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30 American Norms That Stun Europeans
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30 American Norms That Stun Europeans

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For many people, one of the most fascinating things about traveling is getting acquainted with different cultures. Whether they evoke a culture shock or are surprisingly similar to what one is used to, it’s always interesting to see how people elsewhere live.
Those who’ve traveled rather far from home know that one rule often applies – the bigger the distance, the larger the differences. Take the US and Europe, for instance; roughly 5423 kilometers—or almost 3370 miles—apart, measuring the distance between New York and Lisbon, just as an example, the two places might feel like two different worlds, and not only because of the language or the currency used.
The cultural differences between the US and Europe were recently discussed by members of the ‘Ask Reddit’ community, after one user asked them about things in the US that seem totally normal to Americans, but difficult for Europeans to wrap their heads around. Quite a few netizens shared their thoughts, so if you’re curious to see what things they pointed to, scroll down to find their answers on the list below.
Below you will also find Bored Panda’s interview with Dr. Erika Doss, a historian of American art and culture, and Edith O'Donnell, Distinguished Chair in Art History at the University of Texas at Dallas.

#1

30 American Norms That Stun Europeans
How they get more pissed off at abortions than school shootings.
123points

#2

30 American Norms That Stun Europeans
Having a felon for a President.
100points

#3

30 American Norms That Stun Europeans
Not letting cashiers sit the f**k down. Blows my mind.
97points

Culture shock can happen anywhere, even when visiting a neighboring country. But nowadays, people can be exposed to different cultures even without having to leave home.

Talking about cultural differences, Dr. Erika Doss, a historian of American art and culture, noted that cultural diversity is much more interesting, even inspiring, than cultural monotony. “Think of food diversity,” she suggested, adding that she’s sharing her thoughts from an American’s perspective. “Few people eat the same thing every day and Americans love how their palate has dramatically enlarged in recent years—Pad Thai! Tacos! Falafel! Kimchi!

“Still, many Americans fear difference when it is represented by religion, race, and politics that they don’t share and don’t understand. Global eating is ok but global sovereignty is rejected,” the expert noted.

#4

30 American Norms That Stun Europeans
To me, the fact that the tax isnt included in the price in a gorcery store. The price i see shall be the price i pay. I ain't doing extra math.
93points

#5

30 American Norms That Stun Europeans
Holding bake sales to pay for your kid’s chemotherapy. This is unheard of in all civilized countries.
93points

According to Dr. Doss, there are many factors that shape each and every culture. “Contemporary American culture, or the culture of the United States, is shaped by class, money, race, region, and mythology – as in, which American myths people believe in, such as the founding of the nation (why, by whom, and for whom), who won the Civil War (and who lost, and why it was fought), the conquest of the American West, the idea that hard work leads to success, and so on.”

The expert added that the way American culture is nowadays was also significantly influenced by media, especially social media.

#6

30 American Norms That Stun Europeans
"I know I should have this concerning medical issue examined by a doctor, but I can't afford it, so I won't.".
80points

#7

30 American Norms That Stun Europeans
Half-ton pickup trucks as daily drivers.
79points

#8

30 American Norms That Stun Europeans
The contradiction between:

* Thinking The US is the best country ever, and that everybody wants to move there.
* Associating themselves so strongly with countries they've never been to because they have ancestors from there.
73points

Many people see exposure to different cultures as a positive. And for a reason! Immersing yourself into an environment or a culture yet unexplored can lead to discovering new tastes, smells, views, sounds, and much more.

“Think music,” Dr. Doss suggested, talking about how acquainting oneself with different cultures can benefit a person. “Global influences have infinitely enriched the American sound.”

#9

30 American Norms That Stun Europeans
Free and accessible toilets everywhere, diaper changing stations in men’s rooms, ADA…some things America does very well.
71points

#10

30 American Norms That Stun Europeans
The sheer amount of guns in domestic ownership. Absolutely crazy.
70points

#11

30 American Norms That Stun Europeans
How few vacation days the average worker has/uses. In most of Europe the minimum is 25 days.
68points

The expert added that Americans—as well as people from other countries—could really benefit from global travel. Some studies suggest that living in and adapting to a new country is linked with improved creativity. In addition to that, it can be linked to a happy and full tummy, as for many people, one of the best things about traveling and getting acquainted with different cultures is food.

Some sources suggest that in 2023, the global culinary tourism market size was estimated at $11.5 billion dollars, thanks to consumers spending on travel and tourism and thanks to their desire to try locally sourced products and explore new cultures through food.

#12

30 American Norms That Stun Europeans
Here in the UK 🇬🇧

100 miles is a long way,

In America

100 years is a long time !
65points

#13

30 American Norms That Stun Europeans
A judicial system where judges ae put in place by politicians.
57points

#14

30 American Norms That Stun Europeans
Pledge of allegiance every morning in school. Bizarre.
55points

#15

30 American Norms That Stun Europeans
Saying "thoughts and prayers" after every mass shooting.
51points

#16

30 American Norms That Stun Europeans
They will let you die to protect medical industry profits. In Europe ambulances, hospitals, and doctors, are a public service. When I needed to see a doctor in England I just walked in and asked to see one. They got me in, even though I was 240 miles from home, and I left with a prescription and a letter for my doctor to update his records. No bill. The very idea of a medical bill for seeing a doctor is foreign. I used to think it was a mistake in American TV and movies.
49points

#17

30 American Norms That Stun Europeans
As a Brit married to an American and working in the US here are my findings about things that are different. I love the US dearly so please don’t think I’m being mean.

- in general Americans don’t know anything like as much about our countries as we know about theirs. We know what a 401k is. What Medicare is. What an Ivy League school is. Probably can name most of the states. Then you’ll talk to an American and they’ll not know Wales exists.

- job security. To lose my job 5 years in would be quite a process, would mean I would need to be made redundant and given a severance package or given multiple written and verbal notices that I wasn’t doing what I’m supposed to before I was let go. If I want to leave I need to give several months notice. I’m the us you can get fired for fun, and even in senior roles only need to give a couple of weeks.

- it is one country, but the differences between New York, Alabama, Montana, and Miami are in my opinion more that uk to Denmark, Germany, France. It’s a MASSIVE country, phiysically and culturally.

- In the UK having the English or British flag on your house basically means you’re a racist. Or very into the royal family. Or both.

- Not having a car in some states means you basically can’t go anywhere. I live in one of the world’s biggest cities and I don’t have a car, but in LA I was screwed.

- Commercials for d***s are insane, talking about “moderate to severe ulcerative colitis” in the same way as a new car blows my mind

- Politics is a lot more front and centre in the US. Politicians in the UK are seen as faintly ridiculous

- the hustle culture of the US is admirable but difficult to wrap my head round. When we are not at work or on holiday, we are gone. In the US my colleagues are always always on call, and even if on vacation will get on calls or answer emails. Most of my US colleagues just don’t take holiday. I get in trouble if I DON’T take all my minimum 28 days.

- The 2nd amendment is something brits will never understand. I get the irony of that statement given what it was put there for in the first place.

- Americans think nothing of a 3 or 4 hour drive even making the return journey the same day. This would not be attempted in the uk without a couple of days in between. An hour commute is brutal for a Brit

- I don’t have scientific data. But Americans ALWAYS seem to be carrying a drink. Always.

- Tumble driers and washing machines are vastly superior in the US

- As are sandwiches. Bread is better in the UK though

- Americans have this idea that service is really good there, which is absolutely not my experience. Yes of course I tip, and tip well, I just think overall the service I get tends to be speed over everything

- I am jealous of the “welcome home ma’am” my wife gets at immigration. We do not get that in the uk.

- most brits aren’t scared of the police in the slightest, and they are generally trusted. Obvs ymmv here but there’s less of a ACAB mentality

- Generalising, but the casual confidence Americans have is very unusual to us. The idea of just striking up a conversation with a stranger in the uk is a terrifying one.
48points

#18

30 American Norms That Stun Europeans
The absence of sidewalks. And the absence of a walkable city center that is not just one mall.
45points

#19

30 American Norms That Stun Europeans
Churches. Every little town in the South seems have as many churches as houses. And people like to show and tell how super religious they are. Also, the US version of Christianity is weird - so much End Times and Old Testament horror.
41points

#20

30 American Norms That Stun Europeans
The absolute emptiness of wilderness areas. We were on a week hike and ran into a Frenchman hiking the other way who had been living on a packet of soy beans for the three days since he began his hike. Based on his European hiking experiences, he had planned to buy food when passing through villages or by farms throughout each day. He was like, "Where are the farmers? Where are the sheep? Where are the villages?"

We let him know that in the US, when the trails ran though wilderness, national parks, national forests, or even state parks that there was nothing there. He could go days without happening across civilization. We fed him a good meal and gave him enough supplies to get him the few days to the next place to get supplies, so it turned out okay for him. He simply couldn't comprehend the vast emptiness of it all.
40points
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