30 Not-That-Obvious Signs That Show That Someone Isn’t A Good Person, As Shared In This Online Group

They mistreat animals.

Littering. It's not a violent act or anything, but it does indicate a lack of respect that usually carries into other aspects of the person's life.

How they treat people in the service industry. When they act like they are better than waiters, fast food employees, or retail workers.

Their treatment of the weakest members of society including defenceless animals, the homeless and those in low service positions.

Not owning up to their mistakes and always attributing it to someone or something else.

They don’t put the shopping cart in the designated area and leave it randomly in the parking lot.

They have a habit of talking bad about other people behind their backs and spreading gossip and rumor. You can tell a lot about a person by observing how they talk about their peers behind their back.
When a person occasionally vents by talking bad about someone (like their boss, or classmate) because of some unpleasant experience, that's okay. We all do it. But when a person habitually talks s**t about people behind their back, that's a big red flag.

When they talk about themselves then stop listening when u talk about yourself

They believe that respect is earned but demand it immediately from you.

Casual unnecessary lying

When they see someone else's progress or success as a threat.

I've learned that when someone is claiming to be really "direct" or "blunt" or "honest" it is often a self justification for being controlling and rude.

All their exes are crazy and nothing negative is ever their fault.

When they don't say things like thank you or please.

I just automatically assume people are a**holes when they can't do these basic, easy acts of kindness.

Passively aggressively insulting you in front of a group of people in such a way that you can’t say anything back without looking like you’re the emotional one even though you know that they intentionally insulted you to disrespect you.

The common denominator. They fall out with people all the time but it’s always the other persons fault or family members don’t talk to them but that’s not their fault because they’ve done nothing wrong.
It’s never them, it’s always everyone else is out to get them or is unreasonable, yet they’re the only common denominator in all the situations with all these supposedly shitty people

They demand forgiveness instead of asking for it.

"I said I was sorry, it's done now. Get over it."

can't respect boundaries

They share private information about others with you

Doesn’t help other people unless it benefits themself