But as I grew older, I started preferring a slow life with lazy weekends where I refused to jump out of bed for anything. And when you look at this incredible thread you will see that I am not the only one who suddenly had a change of heart. Just scroll down to check out these fascinating changes for yourself!
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Edit : I wish you guys would stop responding to this. I want my peace and quiet.
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I thought I was at 100% when we got married. Here I am sitting at 235% like a bad game of smash bros.
The grand experience of being human can be really enthralling yet strange at times. For one day, you wake up and suddenly realize that you don't really fancy something that you used to love a lot before. And it's actually crazy how quickly, we can adapt to these changes once we start loving something else.
So, when a Reddit user asked people, "What are you starting to love more as you get older?" they didn't shy away from spilling the tea about the newfound loves of their lives. In fact, it created such an endearing thread that we had to write an article about it.
Some of the responses from folks were quite relatable. Because who wouldn't love a hot cup of coffee while snuggled in a blanket, or how can you say no to a quick nap on a cozy afternoon? Someone also mentioned their wife, which was such an awe-dorable comment!
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As we mentioned before, humans can adapt to something new that they start loving, quite quickly. "Evolutionary psychology suggests that adaptive behavior is deeply rooted in humans, as it has been passed down from our ancestors," Eden Lobo, a counselor and psychology professor, told Bored Panda.
She added that there are some external—or environmental—and internal stimuli that can bring about our fondness for a certain thing or aspect that we didn't really think much about before. And once we realize it, it becomes easy to adapt to.
She gave an example of how a person who's constantly stressed at their workplace suddenly might prefer to cancel their weekend plans and simply do nothing at their house. It's probably their de-stressing mechanisms that are kicking in and enabling them to develop a likeness for something different.
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Prof. Lobo informed us that most of us are not big fans of change, and some of us completely hate it as change means leaving our comfort zone. No wonder that we take change quite harshly when it comes knocking on our doors.
"However, this change is quite readily welcomed by people when they realize that it's associated with something that they have started to like, and it would actually be beneficial for them," she added.
She also mentioned that increased exposure can broaden their horizons and lead people to develop new interests and preferences. She believed that with age, people become better at understanding and appreciating perspectives different from their own, which can lead to a broader range of interests.
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Lastly, she spoke about self-discovery, and stated, "As individuals grow older, they often explore different aspects of their identity, which includes their preferences. This exploration is a part of figuring out who they are and what they enjoy."
Well, what a rollercoaster it is to simply be a human! No wonder we experience so many changes in our preferences, the older we grow. And now, we come to you. We want to know about the things that you started loving as you grew older. So, just feel free to jot it down in the comments.
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Shockingly enough, when there's nothing to do... I actually sit back and do nothing.
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