People With 10/10 Partners Are Sharing What It's Like To Date Them

Years ago, I brought my girlfriend (now wife) to Texas to meet my mom for the first time. Everything went normally.

The first time my mom and I were alone, she turned to me and said, “You must be really good in bed.”.

Men are constantly sending drinks to her, even if I’m standing next to her. And yes I drink it in front of them.

My wife is very pretty, and a few years younger than me. We were at a club pre covid and I whispered a bad joke in her ear, she rolled her eyes and walked away. Some other dudes saw it and thought I just got rejected, took pity on me and bought me some drinks while we talked about radiohead and D&D.

Her "friends" trying to get her to come to her senses and dump me. 15 years and 2 kids later, none of those friends are left. 

My favourite memory was being at a bar with my partner but also with some friends. So we're all just hanging out. Not clear with who is with who.

This bloke sees my partner and is legit stunned by her. She isn't aware, but as he's watching. She comes up to me and gives me a kiss/cuddle.

He was half impressed, half bummed. Gave me an approving nod and moved on.

It's nice when they're respectful that way.

We’re a queer couple, which I think contributes to people assuming we CANNOT be together. I must be her weird friend she’s dragged out with her. And even when girls KNOW I’m her partner, they’ll hit on her, in front of me, side-eyeing me like I’m a symbol of her low self-esteem. We get offered a lot of three ways and group sex where the subtext is obviously “I want to sleep with her, and you can also be there.”

Fortunately she is obsessed with me which makes it easy not to get jealous. We’re best friends. I’m obsessed with her and while her looks are a big perk, the real reason is we just get each other. We’ll go to parties and spend the whole time giggling with each other in a corner.

It’s annoying. I know my husband is hot, and he gets more attractive with age. I’ve had two kids and been through some rough stuff mentally which has aged me. Kinda sucks. One night we were out at a bar and some drunk girl tries to flirt with him while I was in the bathroom. I walk up to him since he was holding my drink. She looked me up and down and goes “wait…he’s with YOU?!”. I’m not a violent person. I almost punched her in the throat.

My drill sergeant after seeing my wife pulled me out of ranks in front of 3 battalions and asked me who she was. When I replied she was my wife he said what is this? Be kind to animals week? Did I win the lottery? 

It can be tough because I see all the women staring at him all the time. He's in a profession where he deals with lots of women all day long, and I see the longing in their eyes because he is not only gorgeous, but brilliant and funny. He thinks I'm more attractive than him. I'm not. 

It's great. People assume I'm rich. As soon as they realize I'm not, they assume I have a huge d**k.

People treat her very nicely and they also treat me nice but only when I’m with her lol.

My significant other is WAY more attractive than me. Other girls fawn over him. It doesn’t bother me, because I know where his heart lies. We were out on a date one night, every time I walked away to go to the restroom or get a drink I would come back to some skinny little thot in my seat. He would be polite, but never flirtatious. Then calmly tell them to move so his girl could sit back down.

On a different night I had a bartender tell me I didn’t have a shot with the “grey eyed guy”. I was already living with the “ grey eyed guy”.

I’ve been standing at a bar talking to her and a random girl came up and did the body block/ initiate conversation thing to “save” her from me.

I was in a long term relationship with a woman who looked like a super model. 6 foot tall, skinny, heart shaped face etc. She was the most beautiful woman I’ve ever seen. Not exaggerating in the slightest. I was in shock the first time we made out. I just stared at her for hours and kissed her like I was in a daze.

I soon figure out that when your with a woman like this literally every dude will hit on her constantly. When she was 9 months pregnant dudes were slipping her phone numbers. It was so insane.

She definitely had a personality flaw. She thought she was better than everybody else, but was really good at being pretend nice to people.

To make a long story short she completely destroyed me. Cheated on me 3 weeks before the wedding and was ‘appalled’ that I called it off. ln her words ‘no one breaks up with me, I break up with them’. She to this day thinks that I was the s****y person for calling it off. F**k, she was so impossible.

I remember my engagement photos. Big, juiced up photographer, “YOU are the groom?”

Kinda fun.

I spend a lot of time wondering when he’ll realize he’s out of my league and leave me.

I mean, it’s nice when he meets friends of mine and they rave about him afterwards. Like, yes. I know he’s a snack.

He’s also the sweetest man in the world. So he’s the entire package and I consider myself extremely blessed to be the one to see him naked.

I know I'm not ugly by any means, if anything I am considered by those around me to be quite attractive myself, but every time I stand next to him I feel ugly. But I am not unhappy because he only has eyes for me and always makes sure I know how highly he thinks of me.

My wife is way out of my league. When we started dating and going places this is how interactions would go.

Staff - Hello there, what can I get for you?

My wife - I'll have such and such

Staff - And for her friend? (me).

Happened so many times lol.

I used to also be attractive. Now I’m not. It’s hard. Women will openly stare mouth agape and approach him. He doesn’t notice half the time.

The only rule is you can't get jealous. Not just on their behalf, but for your own sake. in general, being insecure is unattractive.