It’s practically a cliche to say that you shouldn’t pursue a partner just for their looks, but there is no denying that we humans are attracted to pretty things. But most of us have the good sense to realize that it’s important to still keep a few “lines in the sand”, no matter how good someone looks.
Someone asked “What’s a non-physical quality that can make someone instantly unattractive, no matter how good they look?” and people listed the things that gave them the ick. So get comfortable as you scroll through, upvote your favorites and be sure to share your own examples in the comments below.
#1
There is no such thing as a handsome pigeon kicker. If you are cruel to animals, or beggars, or disabled people, you are extremely unattractive.
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108points
#2
Anti-vax. I just won't even consider dating someone who is anti-vax.
95points
#3
-A guy who's unkind to women he doesn't find attractive. HUGE red flag.
-Complaining about wokeness and using slurs.
-Voted for Trump.
-Complaining about wokeness and using slurs.
-Voted for Trump.
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88points
#4
Being ungrateful.
There are millions of people on Earth who are just trying to stay alive, but Bradley over here is ungrateful that his parents bought the wrong iPhone.
There are millions of people on Earth who are just trying to stay alive, but Bradley over here is ungrateful that his parents bought the wrong iPhone.
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78points
#5
Always on their phone when they are in a social situation.
72points
#6
Inability under any circumstances to say; hello, please, thank you, or sorry.
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70points
#8
Being a negative person all the time. A "woe is me" attitude is so irritating.
68points
#9
Being condescending. Doesn't matter how attractive you are — if you talk down to people like you're better than them, it's game over.
68points
#10
Having a nasty personality. I just went on a date with a guy that pulled out his dating app and showed me pictures of other women on there while he made fun of them. He’s a prosecutor. Did not go on another date with him.
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67points
#12
Playing the victim with the inability to admit fault.
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64points
#14
Spitting. You’re not cool and you are making the world uglier than it was before you arrived. You are disgusting and an idiot.
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62points
#15
25 years ago, I broke it off with a smokin' hot Latin American lawyer with millions of dollars, his own vineyard, and excellent bedroom skills because he snapped his fingers at a waitress in a busy-a*s bar. Instant, incurable ick.
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59points
#16
Heavy drinking. Like black out drinking. Like get your life together.
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57points
#17
Noisy eaters, chewing with their mouth open. Gotta walk away.
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55points
#18
Being excessively loud, trying to dominate conversations.
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54points
#19
I was walking down the street with an ex and we walked by a homeless person on the sidewalk. She said, "ugh I wish they'd all die. They're so gross."
That's when I knew.
That's when I knew.
53points
#20
Leaving their shopping cart somewhere other than the cert return.
49points