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“Lived Like This Until 21”: 50 Times People Found Out Their Bodies Were Different From The ‘Norm’
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“Lived Like This Until 21”: 50 Times People Found Out Their Bodies Were Different From The ‘Norm’

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Many of us are so used to how we perceive things that we barely think about how things could be different, on a sensory level. But here’s the rub: the way we see, hear, and interact with the world in our day-to-day lives can be very different from how others experience it. Sometimes, it takes a doctor’s appointment, a random test, or an objective outsider’s comment to make us realize that something’s very different about our bodies.
Some of the braver members of the AskReddit community opened up about their personal biological quirks that they were stunned to learn about, from suddenly realizing that they’re color-blind to having rare allergies and more. Keep scrolling for their stories.

#1

“Lived Like This Until 21”: 50 Times People Found Out Their Bodies Were Different From The ‘Norm’
I was 22 when I found out I barely had a sense of smell. Random allergy test for something else flagged up some weird lactose intolerance thing that knocks the smelling device in my headholes on its a**e when I eat dairy. Gave up dairy for a few weeks. Turns out the world f*****g stinks, and life without cheese or milky delicious cereal isn't worth living. No regrets.

[eats large piece of cheese].
141points

#2

“Lived Like This Until 21”: 50 Times People Found Out Their Bodies Were Different From The ‘Norm’
I didn't know until I was in my twenties that people had different faces, unless there was something usual like a really big nose or a scar. Turns out I have me some face blindness. When I was working in a grocery store around 2000, I saw this woman walk in. I thought she was really cute, so I watched her as she shopped in the produce section. It wasn't until she came up to me a greeted me that I realized she was my then live-in girlfriend. Once I learned there was something called face blindness, it kind of changed my life.
138points

#3

“Lived Like This Until 21”: 50 Times People Found Out Their Bodies Were Different From The ‘Norm’
I thought music has colours for everyone until I realised no one understands what i'm talking about. 10 years later I discovered there's actually a name for it - synaesthesia. Thanks, criminal minds :)
124points

Everybody has their biological and behavioral quirks; there’s no way around it. But they can be a real nuisance. Someone might feel self-conscious that their ears are a certain shape or that they constantly sneeze whenever they get near cute and cuddly animals. Someone else might find it exhausting that they can’t dine out with their friends as often as they’d like due to their numerous food allergies. Or someone’s still shocked that they’re actually color-blind and literally see their environment differently from most other people.

It can be emotionally taxing dealing with all of this. And nobody’s dismissing the impact of these biological quirks. However, reframing how you view them can reduce some of that anxiety you feel. For instance, instead of seeing your color blindness as a ‘burden,’ you could try to see it as something of a superpower or cool mutation.

On the other hand, instead of focusing on your uniqueness, you could go the other way and look for commonality. There are likely millions of other people around the globe with similar genetic mutations as you. There’s strength in finding a community that can support you.


#4

“Lived Like This Until 21”: 50 Times People Found Out Their Bodies Were Different From The ‘Norm’
Period pains that no otc d***s would touch and that kept me home from school several days every month.

I was just told it was the curse of being a woman and that periods are supposed to hurt.

Turns out I have endometriosis and the pain was caused by internal bleeding every period.

Thanks mom.
123points

#5

“Lived Like This Until 21”: 50 Times People Found Out Their Bodies Were Different From The ‘Norm’
My science teacher held up a color blind test, the one with all the colored dots, and everyone in class is yelling out the answers and I'm looking at them like the guy at the beginning of Ghostbusters getting shocked and wondering how the girl is getting them right. This cleared up a lot of confusion with my crayons.
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112points

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Being born with only one ear and a few other issues with my face. Potential diagnosis of mild Goldenhar's. I thought it was the best thing ever and totally normal until I got to school and tried to make friends. Nobody likes the ugly freak. Had a new ear created in 2001/2002 by the wonderfully renowned Dr. David Matthews of NC. It failed and had to be removed. They never learned why. I've since accepted it and no longer give a f**k what others think about it.
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According to Enchroma, there are a whopping 350 million people who are color-blind on our planet. Though this is far from the majority, it’s such a large minority that you never have to feel alone with your condition if you get diagnosed with it. Literally a third of a billion other human beings know what you’re going through and can potentially guide and support you. That being said, it’s still not an easy life.

Color blindness affects around 1 in 12 men, as well as 1 in 200 women. 90% of color-blind people admitted that it does affect them at work, while 75% said that they need their colleagues’ help to verify certain colors.

Around half of students with this condition are less interested in drawing, painting, and art galleries. And more than half of color-blind women revealed that they left out of activities like shopping, makeup, and fashion, where color plays a key role. Furthermore, nearly half of all color-blind people didn’t find out about their condition until the 7th grade.


#7

“Lived Like This Until 21”: 50 Times People Found Out Their Bodies Were Different From The ‘Norm’
My internal monologue is entirely in song. My mind is a musical and I didn't know that was odd till I was talking to my GF when I was like 25...
99points

#8

“Lived Like This Until 21”: 50 Times People Found Out Their Bodies Were Different From The ‘Norm’
Being able to dislocate one of my shoulders at will.

An orthopaedic consultant then told me that I shouldn't do it even if the Queen asked me to. Fortunately that situation has never actually arisen.
86points

#9

“Lived Like This Until 21”: 50 Times People Found Out Their Bodies Were Different From The ‘Norm’
I genuinely believed that everyone's hands and feet turned blue in the winter, and hurt all the time during the summer, or in high temperatures.

Turns out I just have Reynaud's Phenomenon.
86points

What are some of your biological quirks that you were shocked to learn about, dear Pandas? How did you realize that your life experience is different from that of the folks around you?

How do your biological differences affect your life, whether for better or for worse? What advice would you give anyone who’s shocked to learn that their body works rather unusually? Let us know in the comments!


#10

“Lived Like This Until 21”: 50 Times People Found Out Their Bodies Were Different From The ‘Norm’
My best friend got glasses when she was 10. Until that point she had no idea that trees had individual leaves on them, she thought they were just green blobs on brown trunks like you draw when you are a kid.

Edit: To clarify, of course she knew they had leaves, but she just thought they fell from the big fluffy tree blobs. Not sure about if she had climbed a tree, maybe she was just too busy playing to make the connection.
85points

#11

“Lived Like This Until 21”: 50 Times People Found Out Their Bodies Were Different From The ‘Norm’
The constant ringing in my ears. Took me years to realise that not everyone experienced it and it was actually tinnitus.
80points

#12

“Lived Like This Until 21”: 50 Times People Found Out Their Bodies Were Different From The ‘Norm’
Hypermobility - apparently it freaks people out if you stand with your knees bending the wrong way.
78points

#13

Turns out its not normal to have constant feeling of fight or flight due to anxiety.
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77points

#14

Food would routinely be very hard to swallow.
Often would get stuck and involve either throwing it up or forcing it down with other food or water.
Lived like this until 21.
Turns out I had eosinophilic esophagitis. It's basically a constriction of the esophagus due to allergic reactions that are more or less permanent without treatment.
I sought after medical help, upon my first endoscopy the scope found my throat to be 7mm in diameter.
A normal one is 20mm for comparison. I've since had upwards of 10 dilatations to achieve a normal status of 15mm.
All is well now.
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77points

#15

“Lived Like This Until 21”: 50 Times People Found Out Their Bodies Were Different From The ‘Norm’
I didn't realize people breathed through their noses till I was 18. I thought they were just there for occasionally smelling things. Turns out I had a severely deviated septum.
75points

#16

“Lived Like This Until 21”: 50 Times People Found Out Their Bodies Were Different From The ‘Norm’
The two little toes next to my big toe are connected part way up. My mums are the same. Didn't know it was weird until i bought toe socks when i was about 10 and they really hurt my toes so i told my dad and he was just like yeah you and your mum are actual freaks.
74points

#17

“Lived Like This Until 21”: 50 Times People Found Out Their Bodies Were Different From The ‘Norm’
My friend has a 3-inch tail, he didn't seem to think that was abnormal until I told him no one else has tails.
73points

#18

For decades I just sort of assumed everyone's head would fill up with these terrifying, violent scenarios that would make you feel like a terrible person. It was either that or I was a psychopath. I figured everyone felt the need to do stupid little things like me, but it turns out saying a made-up prayer in your head every time you have a violent intrusive thought to keep yourself from going to hell is abnormal.

I found out much later that OCD wasn't always just counting steps while wanting everything neat and tidy.

(edit): To anyone reading or commenting here, now thinking they have OCD or any other related illness - trust not what you read on the internet to give you a diagnosis. Take what you've read and written here and think long and hard; if you still feel that my experience fits your symptoms, talk to your doctor, male an appointment with a therapist or psychiatrist and be open and honest about what you experience. Leave it to experts who are sitting in front of you to diagnose what you're experiencing.
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#19

“Lived Like This Until 21”: 50 Times People Found Out Their Bodies Were Different From The ‘Norm’
I never thought much about the weird yellowish lumps I'd sometimes find in my mouth until I realised they were tonsil stones and not everyone gets them.
70points

#20

I thought everybody got itchy and bumpy in the cold. Then a friend told me my face was terribly swollen. I was diagnosed with "Cold Urticaria". I am literally allergic to the cold. And I live in Michigan.
69points
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