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30 Delulu Women Who Think They Deserve The World But Actually Need A Reality Check (New Pics)

30 Delulu Women Who Think They Deserve The World But Actually Need A Reality Check (New Pics)

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Many men fall victim to toxic masculinity, an undesirable trait, to say the least. Women also have their fair share of unhinged moments, which you will see on today’s list. 
We’ve compiled a list of screenshots from the Nice Girls subreddit. Don’t let the name fool you. These show the ugly side of being a female, which, for some men, is the stuff of nightmares and trauma
You’re about to read posts featuring toxic text exchanges, ‘entitled woman’ tendencies, and unhealthy attachment behaviors. Consider these the glaring red flags you must avoid at all costs. 

#1 Wlw: My Charming Ex Girlfriend Gets Scary

Wlw: My Charming Ex Girlfriend Gets Scary
98points

#2 One Date And Hardly Spoke

One Date And Hardly Spoke
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83points

#3 Invest In Cat Food Fellas

Invest In Cat Food Fellas
70points

Many of the screenshots you’ll see on this list feature what experts refer to as an anxious attachment style. The Cleveland Clinic defines it as an insecure attachment that begins in childhood, where a primary caregiver fails to provide ample care and attention. 

In adult relationships, it may manifest through clingy and needy behavior. It may also come in the form of its polar opposite, where the person is untrusting. In both cases, the fear of abandonment is the common denominator.

#4 Gave My Number To A Lady At Church That I Was Told Was In Charge Of Coordinating Ministry Programs And Events. I Later Found Out That Was A Lie And She Was Not Involved In Any Of That

Gave My Number To A Lady At Church That I Was Told Was In Charge Of Coordinating Ministry Programs And Events. I Later Found Out That Was A Lie And She Was Not Involved In Any Of That
62points

#5 Alcohol Or Unhinged

Alcohol Or Unhinged
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58points

#6 Had Me In The First Half Ngl (Not Mine)

Had Me In The First Half Ngl (Not Mine)
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54points

Recent research has shown that women are more prone to developing an anxious attachment style. Men, on the other hand, develop an avoidant attachment style where they tend to distance themselves from romance-related anxieties. 

According to brain science innovator Dr. Srini Pillay, it’s how humans are naturally wired, and both sexes deal with adverse reactions differently. 

“Because the brain is geared to focus on negative things (presumably to protect us), we all tend to see the negative things under a magnifying glass,” Dr. Pillay wrote in an article for HuffPost.

#7 I Used To Be A Nice Girl

I Used To Be A Nice Girl
52points

#8 Speaking For Less Than 1 Day After Matching On Hinge, Have 1 Facetime Call. Asks For Money

Speaking For Less Than 1 Day After Matching On Hinge, Have 1 Facetime Call. Asks For Money
51points

#9 What In The Actual F#*% Lmao

What In The Actual F#*% Lmao
50points

Dr. Pillay says the differing attachment styles between men and women typically push couples to bail from the relationship instead of trying to get to the root of the problem. 

“Women may become resentful that men are ‘clueless’ or not feeling the anxiety that they are feeling,” he wrote, adding that a man’s usual reaction would be to resent their female partners for being too “high-strung” about “simple issues.”

#10 What A Nice Girl, Right?

What A Nice Girl, Right?
45points

#11 Matched, Immediately Went To Snap. This Was About 10 Minutes Into Talking

Matched, Immediately Went To Snap. This Was About 10 Minutes Into Talking
44points

#12 Finally Blocked Her.. (I Feel Like Im Being Trolled Now)

Finally Blocked Her.. (I Feel Like Im Being Trolled Now)
Told myself i’d block her when it stopped being funny. Spoiler, it’s stopped being funny. I don’t know if i’m being trolled but the way she is so angry from not responding for two hours is very concerning. I feel like she may have some mental health issues because this isn’t normal behavior.
43points

To avoid unnecessary arguments from happening, Dr. Pillay advises understanding these default behavior patterns. And instead of throwing criticisms, recognize each one’s need for commitment. 

“The more we are aware of how we respond in romance, the better we will understand both ourselves and the partners with whom we have chosen to explore this life,” he wrote.

#13 Girl Blew Up After I Told Her We Were Done

Girl Blew Up After I Told Her We Were Done
41points

#14 Met This Girl The Night My Grandma Died She Was Aware Of Both Dates

Met This Girl The Night My Grandma Died She Was Aware Of Both Dates
36points

#15 If "Nice Girls" Was A Couple Shirt. This Makes Me Cringe So Hard

If "Nice Girls" Was A Couple Shirt. This Makes Me Cringe So Hard
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35points

Now, we’d like to ask our readers. Gentlemen, have you encountered these unhinged reactions from women you’ve dated? Ladies, what do you think brings about these behaviors? Let’s start a discussion in the comments!

#16 Went To A Family Event And Didn’t Text For About 3 Hours

Went To A Family Event And Didn’t Text For About 3 Hours
34points

#17 Memories Of My Bpd Ex

Memories Of My Bpd Ex
34points

#18 This Reaction To Not Giving Her Money For Nudes

This Reaction To Not Giving Her Money For Nudes
33points

#19 The Whole 3 Hours We Were At The Restaurant, She Was Kinda Laying On Her Seat, Constantly Texting

The Whole 3 Hours We Were At The Restaurant, She Was Kinda Laying On Her Seat, Constantly Texting
32points

#20 My Ex’s Character Is On Full Display After We Broke Up Almost 3 Months Ago

My Ex’s Character Is On Full Display After We Broke Up Almost 3 Months Ago
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32points
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