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36 Things Folks Spent Too Much Time Doing And Then Found Out They Were Just Useless
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36 Things Folks Spent Too Much Time Doing And Then Found Out They Were Just Useless

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When I was young, my mother often reproached me for playing various trivia games and quizzes, for allegedly wasting time instead of, for example, “learning something really useful.” Well, years have passed - and the house in which I’m actually writing this post today was bought with the proceeds of a pub quiz project that I created.
In fact, you never know which of our hobbies and interests will turn out to be a waste of time, and which, under the right circumstances, will bring good results. So our selection of stories today is dedicated to various activities that people used to spend hours and hours doing - only to realize later it actually was totally pointless.
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#1

36 Things Folks Spent Too Much Time Doing And Then Found Out They Were Just Useless
Arguing with anti-vax 🥜.
29points

#2

36 Things Folks Spent Too Much Time Doing And Then Found Out They Were Just Useless
Thinking about conversations hours after they happened and trying to think of what I could have said differently.
24points

#3

36 Things Folks Spent Too Much Time Doing And Then Found Out They Were Just Useless
Reading 200 amazon reviews for a sponge. ended up not buying it.
24points

A few days ago, a thread appeared in the AskReddit community, which as of today boasts 5.6K upvotes and over 3K various comments. The thread's starter, the user u/FreshModeSP, asked readers: "What's the most pointless thing you've spent hours doing, only to realize it was completely useless?"

From video games to online feuds, and from various hobbies to failed startups - it turns out that people regret wasted time so much that they’re willing to spend even more time discussing other people's failures. However, discussing something like this has always been interesting, hasn't it?

#4

36 Things Folks Spent Too Much Time Doing And Then Found Out They Were Just Useless
When my manager got fired I picked up his responsibilities thinking it would help me move up. All of our departments numbers got better. My co-workers were much happier because I let them have more flexible schedules and I approved pretty much every time off request. I spoke with my GM and he claimed to be on board with me moving up but said that he couldn't open the position up right away. About six months later they opened the position up for applications so I put my resume in, then they hired someone else that never worked in the industry so he didn't know how to do anything and he was acting extremely rude to customers when they requested certain services that our company specifically specialized in. About one month later he decided the job wasn't for him so he stepped down and they transferred him to a different location to avoid drama. My GM immediatly tried to have me fill in again without promoting me but I told him to f**k off. Now I work for one of their competitors and I make roughly 50% more an hour above my former co-workers with a much better benefit package and I don't have to do any management work.
24points

#5

36 Things Folks Spent Too Much Time Doing And Then Found Out They Were Just Useless
Arguing with strangers on the internet.
20points

#6

36 Things Folks Spent Too Much Time Doing And Then Found Out They Were Just Useless
Watching productivity videos for three hours instead of doing the thing.
19points

In fact, people have always been interested in something other than their immediate work responsibilities, family and chores. This is, by and large, what makes us human, and what distinguishes us from animals. We’re capable of getting carried away by detached things, doing something extremely irrational - simply because we like it. We like it here and now.

How wrong is all this? Perhaps some kind of balance is important. Well, you can, for example, spend hundreds of hours on gaming, and never become a pro gamer, but if your hobby hasn’t seriously interfered with your life - why not? After all, you enjoyed it, and you considered it important at some point in your life.

You know, many years ago I myself spent several months creating a detailed mod of a sports simulator (EA Sports FIFA), making a complete copy of the 1982 World Cup. In the end, several hundred people played this mod, a couple of months later a new version of the game came out, and the mod became totally irrelevant... But you know, it was still one of the happiest moments in my entire memory!

#7

36 Things Folks Spent Too Much Time Doing And Then Found Out They Were Just Useless
Going to church as a child.
19points

#8

36 Things Folks Spent Too Much Time Doing And Then Found Out They Were Just Useless
Telling myself negative things about myself. That insane body I had 20 years ago? I thought it was trash at the time ("I could stand to lose a little pinch here"). Earning degrees? I took it for granted. Awards? Compliments? I rejected them. Now I just say "thank you" and try to be nice to myself inside my brain. It's been life changing.
18points

#9

36 Things Folks Spent Too Much Time Doing And Then Found Out They Were Just Useless
I spent weeks learning how to code and I made my own website for teachers to play a game in class. Got it fully functional. Later I was describing it to a friend and he said, oh kind of like ____.com which is when I realized someone had already made my idea happen.
16points

Of course, arguing for hours with other anonymous users on the Internet looks completely pointless from a rational point of view - it would probably be better to read an interesting book, watch an educational video or a good movie. But, in the end, if it brings you pleasure, then why not?

We’ve lost much of this pleasure from “useless” hobbies in the endless pursuit of productivity. “For parents, free time has actually gone down quite significantly,” The Telegraph quotes Nick Srnicek, co-author of the book ‘After Work,’ which examines the erosion of free time.

“It’s particularly an affliction of the professional managerial classes - but it also gets into hustle culture. Like: are you spending your free time just sitting around doing nothing? Aren’t you trying to learn the next productivity hack?” Doesn’t that sound a lot like our lives?

#10

36 Things Folks Spent Too Much Time Doing And Then Found Out They Were Just Useless
Not blocking family and "friends" who overstepped boundaries.

Now, I don't even block. I stick them in archive. One of my aunts has sent me 1,435 messages, which are all unread.

Yeah life is boring without all the pointless drama, but I'm no longer stressed out or annoyed either. They've started actively ignoring me now when they see me, I think they're under the impression it will upset me but once I realised what they were doing it lifted a weight off my shoulders. I'm no longer worried about bumping into them in public, they won't say anything to me other than stare at me from a distance.
16points

#11

36 Things Folks Spent Too Much Time Doing And Then Found Out They Were Just Useless
Spent hundreds of hours making a large and complicated cross stitch sampler for a close family members wedding. Spent a fortune framing it. They got divorced.  I can't even stand to think about what happened to it. Lesson learned.
15points

#12

36 Things Folks Spent Too Much Time Doing And Then Found Out They Were Just Useless
I used to work at a pizza and sub shop. We used sliced white American cheese for the subs and it came in 3lb blocks. Each slice was off set from the other so that you could easily peel it off for serving. The owner made us slice the block down the middle into halves, then peel and re-stack the cheese from being in a rectangle shape to being an "x" shape. It was completely useless as the cheese was already easily separated with the off set manner of packaging. It was 25 years ago and I think about it weekly.
15points

Of course, there are things that are directly harmful to your health or the health and well-being of those around you, and that’s a completely different matter. But if we spent dozens of hours, for example, manually tagging a vast collection of mp3s in the early ‘00s – how pointless can that activity really be?

On the one hand, it now seems like a completely senseless thing. On the other hand, it definitely made sense back then, and you definitely felt the value and usefulness of your actions while organizing your music collection. After all, the mere fact that our lives will end sooner or later should, by the same logic, devalue literally everything we do.

#13

36 Things Folks Spent Too Much Time Doing And Then Found Out They Were Just Useless
Spent two years trying to get the wrong person to love me and stop accusing me of cheating on her all the time. Turns out she was projecting her actions onto me and to this day doesn't believe she was being emotionally a*****e.
15points

#14

36 Things Folks Spent Too Much Time Doing And Then Found Out They Were Just Useless
Manually editing ID3 tags on my entire MP3 collection back in the mid-2000s.
14points

#15

36 Things Folks Spent Too Much Time Doing And Then Found Out They Were Just Useless
A lot of prep work I did as a teacher. Didn’t really matter in the long run.
14points

Okay, and now I actually offer you something that you can later include in the list of senseless activities. Yes, I suggest you read all three dozen of these stories from different people, like the ones you enjoy the most, and maybe share your own tale in the comments. After all, why not - if you have time and inspiration?

#16

36 Things Folks Spent Too Much Time Doing And Then Found Out They Were Just Useless
I spent a few hours drawing the complete blueprint of a choose your own adventure book by going back and forth and finding all possible 400 steps and how they're intertwined.

I felt a huge sense of accomplishment and learned a lot about how they're structured, but in the end it was completely useless and a waste of my time.
13points

#17

36 Things Folks Spent Too Much Time Doing And Then Found Out They Were Just Useless
Spent an entire afternoon color coding my to do list then forgot to do any of it.
13points

#18

36 Things Folks Spent Too Much Time Doing And Then Found Out They Were Just Useless
Arguing with my parents. Literally about anything. Answer: No.
12points

#19

36 Things Folks Spent Too Much Time Doing And Then Found Out They Were Just Useless
Spent 3 hours cleaning my email inbox, only to get 20 new emails the next hour 😭.
12points

#20

Scrolling through Netflix for an hour only to rewatch The Office for the 12th time.
11points
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