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58 Misogynists Tried To Explain Women But Ended Up Embarrassing Themselves (New Pics)

58 Misogynists Tried To Explain Women But Ended Up Embarrassing Themselves (New Pics)

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In 2024, the world was home to roughly 8.06 billion people: 4.09 billion men and 4.05 billion women. And, even though nearly half the planet is female, countless men still remain completely unaware of what it’s like to be a woman.From everyday experiences to bigger struggles, this lack of understanding isn’t just baffling, it’s exhausting, frustrating, and sometimes deeply unfair.
The subreddit “Not How Girls Work” exposes this in stark detail, and we’ve gathered some of the most absurd, misguided, and telling examples of what men have said about women directly from its threads. The posts range from irritating misconceptions to outright harmful attitudes, highlighting how far some people are from truly understanding women’s lives. It’s infuriating, yes, but also a reminder of why awareness, empathy, and honest conversations about gender are more important than ever.

#1 Preach

Preach
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#2 We’re Looking Out For Each Other, That’s Why We’re Calling Out Predatory Behavior

We’re Looking Out For Each Other, That’s Why We’re Calling Out Predatory Behavior
151points

#3 And This My Friends, Is A Huge Part Of The Problem Right There

And This My Friends, Is A Huge Part Of The Problem Right There
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Misogyny isn’t something you learn in school or college, and yet, here we are in 2025, seeing it surface in all sorts of places. So where does it come from? Often, it’s the small things people absorb every day: offhand remarks, jokes that put women down, or even the way it’s portrayed online. Actions in real life matter too. 

For instance, when a father mistreats his wife in front of his son, it’s not just the woman who suffers; that boy is quietly learning that this behavior is acceptable. These lessons, subtle as they may seem, add up over time, shaping attitudes before anyone ever sits down for a formal “lesson” in respect or empathy. IIn many ways, the daily environment becomes the classroom, and sadly, misogyny might appear as an early lesson.

#4 Uh Huh

Uh Huh
135points

#5 Found On Another Sub

Found On Another Sub
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#6 Whys There An Expiration Date At All

Whys There An Expiration Date At All
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Unfortunately, in today’s digital world, misogyny is spreading faster than ever online. Social media, forums, and even comment sections can become breeding grounds for harmful ideas about gender. According to a UN Women report, online content frequently fuels backlash against feminism while reinforcing outdated and limiting notions of what men and women “should” do. These messages don’t just stay online, they shape attitudes, influence behavior, and normalize disrespect over time. Repeated exposure to such content can make biased ideas seem acceptable, even to those who wouldn’t consciously endorse them.

#7 Too Many Incels Gatekeeping Gaming

Too Many Incels Gatekeeping Gaming
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#8 Cuz Our DNA Magically Changes…totally How That Works 🙄

Cuz Our DNA Magically Changes…totally How That Works 🙄
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#9 Ah Yes, It’s As Simple As Controlling Our Bladders

Ah Yes, It’s As Simple As Controlling Our Bladders
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Building on these findings, studies exploring misogynistic content online have used a variety of terms to describe it, including “gender cyber hatred,” “cyber harassment,” “gender trolling,” “e-bile,” and “gender hate speech.” Each term captures a slightly different aspect of how hostility toward women and girls manifests in digital spaces, from targeted harassment to more subtle forms of online mistreatment.

Researchers use these distinctions to better understand patterns, impacts, and the ways in which misogyny spreads. By labeling and analyzing these behaviors, it becomes easier to highlight the real-world consequences of what might otherwise seem like “just words on a screen.” Over time, these studies have revealed the pervasive nature of online misogyny and its influence on social attitudes, online culture, and even offline interactions.

#10 Tampons Are So Affordable Now, I Decided To Have 2 Periods Just For The Fun Of It

Tampons Are So Affordable Now, I Decided To Have 2 Periods Just For The Fun Of It
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#11 ‘Women Get Diseases From Armpit Hair’💀

‘Women Get Diseases From Armpit Hair’💀
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#12 What About Little Girls Who Want A Puppy? I'm Disgusted

What About Little Girls Who Want A Puppy? I'm Disgusted
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These online attacks are not harmless: they can have real psychological and social effects on the targets. Women and girls subjected to repeated harassment or demeaning comments may experience stress, anxiety, and even fear when engaging online. Beyond the personal impact, these behaviors can silence voices, discourage participation in digital spaces, and reinforce a culture where misogynistic attitudes go unchallenged. When hostility becomes normalized, it not only affects individuals but also shapes the broader online environment, making it more difficult to foster respectful, inclusive conversations.

#13 Some Of My Favorite Comments Left By Men On A Video Of A 6th Grade Teacher Talking About Supplying Period Products In Her Classroom

Some Of My Favorite Comments Left By Men On A Video Of A 6th Grade Teacher Talking About Supplying Period Products In Her Classroom
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#14 Til Women Are Actually Farms

Til Women Are Actually Farms
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#15 Found This Absolutely Disgusting Comment On A Thread About A Man Who’s Wife Doesn’t Want To Sleep Him Anymore

Found This Absolutely Disgusting Comment On A Thread About A Man Who’s Wife Doesn’t Want To Sleep Him Anymore
This abysmal human made one of the worst comments I’ve ever seen on here IMO.
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Thankfully, people online often call out misogyny for what it is, holding outdated or harmful views accountable. There are some clear signs to watch for, especially when men react negatively to a woman’s achievements. For instance, if she shares a professional milestone and the comments focus more on belittling her than celebrating her, that’s a big red flag.

Misogynistic attitudes often come through in ways that suggest women “shouldn’t” be successful, ambitious, or recognized. Sometimes it’s subtle: a dismissive joke, a snide remark, or a comment undermining her confidence. Other times, it’s more blatant, questioning her worth or abilities outright. Seeing these patterns helps us recognize the problem instead of normalizing it. The more we notice it, the easier it becomes to call it out.

#16 You Dodged An Entire Missile. He Was A Sicko

You Dodged An Entire Missile. He Was A Sicko
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#17 Gross, Women Are Not Fruit, And Why Does 13 Count For 'Ripe' 🤢

Gross, Women Are Not Fruit, And Why Does 13 Count For 'Ripe' 🤢
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#18 What Consent Is This One Talking About? Anyone Care To Explain Me?

What Consent Is This One Talking About? Anyone Care To Explain Me?
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Another common sign of online misogyny is when men comment on what a woman wears. If someone posts a picture and the responses focus more on her clothing, appearance, or body than on the content of her post, that’s a warning sign. Sometimes it’s subtle, “nice outfit” turned into a backhanded compliment or unnecessary critique.

Other times, it’s more aggressive, trying to shame or control what she chooses to wear. These comments often reveal an underlying belief that women’s value lies in their looks rather than their ideas or accomplishments. Over time, repeated remarks like this can chip away at confidence and create a toxic environment. It’s not just about one-off comments, it’s about seeing the consistent ways women are judged differently.

#19 What Do You Think Ladies? Friend Posted This On Her Facebook

What Do You Think Ladies? Friend Posted This On Her Facebook
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#20 They Think That Women Could Only Possibly Game “For Attention”

They Think That Women Could Only Possibly Game “For Attention”
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