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50 Shocking Stories From People Who Got Tricked Out Of Their Money
Society,CrimeNOV 9, 2025

50 Shocking Stories From People Who Got Tricked Out Of Their Money

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There's no such thing as an easy dollar, so it's not a surprise that some people try to cheat the system instead of earning an honest living. Movies and TV shows depicting fraud and deceit are always popular, and a big part of that is the chance to learn from the mistakes of others and protect ourselves against similar schemes. Family and lifestyle forum Mumsnet user UhOhhhhh was watching Love Rats, a documentary series about how criminals manipulate and con unsuspecting victims, pretending to be interested in them romantically, and decided to ask the community if they know anyone who's been scammed. Turns out, yes, they have.

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50 Shocking Stories From People Who Got Tricked Out Of Their Money
My mum. In real life, rather than online. She just wouldn't listen to me when I asked her why a 30 year old married man would be interested in a nearly 70 year old woman. In the end I had to forbid her from talking about him to me. Over £10,000 later (which she didn't have, so was all on loans and credit cards) she had to sell her house to pay it off and ended her life in debt in a council bungalow (which she was damn lucky to get!)
36points

#2

50 Shocking Stories From People Who Got Tricked Out Of Their Money
A middle aged divorced man I know invested about £60k in a get rich quick scheme on the advise of a v attractive and much younger woman he had met in a bar and to whom he became engaged after meeting just once and lots of loving texts. Funnily enough he never saw woman or money again. What goes through these men's minds? It beggars belief.

My mum was contacted on her landline by scammers saying they were from Amazon or something of the sort and trying to prevent fraud and asked for bank details etc. My mum fell for it and would've handed said bank details over but she was blind and couldn't read the security number on her card. Luckily she called me to ask what to do and I told her to put the phone down and nothing was taken. My mum was a very sharp no nonsense woman back in the day but her age and disabilities had made her vulnerable. F*****g cunts preying on old people.
34points

#3

50 Shocking Stories From People Who Got Tricked Out Of Their Money
My 80 year old neighbour was scammed to the tune of around £30,000. He told me this in tears, it was his life savings, he'd wanted to leave it to his daughter. He'd been contacted about an investment scheme, and asked to invest £500. Within a few weeks his bank account had been credited with around £800. This convinced him it was genuine and he then invested £30k. Never heard from anyone again. Lost the lot. Police couldn't help. I always wonder what would have happened if he'd just taken the £800 and stopped there. Would he have scammed the scammers?
31points

We’re increasingly seeing stories like these unfold online. For example, scammers and cybercriminals stole a record total of $16.6 billion from Americans in 2024, marking a 33% increase in losses from 2023, the FBI said.

During last year, the FBI's Internet Crime Complaint Center (IC3) received 859,532 complaints regarding scams, fraud, and other suspected internet crimes. The majority of reported losses — nearly 83% — were due to cyber-enabled fraud, which often involved the theft of money, data, or identity; or the creation of counterfeit goods or services, the IC3 reported.

Victims ages 60 and older were the most impacted demographic. Over $4.8 billion in losses were reported across more than 147,000 complaints for that group in 2024, with both figures increasing by more than 40% from 2023.

#4

50 Shocking Stories From People Who Got Tricked Out Of Their Money
A friend fell for the 'Mum I lost my phone' scam
27points

#5

50 Shocking Stories From People Who Got Tricked Out Of Their Money
I was scammed out of £800 by a fake tradesperson when I was a young adult. Not thousands but it was a lot of money to me and caused undue stress and upset.
24points

#6

50 Shocking Stories From People Who Got Tricked Out Of Their Money
Friend’s mother was in her seventies, hugely obese with a lot of medical conditions as a result and wheelchair bound and fell for a romance scam from an ‘American soldier’. She sent him tens of thousands and died shortly after it was discovered. Poor lady.

another friend had a call from ‘her bank’ saying she had been hacked and her m savings were in the process of being stolen. She gave the caller remote control of her online banking and they stole every penny.
24points

"As nearly all aspects of our lives have become digitally connected, the attack surface for cyber actors has grown exponentially," the FBI's Operations Director for Criminal and Cyber B. Chad Yarbrough said.

"Scammers are increasingly using the internet to steal Americans' hard-earned savings. And with today’s technology, it can take mere taps on a keyboard to hijack networks, c*****e water systems, or even rob virtual exchanges," Yarbrough added.

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50 Shocking Stories From People Who Got Tricked Out Of Their Money
A friend’s elderly MIL. Scammers called her and pretended to be her bank. She was savvy enough to say she needed to call her bank’s number to be sure it was her bank, but they stayed on the line and kept up the pretence. She lost £30k.
23points

#8

50 Shocking Stories From People Who Got Tricked Out Of Their Money
Guy at work nearly fell for a romance scam.
His Russian girlfriend text to say she had got 'stuck in customs' on the day she (allegedly) flew out to meet him & needed 2k to be released.

Thankfully he asked our boss to lend him the cash, so he was able to intervene & point out it was obviously a scam and no Russian beauty was actually waiting for him at Birmingham International.
23points

#9

50 Shocking Stories From People Who Got Tricked Out Of Their Money
No but when I needed to make a 10kish payment to someone the bank made me call them and absolutely grilled for about 20 minutes me before they would release the money. It was a pain as it was a genuine transaction but I'm glad they take the time to try to stop these things (although it is to protect themselves mainly)
23points

According to the Pew Research Center, Americans most commonly report that online hackers made fraudulent charges on their credit or debit cards. About half of U.S. adults (48%) say this has happened to them.

Roughly a quarter to a third report that three other types of scams have happened to them:

  1. 36% say they purchased an item online that never arrived or was counterfeit and was not refunded;
  2. 29% say a personal online account was hacked, such as a social media, email, or bank account;
  3. 24% say they received a scam email, text message, or call that led them to give away personal information.

#10

50 Shocking Stories From People Who Got Tricked Out Of Their Money
I've lost money trying to get a good deal by buying a voucher to then get the item, but it was out of stock so money voucher wasn't able to be redeemed. Won't ever do that again.

Also I tried to rent a flat, private landlord that seemed legit initially when showing me around Then I smelled a rat so did some checks and cancelled the cheque. It was a scam.

I've seen a few fairly convincing email phishing scams too. Not actually fallen for them though.
19points

#11

50 Shocking Stories From People Who Got Tricked Out Of Their Money
A lady I worked with was scammed out of a lot of money by a man she met online, we all warned her but she was adamant he was genuine no matter what we said
19points

#12

50 Shocking Stories From People Who Got Tricked Out Of Their Money
I know a very intelligent man who was scammed out of A LOT of money in a crypto scam. It's not just lonely old women.
19points

The Pew Research Center also found that roughly three-quarters (74%) of people who have been financially victimized by an online scam or attack say they did not report their losses to law enforcement. Only a small minority of this group — 26% — say they did.

Reporting tends to depend on the size of the loss. Americans who have been significantly harmed financially by an online scam are far more likely to report it: 42% of those whose finances were hurt “a great deal” or “a fair amount” said they informed law enforcement, compared with 24% of those whose finances were hurt “some,” and just 16% of those whose finances were hurt “a little” or “not at all.”

So, official data might not fully reflect the scope of the problem.

#13

50 Shocking Stories From People Who Got Tricked Out Of Their Money
I find it astonishing how naive some people are. For example, the woman who appeared on This Morning to warn others of romance scams after she was duped out of £££ by “Gerard Butler”.

My mum is around her age and if she announced to me/other family members that she was in a relationship with “Gerard Butter” but had never actually met or indeed spoken to him we’d set her straight pretty quickly!
19points

#14

50 Shocking Stories From People Who Got Tricked Out Of Their Money
My mum nearly transferred money to a scammer, thankfully the teller at the bank quizzed her about the transaction (circa £9500). The scam was a call from “Head Office” stating her bank branch was unreliable and committing fraud so she was to transfer the money to another account!
Since this is unusual for my mum the teller asked her to speak to the manager and they uncovered the scam. My mum was warned not tell the bank or her children as this would cause issues. Luckily my Mum can’t lie for toffee hence the manager preventing the transfer.
19points

#15

50 Shocking Stories From People Who Got Tricked Out Of Their Money
My teenage son with his first bank card. They cloned his card, not once, not twice, not three times, you gussed it four times in as many months. In fact the last card hadn’t even been delivered and it was used hundreds of miles away. The bank refunded all the monies. I suspect it was someone from the bank
19points

#16

50 Shocking Stories From People Who Got Tricked Out Of Their Money
My SIL fell for someone on line and borrowed 7k to send to him
18points

#17

50 Shocking Stories From People Who Got Tricked Out Of Their Money
I did, many years ago by a driving instructor - only about £250,but it was a lot to me then.
I didn't get it back, but got huge satisfaction from reporting him for VAT and tax evasion - saw it reported in the local press about a year later.
18points

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50 Shocking Stories From People Who Got Tricked Out Of Their Money
I got scammed out of a grand. The scammers had rung pretending to be my bank. The number they rang me with was my bank’s number so I trusted it. I had just made a large purchase online and assumed they were checking it was genuine.
After i had realised they were scammers and i had hung up on them I rang my bank’s number. Except I hadn’t, I rang the scammers. They told me I couldn’t lock down my account and order a new card until 8am the following morning! They proceeded to attempt to make many many online purchases, which thankfully my bank automatically twigged and froze my card.
DH rang my bank from his phone and I did get my money back eventually, but it very stressful.
17points

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50 Shocking Stories From People Who Got Tricked Out Of Their Money
My husband was scammed out of £1500 when a tradesman's email was hacked so he was given false bank details to make the payment for some work we had done. He was replying to the same email chain the tradesman had used when discussing dates for the work so there were no red flags at all. He's a pretty cynical lawyer so not easily scammed.

A friend's mum with dementia gave away about £80k to scammers sending her various investment and charity scams. My friend told her they were scams. He even got a police officer friend to come round and tell her, but she wouldn't stop giving money to these people. Eventually my friend moved in with her as her carer and was able to intercept the begging letters in the post and put a stop to it. These people are s**m.
17points

#20

50 Shocking Stories From People Who Got Tricked Out Of Their Money
Many of my friends along with members of my family were scammed out of £400-£1000 each by a so called friends DH.

Turned out they weren't the only ones.

Police were involved and they both left the country.

So called friend came back recently when he was arrested in the country they moved to for you guessed it...... fraud!
16points
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