Truly, there is nothing shameful about asking for help. However, some people still feel like it’s taboo for them to openly discuss their problems, mental health issues, and the emotional turmoil they might be going through. So they close up and try to repress these things. However, there are some subtle cues to look out for that can tell you when somebody might need your help. Whether they’re simply looking for some sympathy or they desperately need your advice.
The friendly folks over on Reddit went above and beyond this time and listed the various signs that they found to actually be cries for help. Frankly, it’s completely eye-opening. And it made a lot of people realize that they may have missed a lot of silent pleas for help. Have a read through the top answers below and upvote the ones that you think are particularly accurate. Got any other signs to share with us? Let us know in the comment section, dear Pandas.
I reached out to redditor IncessantlyBored about their viral thread and had an in-depth talk with them about the importance of noticing these subtle cries for help. The redditor explained to Bored Panda that the pandemic and lockdowns have had very powerful negative effects on some of their friends' mental health.
"I came up with the question because I was genuinely curious as to the answer. I spent the last 16 months sheltered, like many people, alone in my house not seeing many friends or family because of the pandemic. Now that we are all vaccinated and going out and about again, I’ve noticed that some of my friends have changed. Some seem more withdrawn. Some seem to be struggling. It’s like the 16 months of solitude had lasting effects that didn’t end post-pandemic," IncessantlyBored opened up to Bored Panda.
#21
Being more silent than usual. A lot of people miss it, or out of of as being ignorant. No that person is struggling and scared of judgement or abandonment.
64points
#22
Becoming attached to objects or other non-human things is one I have noticed quite a lot about some people I know who have struggled.
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63points
#23
Purposely avoiding sad and difficult topics. Sometimes when a person is constantly feeling like s**t, the last thing they want to do is bring up more negativity when hanging out with people they enjoy being around. Oftentimes being with friends/family can be a brief escape from always feeling awful, and so bringing up negative topics can ruin this feeling of escape and make the depression feel never-ending and suffocating.
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62points
#24
Reckless behavior. It's not always "funny" or badass. There is often a "nothing matters anymore" thought behind or a deep feeling of emtyness which can be filled for a short time with risky behavior.
Leaving a group of people, sometimes even online, without an obvious reason. Some people tend to go away or even push away because they want to see if there is an opposite reaction, like testing if they are still wanted in a situation. Not all people who isolate want to be alone.
When somebody acts like they hadn't much time left, even if they seem to have. Not really a cry for help, but maybe a suicide red flag. I do it myself. I often stress about how I want to do some things in a small ammount of time because I really don't plan living past a year from now.
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58points
#25
Marked differences in behavior where the person becomes way more positive and energetic than normal. We tend to think of these sorts of changes as being good, but any sudden and large enough change in behavior is something you need to keep an eye on. This is especially true if they are going from a very negative pattern of thinking/behavior into an uber-positive one very quickly.
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52points
#27
Bad decisions looking for short term happiness with no regard for how it will damage their life in the long run.
Getting a neck tattoo, buying a Mitsubishi, that sort of thing.
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37points
