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People Share 50 Side-By-Side Pictures Of Then And Now To Show That Everything's Gonna Be Ok (New Pics)
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People Share 50 Side-By-Side Pictures Of Then And Now To Show That Everything's Gonna Be Ok (New Pics)

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Time flies and memory fades, so we have to document the moments that are dear to us if we want to relive them in the future. Luckily, there's photography!
The subreddit r/PastAndPresentPics is a place where people compare themselves and their loved ones to their old selves, highlighting how much—or how little—they've changed.
It's a touching reminder of growth, aging, and the enduring bonds that only grow stronger over the years. Continue scrolling to check out a shortlist of our recent favorites.

#1 Nana And Pop’s 70 Years Of Love

Nana And Pop’s 70 Years Of Love
On Tuesday, I lost my Pop, one of the most gentle and kind men I’ve ever had the pleasure of knowing. He loved my grandma (nana) so deeply and purely since they were so young. Married for 70 years. Nana just turned 90 last month, and after loving someone for so long, I know she’ll never be the same without him. May his memory be a blessing to all who knew him. I love you Pop, rest in peace.
85points

#2 My Brother And I, 19 Years Apart

My Brother And I, 19 Years Apart
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Krystine Batcho, Ph.D., who studies nostalgia and is a professor at Le Moyne College in Syracuse, New York, suggests that looking through old personal photos can be a double-edged sword.

"Seeing something beautiful, funny, cute, or important can make us happy by virtue of the qualities of what appears in the image and by reviving the feelings we had when the picture was taken," she writes.

"Research has shown that viewing images associated with specific positive autobiographical memories increased positive mood."

#3 28 To 42, How Am I Doing?

28 To 42, How Am I Doing?
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#4 15 To 34

15 To 34
Met on MSN back in 2006, he used to travel 3 hours every weekend to come and see me before we moved in together about 3 years later. Now we own a house and a cat together and he’s still my favourite person in the world.
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#5 My Parents In The 1970s And In Their 70s

My Parents In The 1970s And In Their 70s
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Furthermore, according to Batcho, a photograph can correct inaccurate details of how someone remembers a person, place, or event.

"Over time and life experiences, our memories can become distorted in both subtle and substantive ways. While many details are not important, there can be instances of pivotal corrections," the professor explains.

#6 My Late Father Holding 8 Month Old Me In 1991 And Sleeping With My Son At The Same Age In 2021

My Late Father Holding 8 Month Old Me In 1991 And Sleeping With My Son At The Same Age In 2021
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#7 Cajun Boy Meets And Eventually Marries Canadian Girl He Was Pen Pals With (1994 & 2025)

Cajun Boy Meets And Eventually Marries Canadian Girl He Was Pen Pals With (1994 & 2025)
Our names got matched in an international penpal fair when each of us was in the eighth grade. When I got approval for an exchange program from Louisiana State University to actually attend a university that happened to be in her hometown, we realized we had more in common than just what we wrote about.
Fast-forward 35 years later, and we are happily married, and have been for nearly 25 years, and we’ve got three kids that we’ve added to the home since then.
62points

#8 1996 To 2022

1996 To 2022
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Viewing a childhood photo, Batcho says, someone might realize how very young they were when they experienced a transformative event—they might suddenly understand how vulnerable and innocent they had been, which can be inspiring or demoralizing.

"The recognition of who they were then can impact their current self-esteem or change their understanding of how their past contributed to who they have become."

"Such insights can prompt positive or negative responses. Feelings of guilt or resentment can be generated or diminished, relationships can be strengthened or injured, and personal growth can be encouraged or hindered," Batcho says.

#9 1989 Dating As Teenagers And 35 Years Later Christmas 2024 With Our Five Sons

1989 Dating As Teenagers And 35 Years Later Christmas 2024 With Our Five Sons
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#10 Us Together; 2001 & 2025

Us Together; 2001 & 2025
Here we are on a chaperoned date in the back seat of his parents’ car, aged 14 & 16; next pic is us about to walk into his 40th birthday surprise party. Together since 1999, married for 16 years, two beautiful children. I’m so grateful for him!
52points

#11 1997 To 2025

1997 To 2025
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#12 My Parents In 1984 vs. 2024, They Have Been Married For 41 Years!

My Parents In 1984 vs. 2024, They Have Been Married For 41 Years!
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Images from our past can change how we feel about our current self or the situation we're in.

For example, if photos portray our past as substantially better than our present, they can make us feel disappointed, sad, or ashamed of the path we've followed.

On the flip side, if we view our present in a favorable light relative to our past, we might feel proud or grateful for our progress.

#13 1976 And 2025

1976 And 2025
My parents and me! They were 20 and 21 when they had me. They are the best parents I could have a hoped for. They had one more kid after me, with 9 grandkids, 6 greats and counting. It's been an amazing nearly 50 years so far.
50points

#14 2005 & 2025

2005 & 2025
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#15 My Parents. 1992-2024

My Parents. 1992-2024
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#16 Over 30 Years Of Friendship. My Best Friend And I At 20y, 33y, And 50y

Over 30 Years Of Friendship. My Best Friend And I At 20y, 33y, And 50y
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"Whether positive or negative, old photos often make us nostalgic for meaningful portions of our lives," Batcho concludes.

She says bittersweet nostalgia has been associated with a heightened sense of coherence and self-continuity, as the connection between past and present is strengthened.

#17 Me, Mum, And Sister 35 Years Later

Me, Mum, And Sister 35 Years Later
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45points

#18 My Mother, 1966 And 2022

My Mother, 1966 And 2022
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#19 My Parents 1973 To 2025, 52 Years Of Marriage Yesterday 2/14. They Eloped And Got Married At The Court House

My Parents 1973 To 2025, 52 Years Of Marriage Yesterday 2/14. They Eloped And Got Married At The Court House
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45points

#20 1988 To 2024

1988 To 2024
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Nostalgia can motivate us to reconnect with those who were once an important part of our lives, but whom we have lost track of.

Batcho calls it a social-cognitive-emotional experience.

"The sadness of loss can enhance our appreciation of loved ones in our present and encourage reaching out to others—those in our past as well as in our present," she says.

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