‘Antiwork’ Movement
My gastritis that has turned into a bleeding ulcer from work stress. Can’t quit though because food and shelter are important to me.
60points

#18

Got fired for mentioning I had autism
57points

#19

30 People Share The Exact Moment At Their Jobs That Made Them Go ‘Radical’ And Join The ‘Antiwork’ Movement
US Military service (also worked as a recruiter) during the Iraq/Afghanistan campaigns is what radicalized me. Especially returning from deployment and seeing what was happening in America. US playing resource pillager and coming home to see people zombified by consumption. The whole experience sent me pretty far left.
56points

#20

Having kidney disease.
I've struggled my entire life only to have the rug yanked out from under me, time and again. I'm not lazy or stupid my any measure but now...I'm just f*cking old and sick. This is presenting a slew of new hurdles and to be honest, I'm tired.
I'm really tired.
56points
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