I'm a single mom of 3 girls, I've worked 2 -3 jobs from the age of 20 - now. Now I'm tired I should only be working one and be comfortable I spent the first 23 years of my life taking care and providing for them they didn't ask to come in this world. Now y'all grown and grown folks have their own. One daughter moved out doing well.
The other two adult children living in my home. Oldest one is 24 and youngest one is 21.
The oldest one (D) is in school (She has been in college since 19 and is no closer to getting a degree/certificate/something; than I am to become a 5 star General in the army (never served)).
The youngest one works refuse additional education because she is not going to get in debt.(Cool told her to get a job with employer who will pay for it...refuse yet to do it.)
I went to my two daughters and broke the bills down mortgage lights water it would equal to $394.66/each a month both said that was too high.(D) said ok (The issue with D is she is not a clean person) I didn't raise her like that I raised her to clean everything has a place put everything in its place in the house will stay clean. I can wash dishes leave water in the sink they come put the dishes in the sink walk away I'm not your maid wash your dishes they b**** about washing dishes or cleaning any damn thing. She will pay her sister to clean and tell me I shouldn't have a problem with how she get it done long as it gets done.
T is very mouthy and disrespectful. She will spend her money on what she wants but then use up all the toilet tissue paper towel deodorant soap and laundry detergent and refuse to replace it unless I raise hell and threatening to kick her out.
With the little time I have left on this Earth I want peace.
I told my daughters I'm selling the house and y'all got to figure it out..... I did better with three kids strapped on my back they never was homeless they never missed a meal then they are with no children.
Am I wrong? Grown folks have their own.