#21 My Ex’s Reply When I Told Her I Was Going To Break Up With Her For Cheating On Me
This key factor that she talks about can be any a variety of things, from him being married to a huge age difference and him having some type of addiction.
"As a rule of thumb, you choose a man that for some reason is unavailable to fully commit to a relationship. You stay with him as long as that barrier is there so you have something to fight for. This way you hide your own fear and easily 'blame' it on him. The mindset is: 'If he only did this or that...'"
Popescu says she has thought a lot about how women can overcome the nice girl syndrome. She thinks that once they realize that they might be suffering from it, they should consciously choose to act and think differently.
"Just be curious and open about it," she advises. "Don't take yourself too seriously. Laugh when you catch yourself acting automatically as a nice girl."
"There is a beautiful, authentic you underneath the mask. Do yourself and the world a huge favor and let it shine!"
If you are interested in other ways this syndrome manifests in people, fire up our earlier publications: 40 Examples Of ‘Nice Girls’, A Female Equivalent Of The Toxic ‘Nice Guys’ and 35 Times People Didn’t Let The “Nice Girl” Act Slide, And They Got Shamed On This Group.
#37 Ex Gfs Last Message I Ever Read. She Really Went Out Of Her Way To Take A Stab. Never Responded. Blocked Out Identifying Info
