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Carrying the irony in their faces of being able to fix everything yet somehow not able to "fix" our pain and discomfort.
It's not even the fact that we need to be saved but that they're essentially powerless to rescue in a way that they are used to being able to do.
Their empathy skyrockets in a manner that most of them have never experienced, yet they stay silent.
They do not make the situation about themselves.
Nor do they panic.
They are anxious.
Worried.
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Frustrated.
They do their best to not let on.
I make occasional eye contact with them to telepathically tell them that she is okay.
She will be okay.
Words are rarely spoken.
Whether through caressing us through our experience or respecting our space, they are in the shadows, observing.
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Witnessing two or more people being born.
They watch the women they once knew being birthed into who they are now.
It is illogical to think that the men we love & choose to be present do not experience a beautiful and gaining loss as well.
They watch the woman they love turn into a stranger who is somehow still the woman they love.
Paralyzed with the intensity before them, their empathy overrides their fear and they stay strong.
To these men, we see you and we love you.
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Each one of us has had experiences so deeply personal that words could never adequately describe our affection for them. Early on in childhood, I recognized my sensitivity to the world. This allowed me to be perceptive in creative ways to those around me. Marveling in the details that come with documenting people's lives. I don't just take pictures. I feel them.
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Bringing your life to the forefront of a lens. Investing myself as much as I can to create the most intimate photos possible. Concentrating on unspoken cues and picking up hints from your worlds, while turning the images into pieces of art. Creating a genuine relationship with those who choose my services, beyond just the final product, is the most important aspect of this line of work.
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What inspired me to make the series of dads has everything to do with empathy. Over the years, birth partners are in the shadows and feel powerless, but they don’t realize how powerful their attentiveness and empathy really are. It gives men a chance to see that their emotional availability can be crucial to the women they love. They are not incapable.
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