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“Boy Bosses”: 51 Hilarious And Unhinged Microfeminism Clapbacks That Apparently Work Everytime

“Boy Bosses”: 51 Hilarious And Unhinged Microfeminism Clapbacks That Apparently Work Everytime

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Dear ladies and your/their creation... For decades, feminism fought loudly for the right to vote, workplace equality, reproductive freedom, to be able to sign our own documents, and so much more. We've come a long way since then but the battle is far from over. Behind the marches, hashtags and manifestos lies a more quiet form of resistance. It's low-effort and high-impact. Petty. Personal. Sometimes even a little unhinged.
We're talking about micro-feminism: a movement that's been silently gaining momentum over the years. It's everywhere... Online. Offline. In the boardroom. In the bedroom…
Women around the world are causing chaos - and leveling the playing field - with clever clap backs and creative acts that help them reclaim their rightful throne in society.
Someone recently asked people to share the most unhinged ways they practice micro-feminism, and the answers might make many a “small” grown man squirm. From the funny, to the witty, to the downright savage, women are proving that sometimes the biggest revolutions aren't loud or noble, just deeply inconvenient and uncomfortable. Bored Panda has put together a list of the best for you to scroll through for some epic inspiration. Don't forget to upvote your favorites.

#1

“Boy Bosses”: 51 Hilarious And Unhinged Microfeminism Clapbacks That Apparently Work Everytime
I reassured my husband that since he invited his family for Thanksgiving that he didn't have to worry. I would help him. Just tell me what to do and I will help
so don't get overwhelmed.
53points

Many women are done...

Done inflating or cushioning men's egos. Done being polite to the point of going unseen. Done keeping quiet while he mansplains or hepeats after rudely interrupting. They're done, but they're not going to make a loud fuss about it.

Instead, women have launched a quiet but chaotic revolution. They're intentionally sitting with their legs spread apart on public transport, they're refusing to move out of the way for a man on the sidewalk, they're putting "mom" duties into dad's hands. They're letting men feel the same discomfort they've handed out themselves for centuries.

#2

“Boy Bosses”: 51 Hilarious And Unhinged Microfeminism Clapbacks That Apparently Work Everytime
When I was feeling overwhelmed with the housework my husband suggested we hire a housekeeper to “help me out.” I told him we should hire a housekeeper to help HIM out as I was already doing my share.
52points

#3

“Boy Bosses”: 51 Hilarious And Unhinged Microfeminism Clapbacks That Apparently Work Everytime
When men raise their voice at me I tell them they are being emotional and acting hysterical. Then I suggest they take a breather outside. They hate it
51points

Micro-feminism isn't about grand gestures or rebellious activism, says Morgana Jones, a student living in Ireland.

"It's about the small daily actions we take to challenge gender inequality in our lives," she explains. "These are the subtle ways as women we can fight back against bias to help in supporting each other, creating gradual change within our society."

Jones says her own experiences in lectures, work and social spaces have proven that these minor acts can have a profound impact on how women are perceived and treated.

#4

“Boy Bosses”: 51 Hilarious And Unhinged Microfeminism Clapbacks That Apparently Work Everytime
I'm an ER nurse. Whenever I have a pediatric patient, I ask the fathers for the medical history of the child and when they defer to their partner (they do every time) I ask "why don't you know?"
46points

#5

“Boy Bosses”: 51 Hilarious And Unhinged Microfeminism Clapbacks That Apparently Work Everytime
Sometimes I don’t move out of the way when it’s clear a man is going to run into me. I just body check them and say “excuse me?” There was some study done that men will expect a woman to move out of the way if they’re going to run into each other/ going the same way, and every single time I don’t move they run straight into me. The entitlement and expectation I should be the one to move is WILD. Highly recommend all women try!
43points

#6

“Boy Bosses”: 51 Hilarious And Unhinged Microfeminism Clapbacks That Apparently Work Everytime
Whenever I hear a man make a misogynistic joke or "jokingly" complain about women, I say "it seems like you enjoy spending time with men much more" And then a half smile as if I know their secret
42points

Jones adds that since she's started using acts of micro-feminism, she's noticed that people respect her more, and involve her more in discussions. They actively listen and value her opinion.

"As a woman in this society it is hard to feel heard and valued," writes Jones. "By putting myself out there and standing up to men who view themselves above us as women, I've noticed a change. Spreading awareness helps in empowering others around us to make the change also and helps in creating a more equal society."

#7

Asked a man to explain his sexist joke.
“It was just a joke.”
Yeah but I don’t get it. Why is it funny?
He left expeditiously
40points

#8

I ask men how they balance their career with family life
39points

#9

“Boy Bosses”: 51 Hilarious And Unhinged Microfeminism Clapbacks That Apparently Work Everytime
When a man interrupts while a woman is talking, I interrupt him to either tell my opinion or ask the woman to continue by telling her that her point sounded valid or interesting
36points

NPR calls micro-feminism "the next big thing in fighting the patriarchy." Little acts can go a long way in making big changes, says Dr. Halima Kazem-Stojanovic, a feminist and gender expert at Stanford University.

Kazem-Stojanovic believes it's important to normalize addressing everyday gender biases. "When you start to adjust society's norms, then that has a lasting effect. That has a conscious and a subconscious effect," the expert explained.

#10

“Boy Bosses”: 51 Hilarious And Unhinged Microfeminism Clapbacks That Apparently Work Everytime
When a man is not wearing a shirt I call him topless instead of shirtless
34points

#11

I wear suits to most events as Saree is the traditional wear mostly worn by women here... I thrive under the scandalous glances of men like I offended their ancestors
32points

#12

“Boy Bosses”: 51 Hilarious And Unhinged Microfeminism Clapbacks That Apparently Work Everytime
I’ve changed alexa to a male voice so my son doesn’t get used to asking women to do stuff for him
31points

Alice Rose is a gender and psychology researcher from the University of South Australia's Centre for Workplace Excellence. Rose agrees that while acts of micro-feminism may seem small, they can be highly effective.

"The broader feminist movement is about equality for all, so feeling like you can belong to that movement, that you are in some way doing something that makes the world either a better place, it's small, but improves things … I think that can be really powerful," she explains.

#13

“Boy Bosses”: 51 Hilarious And Unhinged Microfeminism Clapbacks That Apparently Work Everytime
Idk if this ls microfeminism,but whenever I'm involved in a topic about raising children,I always say things likes "where are the parents" instead of "where is the mother"
30points

#14

“Boy Bosses”: 51 Hilarious And Unhinged Microfeminism Clapbacks That Apparently Work Everytime
I work in retail, if someone says they're looking for a product for a girl I will take them to the kids section and ask how old the girl is, even when I know they meant woman. OH, you said girl, I thought you meant a child. I'll do it for men and
women.
30points

#15

“Boy Bosses”: 51 Hilarious And Unhinged Microfeminism Clapbacks That Apparently Work Everytime
Saying “whatever makes you feel taller” when a guy is trying to mansplain something
28points

According to Rose, engaging in acts of micro-feminism is an opportunity to meet the three basic psychological needs of Self-Determination Theory: autonomy, competence and relatedness.

"Acts of micro-feminism are a chance to exercise autonomy, build up confidence to be assertive and call things out, which leads to self-efficacy, and when you're supporting others in the workplace by speaking up on behalf of each other, that increases relatedness," explains the expert.

She says that micro-feminism doesn't have to just be about gender but can extend to include people of color, people with disabilities, or people of different faiths. Rose adds that men can also participate in acts of micro-feminism.

#16

“Boy Bosses”: 51 Hilarious And Unhinged Microfeminism Clapbacks That Apparently Work Everytime
When male colleagues tell me he and his wife are having a baby, I ask if he thinks he will come back to work after the baby is born.
27points

#17

If men manspread at the metro I do it too, bonus if our legs touch and he ends up closing his legs
25points

#18

When they tell me to do something “because you do it so much better than me” I answer “then learn”.
Report
24points

If you're looking for some ways to engage in micro-feminism (apart from what's on the list), ABC news recommends delegating volunteer tasks at work to male employees, as research shows women are more likely to volunteer for non-promotable tasks than men. We're talking things like organizing farewell gifts, baby showers, etc.

The media outlet adds that when a female colleague is interrupted, you should bring her back into the conversation. "Use 'she' or they' rather than the default 'he' when the person in a position of power is not known," adds the site.

#19

“Boy Bosses”: 51 Hilarious And Unhinged Microfeminism Clapbacks That Apparently Work Everytime
I am a dance teacher, I should have a WhatsApp group with parents of my students are, so I can keep them informed. I asked all the kids to give me their dads phone numbers. So now a group of dads is taking care of what costumes their daughters should have.
24points

#20

“Boy Bosses”: 51 Hilarious And Unhinged Microfeminism Clapbacks That Apparently Work Everytime
I call women's sports "sports" and men's sports "men's sports"
23points
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